Irony Of Life – Personal Experience

Actually I have seen countless reasons to stay mute in some certain issues that has to do with people’s lifestyle in the society. I have seen countless reasons why I shouldn’t judge people by their mode of dressing, by their look or by our thoughts.

PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

So I was a bit hot in the afternoon and decided to take a walk down to the street for some cuddling, because it has actually been a while I join the gamers in the hood.

On my way down the lane, different activities were all going on as usual, street was dry as usual but also hot as usual, boys on their department and girls on their own department.

Gosh, base on how summer feeling may be in the life of a black man with Nigerian brain work, I decided to move to the ladies department to make some wave at them and also know how the runs is going. Because as one who grow from the street, I understand so much about the hard aspect of the job.

I ran to one of the mianky in the hood who got me amazed, shocked and over whelmed with her true life story. In the cost of discussion, she had to reveal her true identity to me, things that prompted her to be in such a risky street job, and her future plan.

PEACE OF MIND

The game was actually started as a result of NO HELP. She began the job because life wasn’t fair to her, life was damn Fucking bad to her and she had to do anything possible to make sure she provide for her self.

In the deeper aspect of the discussion, she reveal her intention of dumbing the dirty work as soon as her target is met. “I’m doing this not because I love doing it or because I feel like doing it, but because I needed money to start up a business, but since I have no one to help me, I had to run this one to get money to start up the business” – she said.

With her thoughts and her plans, I look more deeply into her and wondered how possible girls with such mentality are still in the same game. But my wonder has to arrive at the previous things she said concerning why she started the street business. Gosh, I really felt like crying with all she said.

Furthermore, she explain the nature of people castigating those in such work and how shameful it can be seeing “once upon a customer” castigating them outside and calling them names. She also reveal how such a dirty work can limit them from being helped by people because of the mentality others have towards them.

With all these, she revealed her plan of leaving the street after hitting her target. She revealed her intention of starting a business once she is out of the area. All the words kept me mute as I think deeply about her.

Now the day seems to be going darker and I had to return home to rest, so I wished her well, cut my aim of being there and left.

Gosh, such a good soul into such an ugly street job. This goes a long way to teach about not judging people by their look or by the way you see them.

Yeah, they may be what you think, but always try to know the circumstances that caused such act. Don’t just judge people for acting weird, for doing illegal or for being in the street, rather think about what led them into such act.

If you are capable of rendering help, do that and many of them will appreciate because no one prefer “illegal” over “legal” things if not condition.

Before judging someone for being into the kind of business or street job they are into, reason small, if you can go close to them you may probably discover that it’s not really their fault, but life difficulties.

Many people are actually passing a lot in life today, many has given up because the force and pressure actually overshadowed them. Many are in a very sad and critical condition, amd they have to look for a way to survive. Street job might become a nice idea for them. Runs may become a great option for them and they have to succumb to the pressure.

Actually, everyone wanna live good just as others are living, no one actually wish to be behind the world, everyone wanna be in the moving train, everyone wanna be in the front line, that’s the pressure.

Pressure of making it the way others did, the pressure of living a good life and the pressure of making mama and papa proud. Such is the pressure, everyone wanna win in life, is a pressure and a great spirit. Spirit of aiming high, spirit of thinking for the future, spirit of aiming to change the story and spirit of enjoying life because life is meant to be enjoyed.

Only if you try to put your self in other people’s shoe, you will discover the area their pains are actually coming from. Don’t be quick in judging, don’t be quick in condemning, don’t be quick in blaming, the force and pressure you conquered may conquer another person.

Not everyone are emotionally strong just the way you are. Not everyone can withstand the pressure of waiting for the right time to come. Not everyone is capable to stick to their good principles to the end, not everyone is capable of holding their faith tight till the appointed time. Some will definitely be overpowered by the pressure and may enter into wrong acts.

VANITY UPON VANITY 

No one in life actually prefer street life or street job over the good aspect of life, over living the best life others are living and enjoying.

Everyone on the street actually wish to turn back because most of them know how costly and how dangerous such game can be. You can pick one up and dust him or her off, and share your light with them. They need it, instead of insulting, condemning and bastardizing them for playing such game, go close to them and hear their own story. Then apply help if you can.

Do this and remain bless..