MEANING OF RELATIONSHIP.
Speaking about the importance of RELATIONSHIP to men, there are several angles that needs some enlightenment to get it digested properly especially by the guys which the topic is specifically meant for. We are likely to know about relationship but knowing about the importance of it to guys and to ladies might be far away from us, but here it comes to us for free. Calm down, read and digest the 5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO MEN.
It’s quite unfortunate that in our society today, the original tune of Relationship has actually been shifted from its positive merits to a kind of joke which most people now sees it as.
Most people don’t believe in anything call Relationship again due to the fact that the society we live in have conveyed it into a negative practice, where we venture to gain our selfish purpose and later take our leave. The spirit is no longer available to many of us, we now sees it as a business in the society
Someone will ask, how is RELATIONSHIP seen as a business?, But what makes it look like a business is the fact that we ventures into it for the purpose of gaining some special merits which we will later dump off after such merits seems not to be there any longer. Is that really the true definition of Relationship?, Or is that really how it is been done?.
Actually anything that has to do with Relationship which involves two partners who are in love with themselves is an 18+ doings. This means that Relationship is mainly for adults who have gotten some kind of matured knowledge towards handling some personal issues that are likely to pop out in such union.
Relationship is not and never a joke, this is why things that involves love, Relationship, Dating, Romance or things related are tagged 18+ or will specified as adults only.
There are a lot to talk about the topic because this knowledge seems to be far from many of us, but unfortunately we have less time and need to jump to our main content before loosing any attention. But wait, we have prepared some contents about RELATIONSHIP and DATING for you, just click any and continue.
5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO MEN
When the world of Relationship is being echoed in our society, we will actually have one or two things to say about it and to share our various perspectives. Just as our faces differs in resemblance, so as our knowledge do. But the idea that RELATIONSHIP doesn’t help anyone is a fallacious one but unfortunately, this idea has gotten into our skull thereby making Relationship less valued in the society.
But before going further, below are just the list of the 5 IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP TO MEN
1: RELATIONSHIP Helps A Man To Know Deep About His Woman.
In no doubt, this is one of the common problems we face everyday in our marriages. Yes, most at time we marry people who we think we know very well, but in the other side, we have zero knowledge of who they are.
Relationship is actually the gateway to Marriage and you must surely walk through this gate for a better result in your marriage.
It is so true that at times things can happen in a marriage or an unexpected can happen which the woman will suddenly change even after walking through the gateway for years before arriving in your marriage, but there are greater chances of having a successful and peaceful marriage when you walk through this gateway than bypassing the process.
Relationship helps in giving you a full details and knowledge of who your partner is and who you will surely be getting married to. This full details include but not limited to her background, her likes and dislikes, what annoys her most and knowing her family too.
This actually helps in maintaining peace in your home and most especially having peace of mind in your marriage.
2: RELATIONSHIP Prepares You Into A Manhood Even When You Are Not Yet Married
Most at times what makes you a man is the kind of tasks or roles you play in a family. Not just by being adult and matured, but by playing some specific roles played by men.
Actually, in every family everyone have their roles and each roles is being assigned to those who are capable of handling them well, some roles are the boundaries that differentiate a MAN from A BOY because such roles are assigned to men only.
RELATIONSHIP plays a major role in this aspect as it will help you in knowing things you are ought to do as a man, how to treat your woman how to handle and take care of your family. This process is likely to start when in a relationship and keep it on till marriage. It mold you on her to be a man in your home.
This will actually help your marriage to last as you have learnt a lot before officially getting married to your partner.
In a short description, we can just say RELATIONSHIP is like a classroom where you and your partner learns a lot about yourselves and how to make things work out in the family. After this learning comes the MARRIAGE where everything you learnt is expected to be laid down in practice.
3: RELATIONSHIP Grants You Peace Of Mind When You Finally Settle Down With Your Woman.
