Relationship
How To Find True Love – 5 Ways To Find True Love In The Society
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How To Find True Love/What Is True Love.
The above topic which points towards “true love” has been a general question for a very long time now, what is true love?, and how can one find true love in the society?. Well to get deep into the topic as to have a clear understanding of it, let’s start by defining the term “True Love”.
WHAT IS TRUE LOVE?
This is a general question in the society which has been asked by a lot of people as to find the rightful side to fall in love. But then, answers given aren’t enough for some entity who crave to know more about the two words.
However, in a clear and simplest meaning of “True Love“, it means an original and real love that is free from fake and pretence.
To say this in another sound, “True Love” simply means a genuine love from the bottom of the heart. A genuine love that is free from RELATIONSHIP GAMEs, pretendance and love by self interest.
This is no doubt the best love one can have in the society or in his/her life, but unfortunately this type of love is rare to find in our midst or in the midst of those setting up a relationship goal for their selfish purpose.
True Love is the love which always ends in unity and happiness, the love which always ends in peace and most especially in marriage.
The ability to maintain true love is based on the personality of whom is involved and requires extra discipline to walk through it. And this is what causes the scarcity of such love because everyone in the society is now after his or her self interest when involving in any relationship.
This self interest can be a personal gain one aim to gain while living in pretence of love and relationship.
Just in this part of the world where people now despite the real definition of Relationship to engage in game playing just because others are doing so, “yes I can do what others are doing” isn’t a mistake on their mind.
Such Relationship games goes in a long and deep way to devalue the rightful knowledge others have towards this “RELATIONSHIP” word. It’s importance in the society has now been overlooked as everyone is now after “Knacking” and “Chopping” techniques and games. But this is why the 5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO MEN and to WOMEN was made in our previous post to elaborate it’s importance to both gender. Check them out to find more.
However, in other not to stay out of the subject of the above topic, let’s quickly find some of the numerous ways one can find this True love, this genuine love, this love which is more enjoyable than the fake ones, and the love which helps in the world of marriage. Let’s dive in.
HOW TO FIND TRUE LOVE
True love
There are numerous ways one can find a genuine, real and true love, but all you have to do is find the best one that suit your interest and lifestyle as the best option for MR A might not be the best for MR B. And more importantly always apply your wisdom and knowledge while searching for this love.
Below is some of the various ways to find a true love
1: Be Genuine And Be True:
This is no doubt one of the best way or one of the best techniques to find a true and genuine love. Yes if you really want a genuine and true love, you too have to be Genuine and True to yourself.
IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO MEN
Be real and kindly make up your mind on what you want and the type of person you want for a relationship. Have a genuine mindset towards your relationship aim and be true to your target.
Don’t get involve in games or be a gamer or have a different goal for such relationship other than the one your partner have which lys on marriage, when you do, you are likely to find a gamer like you as a partner.
2: Don’t Force Anyone To Love You:
One common fact some people really don’t know is about the fact that a genuine and true love comes on it’s own, you don’t beg for it.
The best you can do when you see one who you like is to shoot your shot, do this in a good and mature way, but don’t rush at the GLIMPS of an EYE SERVICE. Always be patience.
By this way, you don’t have to bring yourself low looking like a gamer whose interest is to achieve something (mainly negative) before walking out.
To my best of knowledge, relationship gamers are people who beg or force others to fall in love with them by just an EYE SERVICE. And easily and quickly they become lovers.
You see babe or boo just now and notice how beautiful and handsome he or she is, boom “knack” just creep into your skull, that’s now a tradition in this part of the world. But with this way of love, “TRUE LOVE” is not granteed as true love takes a while for a proper scrutiny.
3: Communicate Love Through Care
This is definitely one of the best tricks and techniques to find a genuine and true love.
Don’t just present love or relationship to anyone as it will likely sound unreal especially during the first time of meeting. A good way to shoot your shot in this aspect is through the caring method. Yes show him or her love by caring so much to him or her.
Ask questions about his or her well being and make the person understand you really care through those questions. By regular doing of this, the person is likely to be convinced about your love and with time, he or she will reciprocate.
4: Be Original And Avoid Fake Life
“Fake life goes for fake love”,
I think people who made the above statement are wise enough to know the importance of the role BEING ORIGINAL plays towards finding a true and genuine love.
IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO LADIES
Yes one of the easiest way to find a genuine love is also by being original and totally avoid anything like fake life.
Well this is common in the society where people live fake just to impress others and make people to fall in love with them. We can’t just motivate and pretend such lifestyle doesn’t happen, no it does. In fact it is more common in the society which is absolutely wrong as whichever love you get through such act barely yield results.
5: Don’t Focus On Face Beauty
Well i’m not against you choosing a beautiful partner as choice differs, but you shouldn’t let a mere look deceive you towards finding a true love.
To my reasoning, everyone in life is beautiful and handsome, it is left for you to see the potential inside of him or her because the main beauty lys inside and not just on the physical look. Those ones easily fade away.
HOW TO MAINTAIN TRUE LOVE AND MAKE IT LAST
It is very common to aspire for a goal, chase for it and achieve it through self procedure or a given strategy and techniques, but then maintaining the “achieved goal” or making it to last is also another point to take which also lys on keeping those procedures or strategies used in achieving such goal.
To make the above sentence more clearer, let’s take a few list of how one can maintain a true love and make it to last after the main topic is being achieved.
Below is among the various ways to achieve this
1: Remain Genuine And True
In some cases people tends to change their attitude when finally gotten what they need, which can make their love to crash when one start seeing the opposite of the first or initial attitude.
Don’t just learn the act of being genuine and true just to woo someone’s son or somebody’s daughter, rather let it be part of you and part of your lifestyle. Always remain genuine and true to keep the love on a steady and smooth running.
2: Apologize When Wrong Or Mistaken And Let Him/Her Know How Much You Love Him/Her
Don’t be the type of partner who always claim right and sturbon to understand and take responsibility for your mistake. This is one of the things that kills LOVE and RELATIONSHIP.
Always apologize when being wrong and stop having the mentality of being the head or being the tale, the “head” and the “tale” drama in the society or family doesn’t stop you from being apologetical. It helps in safeguarding and maintaining the true love you have found.
Don’t just say since first number 2 of this article prevent you from begging for love, so you shouldn’t apologize or beg for forgiveness after you have gotten the love you need.
Give a try to it and stop being a sturbon boy and stubborn girl, lol.
3: Keep And Never Stop Showing Love And Care To Your Partner
After using the previous number 3 option to get into your target, never stop showing love, never stop showing care and never stop being who you were.
Expand the love and care and make your partner believe you are truly real, caring means a lot to many but they may not tell you.
4: Remain Original And Always Be Who You Are
This is one of the reasons you should totally avoid fake life when searching for true love, because keeping such a pretentious lifestyle after getting what you want is always and very difficult.
When you shoot your shot in your original lifestyle and get the bird by your side, still remain original and remain who you are. Don’t swing
5: See Your Partner As The Most Beautiful One
This is a tune of appreciation, always see your partner as the finest, it helps.
BRIGHTWORLD
CONCLUSION
Just as the case of life may be, what work for one might not work for another. But there is always greater possibility of achieving this with the above listed techniques.
But in all never stop praying for God to direct your missing rib to you because without the help of God, you may achieve nothing towards your aim.
Thanks for your time – BRIGHTWORLD
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4 Tips On How To Be A Submissive Husband
Sometimes what makes love more sweet, more amazing worthy of emulation, and long lasting isn’t the romantical part of it, neither is it the financial stability of the man in the marriage, but the act of submissiveness.
As a man, learning how to be a submissive husband towards your wife and towards your family is one of the best techniques you can apply to keep your home and marriage on track.
In fact, I Bright Tobias has always maintained that untill men learn how to be a submissive husband to their wives, and start putting it into practice, the rate of marital problems and divorce will keep increasing thereby causing fear among the young teens who wishes to embrace the union.
However, in a journey of learning how to be a submissive husband, one must learn and master the act of humility, the act of kindness, sympathy, endurance, love and most especially patience.
A submissive husband is a husband who knows how to love his wife.
A submissive husband is a husband who knows how to tolerate and be patient with his wife when provoked.
A submissive husband is a husband who knows how to love his wife unconditionally in every situation.
