MEANING OF RELATIONSHIP.
Speaking about the importance of RELATIONSHIP to the ladies, there are several angles that needs some enlightenment to get it digested properly especially by the ladies who the topic is meant for. We are likely to know about relationship but knowing about the importance of it to guys and to ladies might be far away from us, but here it comes to us for free. Calm down, read and digest the five importance of RELATIONSHIP to ladies.
But firstly before diving into the topic, it is important to know that Relationship is strictly for adults who are matured enough to know and understand each other. Relationship is not for under age and never for everyone just as some hearts keep such belief, rather it is for those that understands each other beyond what the society see.
RELATIONSHIP is actually a close connection between two or more things or two or more humans. In human case, it’s simply a close connection between two individuals or two partners.
This connection could be a blood connection (family), love connection, romantic connection and more. However, one of it’s popular type is the one practice by two partners who are physically attracted to each other and have mutual feelings towards each other.
However, RELATIONSHIP is simply a stage in two people’s (partners) life where the both parties put a lot of commitment to build a stronger and high level of love which can enable them to build a good and peaceful home when they finally settle down as husband and wife.
Relationship is extremely important to both men and women because it helps in building a stronger wall for your marriage, though many ladies have lost the vision to understand how important relationship is due to the general belief that love and relationship is scam, but it doesn’t make it unreal.
So sad to say that the society contributes a greater percentage in some qualms that happens in marriage, though it’s a personal decision to flow along with the society or not, but then negative influence is involved.
Everyone is now after trends and acting up, weird behaviors and acting among, irrespective of whether it is the right way or not, everyone want to be among. The narrative of RELATIONSHIP in the society has totally dropped to the lowest point and no one now takes it serious, the society now sees it as a game or as a business of “trade by barter” where people ventures to make money or something else.
Some of the ladies doesn’t look beyond the trend from the society and beyond the way people sees it now. Everyone is busy shouting “love is a game” “love na scam” and the rest. But at last when they finally get married, they will start finding it difficult to maintain peace in their marriage.
Now read this and have peace of mind.
5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO LADIES.
If you have at any point hear and believe that love or RELATIONSHIP is scam, get it erased and begin in a new chapter with a fresh mind. Love or RELATIONSHIP has nothing to do with scam or whatever the society tags it as. The truth about this is those calling RELATIONSHIP or LOVE scam are those that took the society strategy to engage in their RELATIONSHIP, they are the real scam. Love has nothing to do with scam, know this and have peace.
However, Relationship has a lot of merit to a lady who engaged in it before getting married. Now let’s get few down.
1: RELATIONSHIP Helps A Lady To Know Deep About Her Man.
Having a knowledge about who your man is, is not just a day task as it requires you not just to know about him, but you will also know deep about him. This is a kind of knowing who your man is, his background, his intention of getting in touch with you, his likes and dislikes, his favourites and many more things about him.
These things are needed in order to build that wall which every woman cherish in a marriage.
2: RELATIONSHIP Prepares You Into A Woman Hood Even When You Are Yet To Marry.
RELATIONSHIP helps you to become who you are not but want to be and not yet to be. This is WOMAN HOOD.
This get you experience on how marriage is being done, prepares you to become a wife material which you may have not learn from your family home. This prepares you and make you fit for marital challenges that will come your way once marriage hit up.
3: RELATIONSHIP Grant Peace Of Mind To A Lady When She Finally Settle Down With Her Man.
This is one of the issues some married people who doesn’t engage in relationship before getting married are always having as a result of not knowing deep about the man, just as I explained in number one of this article.
No one need a toxic marriage, all married women deserve at least HAPPINESS in their marriage and not violence. This is one of the major things causing a lot of divorce in a marriage today, because no woman will like to stay in a violence and toxic marriage where she will be steadily beaten and maltreated by her man.
4: Relationship helps in building love and trust.
5: Relationship before marriage gives you full access to a man’s life.
