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How To Build A Successful Marriage – 6 STEPS
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HOW CAN I BUILD A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE?
This must have been an active question running in the mind of some newly wedded couples as they may wish to have an everlasting married life with their partner. Though aside married people, some of us also wish and desire to have a fruitful and successful MARRIAGE in our lives, but then making this aim and wish come into reality becomes a hard task for us.
Yes this is definitely hard for us to keep in our world and society today which is why MARITAL PROBLEMS and DEVORCE has escalated to the level it is today. In a normal sense, no one wishes to have a fail marriage, a steady fight and qualms in his or her marital homes or even a DIVORCE, but then obeying the GOLDEN RULES TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE HEALTHY becomes absolute difficult and absent. Which is why DIVORCE is now taken politely.
But for the young and newly couples, the list below is a great way of building a successful marriage in the society. A marriage which can be admired by everyone, a marriage free from steady and regular problems and a marriage that will grant you the maximum PEACE OF MIND which everyone deserve especially in their matrimonial homes.
5 Ways Of Building A Successful Marriage
However, there are a lot of ways one can strategically build and have a Successful marriage, but below are few you can count in.
1: Don’t Necessarily Follow The Modern Rules Of Marriage Or Societal Ideas:
Actually without sounding favoritism to anyone or any kind of moral decadence in the society, this is one of the attribution of failed marriage or divorce in our society today.
The point is everyone want, desire and wishes to have an everlasting married life with his or her partner, but then no one wants to change his or her own strategy which is why we are still colliding at the same spot.
We are still obeying some rules set by people who we don’t know as a way of practicing marriage in the world or in our society.
There are some typical knowledge or rules the world have towards marriage, and these rules are what ruins our marriage but we are likely to fall into a doubt. We mustn’t follow all this rules in our own matrimonial homes, to my understanding most of these rules are not meant compulsory for every married couple, but we just adopt it thinking they are the best, then they destroy our marriage without our knowledge.
Now some or most of you may be pondering in wonders over this rules that the society have which kills our marriage but yet no one wants to change it, but such rules can never be understood with mere reasoning, they may just be like “a way of life” for you, so you can’t easily notice them.
A big example is how women is being treated in the society or in their matrimonial home over their act of childless issues which may not necessarily be their fault, yet their are being ill treated. This happens most especially when a woman doesn’t give birth to any gender in consideration as the heir to the house or so. I guess marriages where this issues happens barely have or enjoy PEACE OF MIND.
Aside this act of childless issues in a marriage, this rules of limiting what one does, wears or goes after marriage is totally wrong and plays a major roles towards all the marital problems and divorces happening around.
I’m not in anyway insinuating that you should keep living your old negative lives after getting married, NO, but at times what we limit others from doing is actually where such person finds his or her happiness in. And this act of limiting each other from doing most of these things is being introduced to us by the society.
They said it is the way of living in marriage and you must to follow the rules to have a successful marriage, meanwhile the rules contributes a lot towards the issues we are having in our marriage.
Another big example to this rules practiced by the society which in turn affect us is this act of stopping one from wearing some clothes which most of us sees as the act of irresponsibility.
Again, I’m not in anyway insinuating that you should dress rascal or weird as you may be dressing before your marriage, but not in total limitation. For dressing, I think there should be a little limitation which should be placed on both gender, and not just on women alone, such limitation should be able to mark your act of responsibility and commitment in your marriage, but it shouldn’t be much to avoid tempering with anyone’s happiness or so.
Actually in life, if you want to win big, become successful and great, you have to think aside the box different from the way society is thinking. You have to do things different from the way society is doing, no one will force you to obey any rules, this can be marked as the act of BEING DIFFERENT FROM THE CROWD.
This implies in the aspect of marriage too, you don’t Necessarily have to obey or follow the societal rules or ideas, to have a successful marriage, you can apply yours to have a perfect definition of the marriage you wish and desires for.
2: Do Home Chores Together With Your Partner:
This is another aspect of societal beliefs and it is quite unfortunately that some of these beliefs started from the days of our fore fathers when one of our parents (always the mothers) had to endure a lot in her matrimonial homes and do all kinds of house chores without receiving any help from her partner.
5 GOLDEN RULES TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE HEALTHY
This beliefs still exist in our society today which can be among the things causing problems to our various homes.
