Relationship
5 Importance Of Relationship To Ladies
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MEANING OF RELATIONSHIP.
Speaking about the importance of RELATIONSHIP to the ladies, there are several angles that needs some enlightenment to get it digested properly especially by the ladies who the topic is meant for. We are likely to know about relationship but knowing about the importance of it to guys and to ladies might be far away from us, but here it comes to us for free. Calm down, read and digest the five importance of RELATIONSHIP to ladies.
But firstly before diving into the topic, it is important to know that Relationship is strictly for adults who are matured enough to know and understand each other. Relationship is not for under age and never for everyone just as some hearts keep such belief, rather it is for those that understands each other beyond what the society see.
RELATIONSHIP is actually a close connection between two or more things or two or more humans. In human case, it’s simply a close connection between two individuals or two partners.
This connection could be a blood connection (family), love connection, romantic connection and more. However, one of it’s popular type is the one practice by two partners who are physically attracted to each other and have mutual feelings towards each other.
However, RELATIONSHIP is simply a stage in two people’s (partners) life where the both parties put a lot of commitment to build a stronger and high level of love which can enable them to build a good and peaceful home when they finally settle down as husband and wife.
Relationship is extremely important to both men and women because it helps in building a stronger wall for your marriage, though many ladies have lost the vision to understand how important relationship is due to the general belief that love and relationship is scam, but it doesn’t make it unreal.
So sad to say that the society contributes a greater percentage in some qualms that happens in marriage, though it’s a personal decision to flow along with the society or not, but then negative influence is involved.
Everyone is now after trends and acting up, weird behaviors and acting among, irrespective of whether it is the right way or not, everyone want to be among. The narrative of RELATIONSHIP in the society has totally dropped to the lowest point and no one now takes it serious, the society now sees it as a game or as a business of “trade by barter” where people ventures to make money or something else.
Some of the ladies doesn’t look beyond the trend from the society and beyond the way people sees it now. Everyone is busy shouting “love is a game” “love na scam” and the rest. But at last when they finally get married, they will start finding it difficult to maintain peace in their marriage.
Now read this and have peace of mind.
5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO LADIES.
If you have at any point hear and believe that love or RELATIONSHIP is scam, get it erased and begin in a new chapter with a fresh mind. Love or RELATIONSHIP has nothing to do with scam or whatever the society tags it as. The truth about this is those calling RELATIONSHIP or LOVE scam are those that took the society strategy to engage in their RELATIONSHIP, they are the real scam. Love has nothing to do with scam, know this and have peace.
5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO MEN
However, Relationship has a lot of merit to a lady who engaged in it before getting married. Now let’s get few down.
1: RELATIONSHIP Helps A Lady To Know Deep About Her Man.
Having a knowledge about who your man is, is not just a day task as it requires you not just to know about him, but you will also know deep about him. This is a kind of knowing who your man is, his background, his intention of getting in touch with you, his likes and dislikes, his favourites and many more things about him.
These things are needed in order to build that wall which every woman cherish in a marriage.
2: RELATIONSHIP Prepares You Into A Woman Hood Even When You Are Yet To Marry.
RELATIONSHIP helps you to become who you are not but want to be and not yet to be. This is WOMAN HOOD.
This get you experience on how marriage is being done, prepares you to become a wife material which you may have not learn from your family home. This prepares you and make you fit for marital challenges that will come your way once marriage hit up.
3: RELATIONSHIP Grant Peace Of Mind To A Lady When She Finally Settle Down With Her Man.
This is one of the issues some married people who doesn’t engage in relationship before getting married are always having as a result of not knowing deep about the man, just as I explained in number one of this article.
No one need a toxic marriage, all married women deserve at least HAPPINESS in their marriage and not violence. This is one of the major things causing a lot of divorce in a marriage today, because no woman will like to stay in a violence and toxic marriage where she will be steadily beaten and maltreated by her man.
You can be 80 percent sure of PEACE OF MIND when you start your married life from RELATIONSHIP stage and build it from the scratch.
4: Relationship helps in building love and trust.
5: Relationship before marriage gives you full access to a man’s life.
Relationship is so much important to both the ladies and the guys as well because it also plays the same role it does in a lady’s life to a guy’s life also. Those who understands this are mainly the ones that enjoy their marriage.
I don’t personally believe on the idea that Relationship is scam or love is scam just the way people tag it, but they can be scam only if you try buying it off without actually starting from the scratch to build your own portion.
HEART BREAK or BREAK UP is likely to happen in a relationship, no one supports that but then when you discover your lifestyle doesn’t suit with that of your partner in a long run, at some point you will likely to leave to go look for your spec or your type. It doesn’t mean the relationship is scam, after all it is better to take a walk out of relationship than being in a toxic relationship where your peace of mind will be tempered with.