Many at times some marriages crash after having a lot of issues that involves problems which peace in the family becomes the opposite. Fight and quarrel becomes the steady headline in the family as a result of not having a rest of mind when being at home.
Relationship helps you to build your Marriage in a bed of peace and Grant you PEACE OF MIND in your marriage.
4: RELATIONSHIP Helps In Building Love And Trust.
This is no doubt among the things that serves as a pillar to a happy home and peaceful marriage, “LOVE and TRUST“.
In family where there is LOVE and TRUST, such family or marriage always dwell in an honour of everyone. It is always appreciated in the society and this can mainly be possible through the gateway of Marriage (Relationship).
5: RELATIONSHIP Before MARRIAGE, Gives You Full Access To A Woman’s Life
People who understands the importance of RELATIONSHIP in the society are mainly the ones that takes advantage of it and their Marriage mainly stand. Don’t just play societal games in the name of Relationship and at the end, you end up with a wrong woman because you are looking out for something else.
Look at for a lady who can be compatible with you in all senses and roll the dice with her.
Just as it sound, is an adult union and not for kids. But the adult in place here is not when you are turning old, no, start at the young of your 18+ age. Shoot your shot and play it positively, and your Marriage will lys on the rock of ages… Thanks
Note: Do not be deceive by some fallacious beliefs about RELATIONSHIPS, just embark on your journey and always pray to God to give you the right person for you.
This is also applicable to the ladies/women also, but to dive into the women side, Read below the
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely
NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO STAY IN YOUR LIFE
The above phrase is actually reminding us that as we hustle to make friends around us, is definitely not everyone is meant to stay in our life. Many of us seeks for friendship, many seeks to mingle with others probably in the name of RELATIONSHIP or in the name of FRIENDSHIP, but as we are all hustle to get this company from friends, it is also important to know that not everyone we meet are meant to remain in our life.
There are actually different kinds of people in our lives, there are friends, visitors, partners, strangers and also there are enemies. This is why it’s very important to know that despite the number of friends we may have around us, not everyone is meant to stay in your life.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely
It’s quite unfortunate that sometimes, some people who you sees as friends may just be something else to you without your knowledge, some of your so called friends are just the real enemies you see, but forming to be your friend.
It is very important to always know the kind of friends you keep around, some people are just visitors and strangers in your life and as such, should be seen and treated as such.
However, in some cases, not keeping people around you or in your life doesn’t really mean their are your enemies, or not allowing people stay in your life doesn’t really make them your enemies or mean they are bad, but sometimes overcrowding your life with too much irrelevant people can cause harm to you.
It can cause harm to you in the essence of not having the rightful people around you who can help you grow in your both physical and spiritual life, which is one of the characteristics of FRIENDS, and who can help you towards achieving your aim and vision.
NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO STAY IN OUR LIFE – Live Private
Do not be the type that have thousands of friends who may just worth nothing to you, some people are quite ready to associate with people to get what they want or need, so you must be very careful in people you mingle with.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Build Circle
Build Circle of friends in your life who can assist you in any area of life. Circle of friends who will know and understand who you are, and help you towards your ambition and who can really contribute something tangible in your life, and not crowd of people who can’t remember you when you are down.
This is definitely why you should try and LIVE WISELY, LIVE PRIVATE, BUILD CIRCLE OF FRIENDS and understand that not everyone is meant to stay in your life, some are just visitors and strangers. LIVE WISELY
Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner
Robin Gilmore as a guy on my side has always wanted to solve some challenges facing or befalling those in state of RELATIONSHIP, as the situations and qualms happening around the world of partners into RELATIONSHIP has given a lot of people wrong perspective into believing that such union can never be built in a solid ground, thereby making people into the union sees each other as fake or gamers, and also giving other aspiring ones reason never to go ahead with their relationship dream.
However, as a means to solve some of this challenges and make Relationship to be seen as the stepping stone to good MARRIAGE, he tries to analyze the current reasons why people are becoming more afraid of investing or going into a relationship with anyone.