Though to some, this might not be a problem but we have to understand that for a successful and most especially peaceful marriage to be achieved, things has to be balanced equally to avoid getting one cheated or making one feel inferior in his or her matrimonial home.
Most of us believe that it is the work of a man to make money in the family while it is the work of a woman to make food and do all the home chores in the house without any single assist from the man, but to me it is a wrong idea. And this is why we keep fighting and having issues with our partners over irrelevant things in our homes.
To build a successful marriage that will grant you the maximum PEACE OF MIND you desire in your home, then you must learn to do chores together with your partner and not to relax in the parlor to watch football while leaving your wife in the kitchen to kill her self all in the name of cooking everything for you. Lol most of us can relate.
3: Make Important Plans And Decision With Your Partner:
Most at times we make plans and decision without the consultation of our partner simply because we have this “HEAD” and “TALE” ideas all in our head. We make decision without involving our partner which is likely to affect our marriage.
As you wishes and aspiring to build a successful and peaceful marriage, remember to always make important decisions and plans with your partner because it helps to achieve this aim. Don’t involve “HEAD” and “TALE” ideas in your home, you are equal with your partner.
4: Create A Channel Of Happiness With Your Partner:
As a couple who wishes and desires to build a successful marriage with your partner, you both must learn to create a channel of happiness together because this is quite essential for the growth of your marriage.
Happiness is one of the keys of healthy lives, but we must know that happiness won’t always be there in marriage as marriage is not a bed of roses, but full of thorns amd headache, lol.
So just as happiness won’t always be there because it comes and go, you should learn to do things that can bring that happiness back in your marital lives. Learn to make each other happy because HAPPINESS contribute also to a healthy marriage.
as a couple, you mustn’t be told on how you can bring this happiness in your home, you can apply which ever way you know that will work for you. But below is just a few tips you can add to your own knowledge
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5: Be Committed To Your Marriage:
Actually a lot of people don’t really that the computer term “garbage in garbage out” is also applied in marriage as what you give is what you take.
The truth is that most of the marriages which everyone admires in the society gave their best towards building such level of love that bond them together. Though this process can be seen easy and simple, but it takes time to get to the target.
If you really wish to have successful marriage, then you need to show a great commitment towards your marriage and make it work. Marriage in other word can be seen as an investment which grows base on the number of commitment you put. This commitment should be mutual in order to get this result, it mustn’t base on one side, both of you have to invest your time, your ideas, and everything you have towards achieving this result.
Commitment in your marriage plays a big role towards making your marriage successful and admirable by the people. Keep committed to your home and see the love become more stronger.
6: Honesty And Transparency:
This is a great key to this task, you have to be honest to your partner, be open to him or her and avoid holding any secret that can get your marriage in risk when such secret explode.
HOW TO SECURE YOUR PEACE OF MIND
Confide in your partner and build this love, Relationship and Marriage together, for the betterment of your future. Thanks.
NOTE: As this can be a great way of achieving a successful marriage with your partner, this is also applicable to those in a RELATIONSHIP world, you can also use the same means for a successful relationship with your partner which will definitely leads to marriage.
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CONCLUSION
As said in the beginning, there are several ways one can build a successful marriage that is free from fight, problems and divorce, as one can go by his or her own self method that can work, but the above list are extra BUTTER you can add to your BREAD to make it more YUMMY, thanks.
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4 Tips On How To Be A Submissive Husband
Sometimes what makes love more sweet, more amazing worthy of emulation, and long lasting isn’t the romantical part of it, neither is it the financial stability of the man in the marriage, but the act of submissiveness.
As a man, learning how to be a submissive husband towards your wife and towards your family is one of the best techniques you can apply to keep your home and marriage on track.
In fact, I Bright Tobias has always maintained that untill men learn how to be a submissive husband to their wives, and start putting it into practice, the rate of marital problems and divorce will keep increasing thereby causing fear among the young teens who wishes to embrace the union.
However, in a journey of learning how to be a submissive husband, one must learn and master the act of humility, the act of kindness, sympathy, endurance, love and most especially patience.
A submissive husband is a husband who knows how to love his wife.
A submissive husband is a husband who knows how to tolerate and be patient with his wife when provoked.