Understand what love is, important of it and how relationship works, then take your strategy to build it from the scratch. That is the only way you are likely yo enjoy your married life. Leave society and their so called game of “give and receive” where you offer something to get another thing, and at the end of the run once you are done, you just quite and get away. Then when the time for marriage comes, you get marry to a man who is likely to get your skin scraped once he start acting. Simply because you know nothing about him before settling down.
But on a final conclusion, LOVE and RELATIONSHIP is not a scam, but based on how the society does it, it is a deep scam. The only way to avoid making it a scam is by knowing what relationship is and it’s importance before engaging in. All this is for your marriage tomorrow, at least to get PEACE OF MIND in your home.
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5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO MEN
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4 Tips On How To Be A Submissive Husband
Sometimes what makes love more sweet, more amazing worthy of emulation, and long lasting isn’t the romantical part of it, neither is it the financial stability of the man in the marriage, but the act of submissiveness.
As a man, learning how to be a submissive husband towards your wife and towards your family is one of the best techniques you can apply to keep your home and marriage on track.
In fact, I Bright Tobias has always maintained that untill men learn how to be a submissive husband to their wives, and start putting it into practice, the rate of marital problems and divorce will keep increasing thereby causing fear among the young teens who wishes to embrace the union.
However, in a journey of learning how to be a submissive husband, one must learn and master the act of humility, the act of kindness, sympathy, endurance, love and most especially patience.
A submissive husband is a husband who knows how to love his wife.
A submissive husband is a husband who knows how to tolerate and be patient with his wife when provoked.
A submissive husband is a husband who knows how to love his wife unconditionally in every situation.
So you must master the act of kindness, sympathy, endurance, patience, humility and love before you can stay submissive to your wife or spouse.
How To Be A Submissive Husband
As being a strong headed husband has tire you and you are finally opting to be a submissive husband to your wife, I must say you have done the rightful thing, because women tends to love men who stays humble and submissive to them than men who takes them for granted.
So below are four tips on how to be a submissive husband so your wife will keep being more submissive to you too.
1: Respect Your Wife:
In every marriage, Respect is one of the things all parties owe to each other, irrespective of your status in the marriage or family, whether man or woman, you owe each other respect to the fullest.
Well, one of the things that makes marriage sounds funny in our present day society is the inability of many men to respect their wife.
Respect present here isn’t just the normal respect, but the respect that comes when your woman makes some certain decision and you keep to it without the society mindset of being the “head” of the family.
Marriage demands that as a man, you must learn and be willing to be submissive to your wife, and one of the ways of being submissive to your wife is by respecting some of her decision.
Sometimes allow her to make the rules without interfering. Sometimes allow her to take the lead without feeling threaten of your position.
In fact I must say, one of the things destroying so many marriages in the society is the societal believe that women doesn’t have a say in their marriage. Women truly have a say.
A woman can see you as a submissive husband or partner when some of her decisions in the home start getting respected and taken than being objected because women are believed not to have a say.
So one of the ways of being a submissive husband is by respecting your woman and some of her decisions.
2: Being Loyal To Your Wife:
Most marriages ended up in separation as a result of the men not being loyal to their wives. And sometimes this always bring a huge problem to the home especially when the woman is tired of enduring it alone. One day she may spark up, it may end up in chaos, who knows.
Well, if you wishes to be submissive to your wife, make sure you stay loyal to her and act like one being owned. This won’t only extend the lifespan of your marriage, but it will bring more of the same loyalty and respect from her too.
3: Tolerance:
Marriage requires a lot of tolerance from the both parties, not just from the wife alone. You must learn to tolerate your wife in a bad or good state.
Sometimes women can be annoying, it will be for your own interest and interest of your family to tolerate her till the end, as she will see you as one being submissive to her. So you must master the act of tolerance and more to be able to have a beautiful marriage ahead.
4: Love
A submissive husband is a husband that so much love his wife and will do everything to please her.
I have always maintained that marriage is not a war, marriage is problem and marriage shouldn’t be feared to practice.
In fact the holy bible of Christians described marriage as a beautiful union of two people. But unless you get a mental reformation and distance your self from the societal norms, beliefs and ideologies, you will never see the beauty part of marriage.
There must be love present for a man to be submissive to his wife. Too much of love shown to women is what some called “spell” or “voodoo” but I think for one to be able to practice love properly, you must be under a spell. So don’t be worried when the society say you are under a spell just because you are giving your wife or partner the best of love and affection she deserves. It really shows you truly love her and you are submissive to her.
Conclusion
There are different ways on how to be a submissive husband to your wife, but the above mentioned options are among the the few things to do.
You must learn to respect your respect your wife always irrespective of what the society is saying about it.
You must master the act of loyalty to your wife. Wives aren’t the only one meant to be submissive to husband by being loyal to them, men also owe their wives loyalty and that’s a sign of a submissive husband.
You must learn to tolerate your wife or partner and ignore the advice the society is giving.
And lastly you must learn to always love your wife in all aspects of life and always be by her side. I wish you best of luck in your marital journey. Bright Tobias is rooting for you.
Do You Believe In Love At First Sight?