And below is some of his thoughts.
Robin Gilmore: Challenges Facing RELATIONSHIP
Actually, the problem facing Relationship in our world today is people’s inability to read, watch and understand what RELATIONSHIP is all about.
Many people who think they are up to the age of being in a relationship quickly rush in without having plans or making a proper plan for their relationship affairs or goals.
This seems to be part of the reasons the union keep crashing everyday, because people fails to identify their plans and objective before involving in any.
Secondly, social life has taken over everything people have built for with years, people now want to live as others are living which is why break up and even divorce keep rocking high every day.
But however, with below method you can get that perfect RELATIONSHIP you want and build it to your taste, even though no Relationship is perfect.
Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner
It is hundred percent possible to be a good partner as long as it doesn’t mean being a perfect partner. No one is really perfect in life not even in a relationship, so being perfect in a relationship is probably impossible, but being good or being a good partner is quite possible.
* Study More About Relationship:
Don’t just jump into a relationship without reading or watch one or two books or videos relating to relationships and partner building, this will help you in finding out the “Rights” and the “wrongs” in Relationships.
It will help you grow more mentally and stay more mature to be able to handle any issue that will come up in your Relationship.
* Avoid Game Playing:
Always know the goal, purpose and objective of your Relationship, where it started and where it is heading to.
Avoid making plans that tends to cheat on your partner, the main goal of everyone in Relationship is to know each other and get marry in future, and never for any other thing.
So having any plans aside this shouldn’t be encouraged in order to stay as a good partner and enjoy your Relationship.
* Avoid Listening To Others Always:
Always read, watch and also observe from people, but do not listen to anyone all time.
This entails about living the way you want and handling your Relationship issues maturely, instead of listening to any advise from anyone.
Pay attention to advise given to you by people including your friends, think deeper about them before carrying anyone out.
* Stop Seeking For A Perfectionis:
Robin Gilmore by my side would always say, “perfection is found in heaven, and not on Earth”, though I don’t know if perfection is truly found in heaven, but I agree with him on the part that says perfection can’t be found on Earth.
One of the uncomm way of being a good partner is by stopping to seek for perfection and by stopping to act perfect.
Stop seeking for perfection from your partner, because your partner is not, this will increase your partner’s love for you for not expecting some special qualities from him or her.
Robin Gilmore: Conclusion
Building a RELATIONSHIP takes a lot from one, study and listen to those that has taken some of these battle to the end, and learn how they did it, then applied it, they may work for you also, Who knows.
I’ll Come Back Sweetheart I Promise – Message For Lover
I’ll COME BACK SWEETHEART I PROMISE
I guess the above statement or word can be familiar with a lot of us as some of us don’t just hear the word or make the statement, we say it by ourselves.
“I will come back sweetheart I promise” has been the regular promise some people often use in their relationship, in making vows to their partner to be right back after their ongoing journey.
This mainly comes when you have such kind of partner who would always want to be with you you wherever you are or goes to, that partner who wouldn’t love to see you spend a day and night out without being by your side, whether male of female, the message always comes when such case is about to happen.
It’s quite a promise and vow to your partner asking him or her to stay strong for you as you will be right back after the journey, business or anything that demands your absence from home or from your partner.
I’ll COME BACK SWEETHEART I PROMISE – Result
As always known and seems to be part of life, making a promise is quite easily and faster, but then sticking to the result of the promise made is much harder.
In other words, it’s very easy to place a promise and never easy to fulfill it. So what happened after making the vow and promise to your partner?, Do you still stick to it or did you disappoint?.
It’s a private question meant for you alone, are you making the promise to return for your partner for real, or are you faking it.
A lot of people who promise to return never seems to do so, some hang on their ways, and return late, some stay weeks and never return, while some starting up another from there.
As stated, making a promise is very easy and fast, but then seating to the end of the promise is quite hard, so promise what you can fulfill to avoid disappointing your partner. THANKS