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How To Find True Love – 5 Ways To Find True Love In The Society



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How To Find True Love/What Is True Love.

The above topic which points towards “true love” has been a general question for a very long time now, what is true love?, and how can one find true love in the society?. Well to get deep into the topic as to have a clear understanding of it, let’s start by defining the term “True Love”.


This is a general question in the society which has been asked by a lot of people as to find the rightful side to fall in love. But then, answers given aren’t enough for some entity who crave to know more about the two words.

However, in a clear and simplest meaning of “True Love“, it means an original and real love that is free from fake and pretence.

To say this in another sound, “True Love” simply means a genuine love from the bottom of the heart. A genuine love that is free from RELATIONSHIP GAMEs, pretendance and love by self interest.

This is no doubt the best love one can have in the society or in his/her life, but unfortunately this type of love is rare to find in our midst or in the midst of those setting up a relationship goal for their selfish purpose.

True Love is the love which always ends in unity and happiness, the love which always ends in peace and most especially in marriage.

The ability to maintain true love is based on the personality of whom is involved and requires extra discipline to walk through it. And this is what causes the scarcity of such love because everyone in the society is now after his or her self interest when involving in any relationship.

This self interest can be a personal gain one aim to gain while living in pretence of love and relationship.

Just in this part of the world where people now despite the real definition of Relationship to engage in game playing just because others are doing so, “yes I can do what others are doing” isn’t a mistake on their mind.

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Such Relationship games goes in a long and deep way to devalue the rightful knowledge others have towards this “RELATIONSHIP” word. It’s importance in the society has now been overlooked as everyone is now after “Knacking” and “Chopping” techniques and games. But this is why the 5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO MEN and to WOMEN was made in our previous post to elaborate it’s importance to both gender. Check them out to find more.

However, in other not to stay out of the subject of the above topic, let’s quickly find some of the numerous ways one can find this True love, this genuine love, this love which is more enjoyable than the fake ones, and the love which helps in the world of marriage. Let’s dive in.


How to find true love

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There are numerous ways one can find a genuine, real and true love, but all you have to do is find the best one that suit your interest and lifestyle as the best option for MR A might not be the best for MR B. And more importantly always apply your wisdom and knowledge while searching for this love.

Below is some of the various ways to find a true love

1: Be Genuine And Be True:

This is no doubt one of the best way or one of the best techniques to find a true and genuine love. Yes if you really want a genuine and true love, you too have to be Genuine and True to yourself.


Be real and kindly make up your mind on what you want and the type of person you want for a relationship. Have a genuine mindset towards your relationship aim and be true to your target.

Don’t get involve in games or be a gamer or have a different goal for such relationship other than the one your partner have which lys on marriage, when you do, you are likely to find a gamer like you as a partner.

2: Don’t Force Anyone To Love You:

One common fact some people really don’t know is about the fact that a genuine and true love comes on it’s own, you don’t beg for it.

The best you can do when you see one who you like is to shoot your shot, do this in a good and mature way, but don’t rush at the GLIMPS of an EYE SERVICE. Always be patience.

By this way, you don’t have to bring yourself low looking like a gamer whose interest is to achieve something (mainly negative) before walking out.

To my best of knowledge, relationship gamers are people who beg or force others to fall in love with them by just an EYE SERVICE. And easily and quickly they become lovers.

You see babe or boo just now and notice how beautiful and handsome he or she is, boom “knack” just creep into your skull, that’s now a tradition in this part of the world. But with this way of love, “TRUE LOVE” is not granteed as true love takes a while for a proper scrutiny.

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3: Communicate Love Through Care

This is definitely one of the best tricks and techniques to find a genuine and true love.

Don’t just present love or relationship to anyone as it will likely sound unreal especially during the first time of meeting. A good way to shoot your shot in this aspect is through the caring method. Yes show him or her love by caring so much to him or her.

Ask questions about his or her well being and make the person understand you really care through those questions. By regular doing of this, the person is likely to be convinced about your love and with time, he or she will reciprocate.

4: Be Original And Avoid Fake Life

“Fake life goes for fake love”,

I think people who made the above statement are wise enough to know the importance of the role BEING ORIGINAL plays towards finding a true and genuine love.


Yes one of the easiest way to find a genuine love is also by being original and totally avoid anything like fake life.

Well this is common in the society where people live fake just to impress others and make people to fall in love with them. We can’t just motivate and pretend such lifestyle doesn’t happen, no it does. In fact it is more common in the society which is absolutely wrong as whichever love you get through such act barely yield results.

