How To Find True Love/What Is True Love.
The above topic which points towards “true love” has been a general question for a very long time now, what is true love?, and how can one find true love in the society?. Well to get deep into the topic as to have a clear understanding of it, let’s start by defining the term “True Love”.
WHAT IS TRUE LOVE?
This is a general question in the society which has been asked by a lot of people as to find the rightful side to fall in love. But then, answers given aren’t enough for some entity who crave to know more about the two words.
However, in a clear and simplest meaning of “True Love“, it means an original and real love that is free from fake and pretence.
To say this in another sound, “True Love” simply means a genuine love from the bottom of the heart. A genuine love that is free from RELATIONSHIP GAMEs, pretendance and love by self interest.
This is no doubt the best love one can have in the society or in his/her life, but unfortunately this type of love is rare to find in our midst or in the midst of those setting up a relationship goal for their selfish purpose.
True Love is the love which always ends in unity and happiness, the love which always ends in peace and most especially in marriage.
The ability to maintain true love is based on the personality of whom is involved and requires extra discipline to walk through it. And this is what causes the scarcity of such love because everyone in the society is now after his or her self interest when involving in any relationship.
This self interest can be a personal gain one aim to gain while living in pretence of love and relationship.
Just in this part of the world where people now despite the real definition of Relationship to engage in game playing just because others are doing so, “yes I can do what others are doing” isn’t a mistake on their mind.
Such Relationship games goes in a long and deep way to devalue the rightful knowledge others have towards this “RELATIONSHIP” word. It’s importance in the society has now been overlooked as everyone is now after “Knacking” and “Chopping” techniques and games. But this is why the 5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO MEN and to WOMEN was made in our previous post to elaborate it’s importance to both gender. Check them out to find more.
However, in other not to stay out of the subject of the above topic, let’s quickly find some of the numerous ways one can find this True love, this genuine love, this love which is more enjoyable than the fake ones, and the love which helps in the world of marriage. Let’s dive in.
HOW TO FIND TRUE LOVE
There are numerous ways one can find a genuine, real and true love, but all you have to do is find the best one that suit your interest and lifestyle as the best option for MR A might not be the best for MR B. And more importantly always apply your wisdom and knowledge while searching for this love.
Below is some of the various ways to find a true love
1: Be Genuine And Be True:
This is no doubt one of the best way or one of the best techniques to find a true and genuine love. Yes if you really want a genuine and true love, you too have to be Genuine and True to yourself.
Be real and kindly make up your mind on what you want and the type of person you want for a relationship. Have a genuine mindset towards your relationship aim and be true to your target.
Don’t get involve in games or be a gamer or have a different goal for such relationship other than the one your partner have which lys on marriage, when you do, you are likely to find a gamer like you as a partner.
2: Don’t Force Anyone To Love You:
One common fact some people really don’t know is about the fact that a genuine and true love comes on it’s own, you don’t beg for it.
The best you can do when you see one who you like is to shoot your shot, do this in a good and mature way, but don’t rush at the GLIMPS of an EYE SERVICE. Always be patience.
By this way, you don’t have to bring yourself low looking like a gamer whose interest is to achieve something (mainly negative) before walking out.
To my best of knowledge, relationship gamers are people who beg or force others to fall in love with them by just an EYE SERVICE. And easily and quickly they become lovers.
You see babe or boo just now and notice how beautiful and handsome he or she is, boom “knack” just creep into your skull, that’s now a tradition in this part of the world. But with this way of love, “TRUE LOVE” is not granteed as true love takes a while for a proper scrutiny.
3: Communicate Love Through Care
This is definitely one of the best tricks and techniques to find a genuine and true love.
Don’t just present love or relationship to anyone as it will likely sound unreal especially during the first time of meeting. A good way to shoot your shot in this aspect is through the caring method. Yes show him or her love by caring so much to him or her.
Ask questions about his or her well being and make the person understand you really care through those questions. By regular doing of this, the person is likely to be convinced about your love and with time, he or she will reciprocate.
4: Be Original And Avoid Fake Life
“Fake life goes for fake love”,
I think people who made the above statement are wise enough to know the importance of the role BEING ORIGINAL plays towards finding a true and genuine love.
Yes one of the easiest way to find a genuine love is also by being original and totally avoid anything like fake life.
Well this is common in the society where people live fake just to impress others and make people to fall in love with them. We can’t just motivate and pretend such lifestyle doesn’t happen, no it does. In fact it is more common in the society which is absolutely wrong as whichever love you get through such act barely yield results.
5: Don’t Focus On Face Beauty
Well i’m not against you choosing a beautiful partner as choice differs, but you shouldn’t let a mere look deceive you towards finding a true love.
To my reasoning, everyone in life is beautiful and handsome, it is left for you to see the potential inside of him or her because the main beauty lys inside and not just on the physical look. Those ones easily fade away.
HOW TO MAINTAIN TRUE LOVE AND MAKE IT LAST
It is very common to aspire for a goal, chase for it and achieve it through self procedure or a given strategy and techniques, but then maintaining the “achieved goal” or making it to last is also another point to take which also lys on keeping those procedures or strategies used in achieving such goal.
To make the above sentence more clearer, let’s take a few list of how one can maintain a true love and make it to last after the main topic is being achieved.
Below is among the various ways to achieve this
1: Remain Genuine And True
In some cases people tends to change their attitude when finally gotten what they need, which can make their love to crash when one start seeing the opposite of the first or initial attitude.
Don’t just learn the act of being genuine and true just to woo someone’s son or somebody’s daughter, rather let it be part of you and part of your lifestyle. Always remain genuine and true to keep the love on a steady and smooth running.
2: Apologize When Wrong Or Mistaken And Let Him/Her Know How Much You Love Him/Her
Don’t be the type of partner who always claim right and sturbon to understand and take responsibility for your mistake. This is one of the things that kills LOVE and RELATIONSHIP.
Always apologize when being wrong and stop having the mentality of being the head or being the tale, the “head” and the “tale” drama in the society or family doesn’t stop you from being apologetical. It helps in safeguarding and maintaining the true love you have found.
Don’t just say since first number 2 of this article prevent you from begging for love, so you shouldn’t apologize or beg for forgiveness after you have gotten the love you need.
Give a try to it and stop being a sturbon boy and stubborn girl, lol.
3: Keep And Never Stop Showing Love And Care To Your Partner
After using the previous number 3 option to get into your target, never stop showing love, never stop showing care and never stop being who you were.
Expand the love and care and make your partner believe you are truly real, caring means a lot to many but they may not tell you.
4: Remain Original And Always Be Who You Are
This is one of the reasons you should totally avoid fake life when searching for true love, because keeping such a pretentious lifestyle after getting what you want is always and very difficult.
When you shoot your shot in your original lifestyle and get the bird by your side, still remain original and remain who you are. Don’t swing
5: See Your Partner As The Most Beautiful One
This is a tune of appreciation, always see your partner as the finest, it helps.
Just as the case of life may be, what work for one might not work for another. But there is always greater possibility of achieving this with the above listed techniques.
But in all never stop praying for God to direct your missing rib to you because without the help of God, you may achieve nothing towards your aim.