So you must master the act of kindness, sympathy, endurance, patience, humility and love before you can stay submissive to your wife or spouse.
How To Be A Submissive Husband
As being a strong headed husband has tire you and you are finally opting to be a submissive husband to your wife, I must say you have done the rightful thing, because women tends to love men who stays humble and submissive to them than men who takes them for granted.
So below are four tips on how to be a submissive husband so your wife will keep being more submissive to you too.
1: Respect Your Wife:
In every marriage, Respect is one of the things all parties owe to each other, irrespective of your status in the marriage or family, whether man or woman, you owe each other respect to the fullest.
Well, one of the things that makes marriage sounds funny in our present day society is the inability of many men to respect their wife.
Respect present here isn’t just the normal respect, but the respect that comes when your woman makes some certain decision and you keep to it without the society mindset of being the “head” of the family.
Marriage demands that as a man, you must learn and be willing to be submissive to your wife, and one of the ways of being submissive to your wife is by respecting some of her decision.
Sometimes allow her to make the rules without interfering. Sometimes allow her to take the lead without feeling threaten of your position.
In fact I must say, one of the things destroying so many marriages in the society is the societal believe that women doesn’t have a say in their marriage. Women truly have a say.
A woman can see you as a submissive husband or partner when some of her decisions in the home start getting respected and taken than being objected because women are believed not to have a say.
So one of the ways of being a submissive husband is by respecting your woman and some of her decisions.
2: Being Loyal To Your Wife:
Most marriages ended up in separation as a result of the men not being loyal to their wives. And sometimes this always bring a huge problem to the home especially when the woman is tired of enduring it alone. One day she may spark up, it may end up in chaos, who knows.
Well, if you wishes to be submissive to your wife, make sure you stay loyal to her and act like one being owned. This won’t only extend the lifespan of your marriage, but it will bring more of the same loyalty and respect from her too.
3: Tolerance:
Marriage requires a lot of tolerance from the both parties, not just from the wife alone. You must learn to tolerate your wife in a bad or good state.
Sometimes women can be annoying, it will be for your own interest and interest of your family to tolerate her till the end, as she will see you as one being submissive to her. So you must master the act of tolerance and more to be able to have a beautiful marriage ahead.
4: Love
A submissive husband is a husband that so much love his wife and will do everything to please her.
I have always maintained that marriage is not a war, marriage is problem and marriage shouldn’t be feared to practice.
In fact the holy bible of Christians described marriage as a beautiful union of two people. But unless you get a mental reformation and distance your self from the societal norms, beliefs and ideologies, you will never see the beauty part of marriage.
There must be love present for a man to be submissive to his wife. Too much of love shown to women is what some called “spell” or “voodoo” but I think for one to be able to practice love properly, you must be under a spell. So don’t be worried when the society say you are under a spell just because you are giving your wife or partner the best of love and affection she deserves. It really shows you truly love her and you are submissive to her.
Conclusion
There are different ways on how to be a submissive husband to your wife, but the above mentioned options are among the the few things to do.
You must learn to respect your respect your wife always irrespective of what the society is saying about it.
You must master the act of loyalty to your wife. Wives aren’t the only one meant to be submissive to husband by being loyal to them, men also owe their wives loyalty and that’s a sign of a submissive husband.
You must learn to tolerate your wife or partner and ignore the advice the society is giving.
And lastly you must learn to always love your wife in all aspects of life and always be by her side. I wish you best of luck in your marital journey. Bright Tobias is rooting for you.
Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?
The question, “Do You Believe In Love At First Sight” is actually directed to you, I mean you that is reading this, and of course an answer is expected from you, do you really believe in love at first sight?. Do you believe that two people can really fall in love with each other just the same day they met each other?, Do you believe that you personally can develop a feeling for someone you just met and start falling YAKATA for them?
Well, before giving me your answer, let’s take some seconds talk about the “LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT“.
Love At First Sight
Before Nodding whether in favour of love at first sight or nodding in disagree with it, the question is what exactly is love at first sight?.
Well, love at first sight is a sudden love developed after seeing someone for the first day and first time. This is a love often seen as infatuation and sometimes, hardly work out based on the circumstances surrounding it.