Relationship is so much important to both the ladies and the guys as well because it also plays the same role it does in a lady’s life to a guy’s life also. Those who understands this are mainly the ones that enjoy their marriage.
I don’t personally believe on the idea that Relationship is scam or love is scam just the way people tag it, but they can be scam only if you try buying it off without actually starting from the scratch to build your own portion.
HEART BREAK or BREAK UP is likely to happen in a relationship, no one supports that but then when you discover your lifestyle doesn’t suit with that of your partner in a long run, at some point you will likely to leave to go look for your spec or your type. It doesn’t mean the relationship is scam, after all it is better to take a walk out of relationship than being in a toxic relationship where your peace of mind will be tempered with.
Understand what love is, important of it and how relationship works, then take your strategy to build it from the scratch. That is the only way you are likely yo enjoy your married life. Leave society and their so called game of “give and receive” where you offer something to get another thing, and at the end of the run once you are done, you just quite and get away. Then when the time for marriage comes, you get marry to a man who is likely to get your skin scraped once he start acting. Simply because you know nothing about him before settling down.
But on a final conclusion, LOVE and RELATIONSHIP is not a scam, but based on how the society does it, it is a deep scam. The only way to avoid making it a scam is by knowing what relationship is and it’s importance before engaging in. All this is for your marriage tomorrow, at least to get PEACE OF MIND in your home.
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Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely
NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO STAY IN YOUR LIFE
The above phrase is actually reminding us that as we hustle to make friends around us, is definitely not everyone is meant to stay in our life. Many of us seeks for friendship, many seeks to mingle with others probably in the name of RELATIONSHIP or in the name of FRIENDSHIP, but as we are all hustle to get this company from friends, it is also important to know that not everyone we meet are meant to remain in our life.
There are actually different kinds of people in our lives, there are friends, visitors, partners, strangers and also there are enemies. This is why it’s very important to know that despite the number of friends we may have around us, not everyone is meant to stay in your life.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely
It’s quite unfortunate that sometimes, some people who you sees as friends may just be something else to you without your knowledge, some of your so called friends are just the real enemies you see, but forming to be your friend.
It is very important to always know the kind of friends you keep around, some people are just visitors and strangers in your life and as such, should be seen and treated as such.
However, in some cases, not keeping people around you or in your life doesn’t really mean their are your enemies, or not allowing people stay in your life doesn’t really make them your enemies or mean they are bad, but sometimes overcrowding your life with too much irrelevant people can cause harm to you.
It can cause harm to you in the essence of not having the rightful people around you who can help you grow in your both physical and spiritual life, which is one of the characteristics of FRIENDS, and who can help you towards achieving your aim and vision.
NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO STAY IN OUR LIFE – Live Private
Do not be the type that have thousands of friends who may just worth nothing to you, some people are quite ready to associate with people to get what they want or need, so you must be very careful in people you mingle with.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Build Circle
Build Circle of friends in your life who can assist you in any area of life. Circle of friends who will know and understand who you are, and help you towards your ambition and who can really contribute something tangible in your life, and not crowd of people who can’t remember you when you are down.
This is definitely why you should try and LIVE WISELY, LIVE PRIVATE, BUILD CIRCLE OF FRIENDS and understand that not everyone is meant to stay in your life, some are just visitors and strangers. LIVE WISELY
Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner
Robin Gilmore as a guy on my side has always wanted to solve some challenges facing or befalling those in state of RELATIONSHIP, as the situations and qualms happening around the world of partners into RELATIONSHIP has given a lot of people wrong perspective into believing that such union can never be built in a solid ground, thereby making people into the union sees each other as fake or gamers, and also giving other aspiring ones reason never to go ahead with their relationship dream.
However, as a means to solve some of this challenges and make Relationship to be seen as the stepping stone to good MARRIAGE, he tries to analyze the current reasons why people are becoming more afraid of investing or going into a relationship with anyone.