The question, “Do You Believe In Love At First Sight” is actually directed to you, I mean you that is reading this, and of course an answer is expected from you, do you really believe in love at first sight?. Do you believe that two people can really fall in love with each other just the same day they met each other?, Do you believe that you personally can develop a feeling for someone you just met and start falling YAKATA for them?
Well, before giving me your answer, let’s take some seconds talk about the “LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT“.
Love At First Sight
Before Nodding whether in favour of love at first sight or nodding in disagree with it, the question is what exactly is love at first sight?.
Well, love at first sight is a sudden love developed after seeing someone for the first day and first time. This is a love often seen as infatuation and sometimes, hardly work out based on the circumstances surrounding it.
Love At First Sight – Circumstances
What are the circumstances surrounding this love at first sight?, Well most of the things that happens at first sight is being considered as an infactuation and rarely yield fruit simply because this is an arousal of feelings.
This is love that shows up mostly when you sees someone and start developing personal admiration for him or her immediately. And as we know feelings can vanish at anytime especially when personal aims has been achieved. So at this point, all the parties involved get tired of each other simply because feelings was the only circumstances surrounding such love.
Well having talk a bit about love at first sight, let’s jump back to our formal question which says, do you believe in love at first sight? Do you really believe?
Do You Believe In Love At First Sight
Well before giving us your opinion, let me lead first. I totally believe in love at first sight. I believe that true love can exist in the midst of two lovers who just sees each other.
At first it could be infactuation and about feelings or whatever anyone could think of, but when worked out properly, it could turn into something positive. It’s all about your mindset and your intention of falling in love at the first place.
Beauty can attract you towards someone and took advantage of it positively and ended being the best of its kind. It’s just for you to explore other aspects of the love before the proposal.
Many times it is said that beauty can take you into a marriage, and character will take you out. But what happens when beauty takes you into a marriage and you still have a good and well mannered character?, I guess nothing else is likely to take you out. This is what happens when you try to take advantage of the love at first sight positively, instead of achieving your aims and satisfying your feelings and kicking off. It doesn’t sound good bro/sis.
So to me Bright Tobias, I believe in love at first, how about you? Do you believe?. Let’s hear your opinion on the comment section.
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Truth Or Dare Blog Game
Truth Or Dare Blog Game are fun and a bit fr*aky games used by bloggers to welcome and as well entertain their readers and audience. This gaming activities varies from type by type as they are mainly composed by the blog owners to entertain their audience, and must align to their preferred niche or blogging subject.
However, the end-point of this game is to asses people’s personality and know their inner worth which might not have been shared to others.
Truth Or Dare Blog Game
Truth Or Dare blog Game which can be simply shorten as truth or dare game is mainly to impose your ideas on whoever you are playing it with to either dance on your toe or expose part of their secret, as youths mainly plays this.
This game is just about asking whoever you are playing it with to either choose to say something truthful and wholeheartedly or be dared to do something out of their personal will.
However, even though this games is always been taken to the negative side especially when being played by the youths, as they sees it as the only games they use in asking some fr*aky and nasty questions and naughty dares, but then there also positive aspect of the truth or dare blog game. I think this is about those playing it.
How To Play Truth Or Dare Blog Game/Truth Or Dare Game
Truth or dare game can be played by multiple people starting with two people on the scene. This can be played by people of the same gender or people of the opposite gender, it all about the intention of it.
Is Truth Or Dare Blog Game Good Or Bad?
I can’t say truth or dare game is bad, neither will I say it’s good, the outcome is all about the intention of indulging in the game.
However, in as much as this particular games is being played by many teenagers who are just growing up and exploring LIFE, thereby getting influenced through it’s activities, it is also good to know that this game can be seen as a therapeutic and practical method of killing boredom in a RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE. You just have to play it with the right person to get the best of it.
Well aside this, let’s specifically talk about the good and bad aspect of truth or dare blog game, starting with the bad aspect.
Truth Or Dare Game – Bad Aspect
This particular truth or dare game has contributed highly towards the mind pollution of some teenagers who keep on practicing what they learnt from the games. In some cases, the teenagers who indulge in playing this games end up developing quick feelings for whoever they played it with which isn’t right at their age. And many more.
Truth Or Dare Game – Good Aspect
This beautiful game can also help couples and those in a RELATIONSHIP know and understand themselves well as they intend to answer some deeper questions asked by their partner.
Aside this, truth or dare game also help in having fun and spending time with your partner without knowing, and spending time with your partner contributes a lot towards the growth of every RELATIONSHIP and union. This and more are the good aspect of playing this truth or dare game.
Truth Or Dare Blog Game – Conclusion
In as much as truth or dare game is a popular game almost everyone play, there are people who still lag behind and maybe haven’t done or played it before.
MY ADVICE: If you are in a RELATIONSHIP and wishes to keep watering your union, then consider learning more about the game and playing it with your partner. But mind you, play it with your only partner as Bright Tobias does not support cross dating or any form of cheating, Thank you and stay blessed.