5: Don’t Focus On Face Beauty

Well i’m not against you choosing a beautiful partner as choice differs, but you shouldn’t let a mere look deceive you towards finding a true love.

To my reasoning, everyone in life is beautiful and handsome, it is left for you to see the potential inside of him or her because the main beauty lys inside and not just on the physical look. Those ones easily fade away.


It is very common to aspire for a goal, chase for it and achieve it through self procedure or a given strategy and techniques, but then maintaining the “achieved goal” or making it to last is also another point to take which also lys on keeping those procedures or strategies used in achieving such goal.

To make the above sentence more clearer, let’s take a few list of how one can maintain a true love and make it to last after the main topic is being achieved.

Below is among the various ways to achieve this

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1: Remain Genuine And True

In some cases people tends to change their attitude when finally gotten what they need, which can make their love to crash when one start seeing the opposite of the first or initial attitude.

Don’t just learn the act of being genuine and true just to woo someone’s son or somebody’s daughter, rather let it be part of you and part of your lifestyle. Always remain genuine and true to keep the love on a steady and smooth running.

2: Apologize When Wrong Or Mistaken And Let Him/Her Know How Much You Love Him/Her

Don’t be the type of partner who always claim right and sturbon to understand and take responsibility for your mistake. This is one of the things that kills LOVE and RELATIONSHIP.

Always apologize when being wrong and stop having the mentality of being the head or being the tale, the “head” and the “tale” drama in the society or family doesn’t stop you from being apologetical. It helps in safeguarding and maintaining the true love you have found.

Don’t just say since first number 2 of this article prevent you from begging for love, so you shouldn’t apologize or beg for forgiveness after you have gotten the love you need.

Give a try to it and stop being a sturbon boy and stubborn girl, lol.

3: Keep And Never Stop Showing Love And Care To Your Partner

After using the previous number 3 option to get into your target, never stop showing love, never stop showing care and never stop being who you were.

Expand the love and care and make your partner believe you are truly real, caring means a lot to many but they may not tell you.

4: Remain Original And Always Be Who You Are

This is one of the reasons you should totally avoid fake life when searching for true love, because keeping such a pretentious lifestyle after getting what you want is always and very difficult.

When you shoot your shot in your original lifestyle and get the bird by your side, still remain original and remain who you are. Don’t swing

5: See Your Partner As The Most Beautiful One

This is a tune of appreciation, always see your partner as the finest, it helps.

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Just as the case of life may be, what work for one might not work for another. But there is always greater possibility of achieving this with the above listed techniques.

But in all never stop praying for God to direct your missing rib to you because without the help of God, you may achieve nothing towards your aim.

Thanks for your time – BRIGHTWORLD

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Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely



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The above phrase is actually reminding us that as we hustle to make friends around us, is definitely not everyone is meant to stay in our life. Many of us seeks for friendship, many seeks to mingle with others probably in the name of RELATIONSHIP or in the name of FRIENDSHIP, but as we are all hustle to get this company from friends, it is also important to know that not everyone we meet are meant to remain in our life.

There are actually different kinds of people in our lives, there are friends, visitors, partners, strangers and also there are enemies. This is why it’s very important to know that despite the number of friends we may have around us, not everyone is meant to stay in your life.

Not everyone is meant to stay in your life

Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely

It’s quite unfortunate that sometimes, some people who you sees as friends may just be something else to you without your knowledge, some of your so called friends are just the real enemies you see, but forming to be your friend.

It is very important to always know the kind of friends you keep around, some people are just visitors and strangers in your life and as such, should be seen and treated as such.

However, in some cases, not keeping people around you or in your life doesn’t really mean their are your enemies, or not allowing people stay in your life doesn’t really make them your enemies or mean they are bad, but sometimes overcrowding your life with too much irrelevant people can cause harm to you.

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It can cause harm to you in the essence of not having the rightful people around you who can help you grow in your both physical and spiritual life, which is one of the characteristics of FRIENDS, and who can help you towards achieving your aim and vision.


Do not be the type that have thousands of friends who may just worth nothing to you, some people are quite ready to associate with people to get what they want or need, so you must be very careful in people you mingle with.

Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Build Circle

Build Circle of friends in your life who can assist you in any area of life. Circle of friends who will know and understand who you are, and help you towards your ambition and who can really contribute something tangible in your life, and not crowd of people who can’t remember you when you are down.