And below is some of his thoughts.
Robin Gilmore: Challenges Facing RELATIONSHIP
Actually, the problem facing Relationship in our world today is people’s inability to read, watch and understand what RELATIONSHIP is all about.
Many people who think they are up to the age of being in a relationship quickly rush in without having plans or making a proper plan for their relationship affairs or goals.
This seems to be part of the reasons the union keep crashing everyday, because people fails to identify their plans and objective before involving in any.
Secondly, social life has taken over everything people have built for with years, people now want to live as others are living which is why break up and even divorce keep rocking high every day.
But however, with below method you can get that perfect RELATIONSHIP you want and build it to your taste, even though no Relationship is perfect.
Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner
It is hundred percent possible to be a good partner as long as it doesn’t mean being a perfect partner. No one is really perfect in life not even in a relationship, so being perfect in a relationship is probably impossible, but being good or being a good partner is quite possible.
* Study More About Relationship:
Don’t just jump into a relationship without reading or watch one or two books or videos relating to relationships and partner building, this will help you in finding out the “Rights” and the “wrongs” in Relationships.
It will help you grow more mentally and stay more mature to be able to handle any issue that will come up in your Relationship.
* Avoid Game Playing:
Always know the goal, purpose and objective of your Relationship, where it started and where it is heading to.
Avoid making plans that tends to cheat on your partner, the main goal of everyone in Relationship is to know each other and get marry in future, and never for any other thing.
So having any plans aside this shouldn’t be encouraged in order to stay as a good partner and enjoy your Relationship.
* Avoid Listening To Others Always:
Always read, watch and also observe from people, but do not listen to anyone all time.
This entails about living the way you want and handling your Relationship issues maturely, instead of listening to any advise from anyone.
Pay attention to advise given to you by people including your friends, think deeper about them before carrying anyone out.
* Stop Seeking For A Perfectionis:
Robin Gilmore by my side would always say, “perfection is found in heaven, and not on Earth”, though I don’t know if perfection is truly found in heaven, but I agree with him on the part that says perfection can’t be found on Earth.
One of the uncomm way of being a good partner is by stopping to seek for perfection and by stopping to act perfect.
Stop seeking for perfection from your partner, because your partner is not, this will increase your partner’s love for you for not expecting some special qualities from him or her.
Robin Gilmore: Conclusion
Building a RELATIONSHIP takes a lot from one, study and listen to those that has taken some of these battle to the end, and learn how they did it, then applied it, they may work for you also, Who knows.
I’ll Come Back Sweetheart I Promise – Message For Lover
I’ll COME BACK SWEETHEART I PROMISE
I guess the above statement or word can be familiar with a lot of us as some of us don’t just hear the word or make the statement, we say it by ourselves.
“I will come back sweetheart I promise” has been the regular promise some people often use in their relationship, in making vows to their partner to be right back after their ongoing journey.
This mainly comes when you have such kind of partner who would always want to be with you you wherever you are or goes to, that partner who wouldn’t love to see you spend a day and night out without being by your side, whether male of female, the message always comes when such case is about to happen.
It’s quite a promise and vow to your partner asking him or her to stay strong for you as you will be right back after the journey, business or anything that demands your absence from home or from your partner.
I’ll COME BACK SWEETHEART I PROMISE – Result
As always known and seems to be part of life, making a promise is quite easily and faster, but then sticking to the result of the promise made is much harder.
In other words, it’s very easy to place a promise and never easy to fulfill it. So what happened after making the vow and promise to your partner?, Do you still stick to it or did you disappoint?.
It’s a private question meant for you alone, are you making the promise to return for your partner for real, or are you faking it.
A lot of people who promise to return never seems to do so, some hang on their ways, and return late, some stay weeks and never return, while some starting up another from there.
As stated, making a promise is very easy and fast, but then seating to the end of the promise is quite hard, so promise what you can fulfill to avoid disappointing your partner. THANKS