I guess it’s not all friendship started “just like that”, not all girlfriend and boyfriend started off the direct words of friendship, some probably started from one person’s request before becoming mutual.
As one may think asking a girl to be your girlfriend is an out dated style of finding LOVE or being in a relationship, it still doesn’t make it irrelevant as most at times, being straight forward can be more better than steadily beating around the bush to get her.
However, below are just few tips on a proper way to toast a girl or a proper way to ask a girl to be your girlfriend, rather than doing an EYE SERVICE or beating around the corner.
Asking a girl to be your girlfriend is one of the easiest way of saving time, both yours and the girl who might have been expecting something of such from you, but below is a guideline.
At times you just need to take the bull by the horn and dish out your feelings for her without beating around the bush.
You may have been observing her for long now and she suits the personality you have been craving for, the personality you have been dreaming to have by your side, without wasting much time, just approach her and let her know what you have right there in your heart.
Not all friendship or RELATIONSHIP started by a delay of time and trying to access many things at once before coming out with your Feelings, some have to cut it off from the middle and then retake the process in a gradual scale.
So instead of waiting for her to notice what you have up in your mind, you can walk straight to her and pour them out. Who knows, she may be having same feelings but just waiting for you to make the first move, so don’t delay the seconds.
Sometimes just drop it off from your mind as it is, don’t go through the corner or hide anything. This is where you are advised to know what you want and go for it.
You may be seeing the one you desire and wishes to have, but don’t have enough courage to make a move. Then all of a sudden she disappear and you start regretting for not acting too fast.
Remember delay can be dangerous sometimes, while trying your best to make her feel same with you without being open up on how you feel may get you into the last position.
Walk straight to her and tell her, but remember, you should have a valid positive reason why you feel that way for her, because she might be needing it from you. So be prepared before shooting your shot.
Sometimes you just need to be plain, open up and be honest to her without hiding anything.
This may be a girl you have been seeing somewhere in your street, somewhere in your working place or somewhere around, and from a long distance you have been admiring her and want to come in contact with her as a result of her good and kind personality which you like, then delay may be dangerous for you.
Remember there are many fishes in the river, many eyes watching together with yours, you may be the lucky one or may not. But you just need to make an attempt first.
There are many ways you can toast a girl and get her, the above are just few of them and don’t forget to know that at times, what work for you, may not work for another.
And please note that saying those words to her isn’t a guarantee of her saying “YES” or “OKAY“, but just a quick way to be straight forward.
NOTE: After confessing your Feelings for her, she may still need some times off to get it straight and decide whether to reciprocate or not, so you must be patient enough to get the best result from her.
Give her space to think about it, some ladies love thinking about it before going into any RELATIONSHIP with any guy, so be a patient dog. THANKS.