A submissive husband is a husband who knows how to love his wife unconditionally in every situation.
So you must master the act of kindness, sympathy, endurance, patience, humility and love before you can stay submissive to your wife or spouse.
How To Be A Submissive Husband
As being a strong headed husband has tire you and you are finally opting to be a submissive husband to your wife, I must say you have done the rightful thing, because women tends to love men who stays humble and submissive to them than men who takes them for granted.
So below are four tips on how to be a submissive husband so your wife will keep being more submissive to you too.
1: Respect Your Wife:
In every marriage, Respect is one of the things all parties owe to each other, irrespective of your status in the marriage or family, whether man or woman, you owe each other respect to the fullest.
Well, one of the things that makes marriage sounds funny in our present day society is the inability of many men to respect their wife.
Respect present here isn’t just the normal respect, but the respect that comes when your woman makes some certain decision and you keep to it without the society mindset of being the “head” of the family.
Marriage demands that as a man, you must learn and be willing to be submissive to your wife, and one of the ways of being submissive to your wife is by respecting some of her decision.
Sometimes allow her to make the rules without interfering. Sometimes allow her to take the lead without feeling threaten of your position.
In fact I must say, one of the things destroying so many marriages in the society is the societal believe that women doesn’t have a say in their marriage. Women truly have a say.
A woman can see you as a submissive husband or partner when some of her decisions in the home start getting respected and taken than being objected because women are believed not to have a say.
So one of the ways of being a submissive husband is by respecting your woman and some of her decisions.
2: Being Loyal To Your Wife:
Most marriages ended up in separation as a result of the men not being loyal to their wives. And sometimes this always bring a huge problem to the home especially when the woman is tired of enduring it alone. One day she may spark up, it may end up in chaos, who knows.
Well, if you wishes to be submissive to your wife, make sure you stay loyal to her and act like one being owned. This won’t only extend the lifespan of your marriage, but it will bring more of the same loyalty and respect from her too.
3: Tolerance:
Marriage requires a lot of tolerance from the both parties, not just from the wife alone. You must learn to tolerate your wife in a bad or good state.
Sometimes women can be annoying, it will be for your own interest and interest of your family to tolerate her till the end, as she will see you as one being submissive to her. So you must master the act of tolerance and more to be able to have a beautiful marriage ahead.
4: Love
A submissive husband is a husband that so much love his wife and will do everything to please her.
I have always maintained that marriage is not a war, marriage is problem and marriage shouldn’t be feared to practice.
In fact the holy bible of Christians described marriage as a beautiful union of two people. But unless you get a mental reformation and distance your self from the societal norms, beliefs and ideologies, you will never see the beauty part of marriage.
There must be love present for a man to be submissive to his wife. Too much of love shown to women is what some called “spell” or “voodoo” but I think for one to be able to practice love properly, you must be under a spell. So don’t be worried when the society say you are under a spell just because you are giving your wife or partner the best of love and affection she deserves. It really shows you truly love her and you are submissive to her.
Conclusion
There are different ways on how to be a submissive husband to your wife, but the above mentioned options are among the the few things to do.
You must learn to respect your respect your wife always irrespective of what the society is saying about it.
You must master the act of loyalty to your wife. Wives aren’t the only one meant to be submissive to husband by being loyal to them, men also owe their wives loyalty and that’s a sign of a submissive husband.
You must learn to tolerate your wife or partner and ignore the advice the society is giving.
And lastly you must learn to always love your wife in all aspects of life and always be by her side. I wish you best of luck in your marital journey. Bright Tobias is rooting for you.
Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?
The question, “Do You Believe In Love At First Sight” is actually directed to you, I mean you that is reading this, and of course an answer is expected from you, do you really believe in love at first sight?. Do you believe that two people can really fall in love with each other just the same day they met each other?, Do you believe that you personally can develop a feeling for someone you just met and start falling YAKATA for them?
Well, before giving me your answer, let’s take some seconds talk about the “LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT“.
Love At First Sight
Before Nodding whether in favour of love at first sight or nodding in disagree with it, the question is what exactly is love at first sight?.
Well, love at first sight is a sudden love developed after seeing someone for the first day and first time. This is a love often seen as infatuation and sometimes, hardly work out based on the circumstances surrounding it.