Not everyone is meant to stay in your life

This is definitely why you should try and LIVE WISELY, LIVE PRIVATE, BUILD CIRCLE OF FRIENDS and understand that not everyone is meant to stay in your life, some are just visitors and strangers. LIVE WISELY

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Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner



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Robin Gilmore as a guy on my side has always wanted to solve some challenges facing or befalling those in state of RELATIONSHIP, as the situations and qualms happening around the world of partners into RELATIONSHIP has given a lot of people wrong perspective into believing that such union can never be built in a solid ground, thereby making people into the union sees each other as fake or gamers, and also giving other aspiring ones reason never to go ahead with their relationship dream.

However, as a means to solve some of this challenges and make Relationship to be seen as the stepping stone to good MARRIAGE, he tries to analyze the current reasons why people are becoming more afraid of investing or going into a relationship with anyone.

And below is some of his thoughts.

Robin Gilmore: Challenges Facing RELATIONSHIP

Actually, the problem facing Relationship in our world today is people’s inability to read, watch and understand what RELATIONSHIP is all about.

Many people who think they are up to the age of being in a relationship quickly rush in without having plans or making a proper plan for their relationship affairs or goals.

This seems to be part of the reasons the union keep crashing everyday, because people fails to identify their plans and objective before involving in any.

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Secondly, social life has taken over everything people have built for with years, people now want to live as others are living which is why break up and even divorce keep rocking high every day.

But however, with below method you can get that perfect RELATIONSHIP you want and build it to your taste, even though no Relationship is perfect.

Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner

It is hundred percent possible to be a good partner as long as it doesn’t mean being a perfect partner. No one is really perfect in life not even in a relationship, so being perfect in a relationship is probably impossible, but being good or being a good partner is quite possible.

Here’s how.

* Study More About Relationship:

Don’t just jump into a relationship without reading or watch one or two books or videos relating to relationships and partner building, this will help you in finding out the “Rights” and the “wrongs” in Relationships.

It will help you grow more mentally and stay more mature to be able to handle any issue that will come up in your Relationship.

* Avoid Game Playing:

Always know the goal, purpose and objective of your Relationship, where it started and where it is heading to.

Avoid making plans that tends to cheat on your partner, the main goal of everyone in Relationship is to know each other and get marry in future, and never for any other thing.

So having any plans aside this shouldn’t be encouraged in order to stay as a good partner and enjoy your Relationship.


* Avoid Listening To Others Always:

Always read, watch and also observe from people, but do not listen to anyone all time.

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This entails about living the way you want and handling your Relationship issues maturely, instead of listening to any advise from anyone.

Pay attention to advise given to you by people including your friends, think deeper about them before carrying anyone out.

* Stop Seeking For A Perfectionis:

Robin Gilmore by my side would always say, “perfection is found in heaven, and not on Earth”, though I don’t know if perfection is truly found in heaven, but I agree with him on the part that says perfection can’t be found on Earth.

One of the uncomm way of being a good partner is by stopping to seek for perfection and by stopping to act perfect.

Stop seeking for perfection from your partner, because your partner is not, this will increase your partner’s love for you for not expecting some special qualities from him or her.

Robin Gilmore

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Robin Gilmore: Conclusion

Building a RELATIONSHIP takes a lot from one, study and listen to those that has taken some of these battle to the end, and learn how they did it, then applied it, they may work for you also, Who knows.

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I’ll Come Back Sweetheart I Promise – Message For Lover



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I guess the above statement or word can be familiar with a lot of us as some of us don’t just hear the word or make the statement, we say it by ourselves.

I will come back sweetheart I promise” has been the regular promise some people often use in their relationship, in making vows to their partner to be right back after their ongoing journey.

This mainly comes when you have such kind of partner who would always want to be with you you wherever you are or goes to, that partner who wouldn’t love to see you spend a day and night out without being by your side, whether male of female, the message always comes when such case is about to happen.

It’s quite a promise and vow to your partner asking him or her to stay strong for you as you will be right back after the journey, business or anything that demands your absence from home or from your partner.


As always known and seems to be part of life, making a promise is quite easily and faster, but then sticking to the result of the promise made is much harder.

In other words, it’s very easy to place a promise and never easy to fulfill it. So what happened after making the vow and promise to your partner?, Do you still stick to it or did you disappoint?.

It’s a private question meant for you alone, are you making the promise to return for your partner for real, or are you faking it.

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A lot of people who promise to return never seems to do so, some hang on their ways, and return late, some stay weeks and never return, while some starting up another from there.

I'll Come Back Sweetheart I Promise


As stated, making a promise is very easy and fast, but then seating to the end of the promise is quite hard, so promise what you can fulfill to avoid disappointing your partner. THANKS

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