MEANING OF RELATIONSHIP.
Speaking about the importance of RELATIONSHIP to the ladies, there are several angles that needs some enlightenment to get it digested properly especially by the ladies who the topic is meant for. We are likely to know about relationship but knowing about the importance of it to guys and to ladies might be far away from us, but here it comes to us for free. Calm down, read and digest the five importance of RELATIONSHIP to ladies.
But firstly before diving into the topic, it is important to know that Relationship is strictly for adults who are matured enough to know and understand each other. Relationship is not for under age and never for everyone just as some hearts keep such belief, rather it is for those that understands each other beyond what the society see.
RELATIONSHIP is actually a close connection between two or more things or two or more humans. In human case, it’s simply a close connection between two individuals or two partners.
This connection could be a blood connection (family), love connection, romantic connection and more. However, one of it’s popular type is the one practice by two partners who are physically attracted to each other and have mutual feelings towards each other.
However, RELATIONSHIP is simply a stage in two people’s (partners) life where the both parties put a lot of commitment to build a stronger and high level of love which can enable them to build a good and peaceful home when they finally settle down as husband and wife.
Relationship is extremely important to both men and women because it helps in building a stronger wall for your marriage, though many ladies have lost the vision to understand how important relationship is due to the general belief that love and relationship is scam, but it doesn’t make it unreal.
So sad to say that the society contributes a greater percentage in some qualms that happens in marriage, though it’s a personal decision to flow along with the society or not, but then negative influence is involved.
Everyone is now after trends and acting up, weird behaviors and acting among, irrespective of whether it is the right way or not, everyone want to be among. The narrative of RELATIONSHIP in the society has totally dropped to the lowest point and no one now takes it serious, the society now sees it as a game or as a business of “trade by barter” where people ventures to make money or something else.
Some of the ladies doesn’t look beyond the trend from the society and beyond the way people sees it now. Everyone is busy shouting “love is a game” “love na scam” and the rest. But at last when they finally get married, they will start finding it difficult to maintain peace in their marriage.
Now read this and have peace of mind.
5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO LADIES.
If you have at any point hear and believe that love or RELATIONSHIP is scam, get it erased and begin in a new chapter with a fresh mind. Love or RELATIONSHIP has nothing to do with scam or whatever the society tags it as. The truth about this is those calling RELATIONSHIP or LOVE scam are those that took the society strategy to engage in their RELATIONSHIP, they are the real scam. Love has nothing to do with scam, know this and have peace.
However, Relationship has a lot of merit to a lady who engaged in it before getting married. Now let’s get few down.
1: RELATIONSHIP Helps A Lady To Know Deep About Her Man.
Having a knowledge about who your man is, is not just a day task as it requires you not just to know about him, but you will also know deep about him. This is a kind of knowing who your man is, his background, his intention of getting in touch with you, his likes and dislikes, his favourites and many more things about him.
These things are needed in order to build that wall which every woman cherish in a marriage.
2: RELATIONSHIP Prepares You Into A Woman Hood Even When You Are Yet To Marry.
RELATIONSHIP helps you to become who you are not but want to be and not yet to be. This is WOMAN HOOD.
This get you experience on how marriage is being done, prepares you to become a wife material which you may have not learn from your family home. This prepares you and make you fit for marital challenges that will come your way once marriage hit up.
3: RELATIONSHIP Grant Peace Of Mind To A Lady When She Finally Settle Down With Her Man.
This is one of the issues some married people who doesn’t engage in relationship before getting married are always having as a result of not knowing deep about the man, just as I explained in number one of this article.
No one need a toxic marriage, all married women deserve at least HAPPINESS in their marriage and not violence. This is one of the major things causing a lot of divorce in a marriage today, because no woman will like to stay in a violence and toxic marriage where she will be steadily beaten and maltreated by her man.
4: Relationship helps in building love and trust.
5: Relationship before marriage gives you full access to a man’s life.
Relationship is so much important to both the ladies and the guys as well because it also plays the same role it does in a lady’s life to a guy’s life also. Those who understands this are mainly the ones that enjoy their marriage.
I don’t personally believe on the idea that Relationship is scam or love is scam just the way people tag it, but they can be scam only if you try buying it off without actually starting from the scratch to build your own portion.
HEART BREAK or BREAK UP is likely to happen in a relationship, no one supports that but then when you discover your lifestyle doesn’t suit with that of your partner in a long run, at some point you will likely to leave to go look for your spec or your type. It doesn’t mean the relationship is scam, after all it is better to take a walk out of relationship than being in a toxic relationship where your peace of mind will be tempered with.
Understand what love is, important of it and how relationship works, then take your strategy to build it from the scratch. That is the only way you are likely yo enjoy your married life. Leave society and their so called game of “give and receive” where you offer something to get another thing, and at the end of the run once you are done, you just quite and get away. Then when the time for marriage comes, you get marry to a man who is likely to get your skin scraped once he start acting. Simply because you know nothing about him before settling down.
But on a final conclusion, LOVE and RELATIONSHIP is not a scam, but based on how the society does it, it is a deep scam. The only way to avoid making it a scam is by knowing what relationship is and it’s importance before engaging in. All this is for your marriage tomorrow, at least to get PEACE OF MIND in your home.
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