Love At First Sight – Circumstances
What are the circumstances surrounding this love at first sight?, Well most of the things that happens at first sight is being considered as an infactuation and rarely yield fruit simply because this is an arousal of feelings.
This is love that shows up mostly when you sees someone and start developing personal admiration for him or her immediately. And as we know feelings can vanish at anytime especially when personal aims has been achieved. So at this point, all the parties involved get tired of each other simply because feelings was the only circumstances surrounding such love.
Well having talk a bit about love at first sight, let’s jump back to our formal question which says, do you believe in love at first sight? Do you really believe?
Do You Believe In Love At First Sight
Well before giving us your opinion, let me lead first. I totally believe in love at first sight. I believe that true love can exist in the midst of two lovers who just sees each other.
At first it could be infactuation and about feelings or whatever anyone could think of, but when worked out properly, it could turn into something positive. It’s all about your mindset and your intention of falling in love at the first place.
Beauty can attract you towards someone and took advantage of it positively and ended being the best of its kind. It’s just for you to explore other aspects of the love before the proposal.
Many times it is said that beauty can take you into a marriage, and character will take you out. But what happens when beauty takes you into a marriage and you still have a good and well mannered character?, I guess nothing else is likely to take you out. This is what happens when you try to take advantage of the love at first sight positively, instead of achieving your aims and satisfying your feelings and kicking off. It doesn’t sound good bro/sis.
So to me Bright Tobias, I believe in love at first, how about you? Do you believe?. Let’s hear your opinion on the comment section.
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Truth Or Dare Blog Game
Truth Or Dare Blog Game are fun and a bit fr*aky games used by bloggers to welcome and as well entertain their readers and audience. This gaming activities varies from type by type as they are mainly composed by the blog owners to entertain their audience, and must align to their preferred niche or blogging subject.
However, the end-point of this game is to asses people’s personality and know their inner worth which might not have been shared to others.
Truth Or Dare Blog Game
Truth Or Dare blog Game which can be simply shorten as truth or dare game is mainly to impose your ideas on whoever you are playing it with to either dance on your toe or expose part of their secret, as youths mainly plays this.
This game is just about asking whoever you are playing it with to either choose to say something truthful and wholeheartedly or be dared to do something out of their personal will.
However, even though this games is always been taken to the negative side especially when being played by the youths, as they sees it as the only games they use in asking some fr*aky and nasty questions and naughty dares, but then there also positive aspect of the truth or dare blog game. I think this is about those playing it.
How To Play Truth Or Dare Blog Game/Truth Or Dare Game
Truth or dare game can be played by multiple people starting with two people on the scene. This can be played by people of the same gender or people of the opposite gender, it all about the intention of it.
Is Truth Or Dare Blog Game Good Or Bad?
I can’t say truth or dare game is bad, neither will I say it’s good, the outcome is all about the intention of indulging in the game.
However, in as much as this particular games is being played by many teenagers who are just growing up and exploring LIFE, thereby getting influenced through it’s activities, it is also good to know that this game can be seen as a therapeutic and practical method of killing boredom in a RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE. You just have to play it with the right person to get the best of it.
Well aside this, let’s specifically talk about the good and bad aspect of truth or dare blog game, starting with the bad aspect.
Truth Or Dare Game – Bad Aspect
This particular truth or dare game has contributed highly towards the mind pollution of some teenagers who keep on practicing what they learnt from the games. In some cases, the teenagers who indulge in playing this games end up developing quick feelings for whoever they played it with which isn’t right at their age. And many more.
Truth Or Dare Game – Good Aspect
This beautiful game can also help couples and those in a RELATIONSHIP know and understand themselves well as they intend to answer some deeper questions asked by their partner.
Aside this, truth or dare game also help in having fun and spending time with your partner without knowing, and spending time with your partner contributes a lot towards the growth of every RELATIONSHIP and union. This and more are the good aspect of playing this truth or dare game.
Truth Or Dare Blog Game – Conclusion
In as much as truth or dare game is a popular game almost everyone play, there are people who still lag behind and maybe haven’t done or played it before.
MY ADVICE: If you are in a RELATIONSHIP and wishes to keep watering your union, then consider learning more about the game and playing it with your partner. But mind you, play it with your only partner as Bright Tobias does not support cross dating or any form of cheating, Thank you and stay blessed.