Love At First Sight – Circumstances
What are the circumstances surrounding this love at first sight?, Well most of the things that happens at first sight is being considered as an infactuation and rarely yield fruit simply because this is an arousal of feelings.
This is love that shows up mostly when you sees someone and start developing personal admiration for him or her immediately. And as we know feelings can vanish at anytime especially when personal aims has been achieved. So at this point, all the parties involved get tired of each other simply because feelings was the only circumstances surrounding such love.
Well having talk a bit about love at first sight, let’s jump back to our formal question which says, do you believe in love at first sight? Do you really believe?
Do You Believe In Love At First Sight
Well before giving us your opinion, let me lead first. I totally believe in love at first sight. I believe that true love can exist in the midst of two lovers who just sees each other.
At first it could be infactuation and about feelings or whatever anyone could think of, but when worked out properly, it could turn into something positive. It’s all about your mindset and your intention of falling in love at the first place.
Beauty can attract you towards someone and took advantage of it positively and ended being the best of its kind. It’s just for you to explore other aspects of the love before the proposal.
Many times it is said that beauty can take you into a marriage, and character will take you out. But what happens when beauty takes you into a marriage and you still have a good and well mannered character?, I guess nothing else is likely to take you out. This is what happens when you try to take advantage of the love at first sight positively, instead of achieving your aims and satisfying your feelings and kicking off. It doesn’t sound good bro/sis.
So to me Bright Tobias, I believe in love at first, how about you? Do you believe?. Let’s hear your opinion on the comment section.
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Truth Or Dare Blog Game
Truth Or Dare Blog Game are fun and a bit fr*aky games used by bloggers to welcome and as well entertain their readers and audience. This gaming activities varies from type by type as they are mainly composed by the blog owners to entertain their audience, and must align to their preferred niche or blogging subject.
However, the end-point of this game is to asses people’s personality and know their inner worth which might not have been shared to others.
Truth Or Dare Blog Game
Truth Or Dare blog Game which can be simply shorten as truth or dare game is mainly to impose your ideas on whoever you are playing it with to either dance on your toe or expose part of their secret, as youths mainly plays this.
This game is just about asking whoever you are playing it with to either choose to say something truthful and wholeheartedly or be dared to do something out of their personal will.
However, even though this games is always been taken to the negative side especially when being played by the youths, as they sees it as the only games they use in asking some fr*aky and nasty questions and naughty dares, but then there also positive aspect of the truth or dare blog game. I think this is about those playing it.
How To Play Truth Or Dare Blog Game/Truth Or Dare Game
Truth or dare game can be played by multiple people starting with two people on the scene. This can be played by people of the same gender or people of the opposite gender, it all about the intention of it.
Is Truth Or Dare Blog Game Good Or Bad?
I can’t say truth or dare game is bad, neither will I say it’s good, the outcome is all about the intention of indulging in the game.
However, in as much as this particular games is being played by many teenagers who are just growing up and exploring LIFE, thereby getting influenced through it’s activities, it is also good to know that this game can be seen as a therapeutic and practical method of killing boredom in a RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE. You just have to play it with the right person to get the best of it.
Well aside this, let’s specifically talk about the good and bad aspect of truth or dare blog game, starting with the bad aspect.
Truth Or Dare Game – Bad Aspect
This particular truth or dare game has contributed highly towards the mind pollution of some teenagers who keep on practicing what they learnt from the games. In some cases, the teenagers who indulge in playing this games end up developing quick feelings for whoever they played it with which isn’t right at their age. And many more.
Truth Or Dare Game – Good Aspect
This beautiful game can also help couples and those in a RELATIONSHIP know and understand themselves well as they intend to answer some deeper questions asked by their partner.
Aside this, truth or dare game also help in having fun and spending time with your partner without knowing, and spending time with your partner contributes a lot towards the growth of every RELATIONSHIP and union. This and more are the good aspect of playing this truth or dare game.
Truth Or Dare Blog Game – Conclusion
In as much as truth or dare game is a popular game almost everyone play, there are people who still lag behind and maybe haven’t done or played it before.
MY ADVICE: If you are in a RELATIONSHIP and wishes to keep watering your union, then consider learning more about the game and playing it with your partner. But mind you, play it with your only partner as Bright Tobias does not support cross dating or any form of cheating, Thank you and stay blessed.