I guess most of us have been hearing about relationship, and we may or may not know what Relationship actually mean, well the following article highlights most of the things you need to know about RELATIONSHIP. Starting from the definition to the importance.
MEANING OF RELATIONSHIP
Relationship as we may know is a connection between two or more things or two or more individuals. It’s a connection that exist between two or more things or two or more people.
TYPES OF RELATIONSHIP
There are different kinds and types of Relationship, in other words, there are different kinds and types of connection that can exist between two or more things or between two or more people. There are family connection (Relationship), business connection, love or Romantic connection (boyfriend and girlfriend).
However, we are focusing only on the love and romantic kind of relationship which exist between two people that can be tagged “lovers”.
RELATIONSHIP: This is the usual relationship we seems to recognize in the society as it involved two committed individuals with the same objective that points towards the future.
Relationship in other word refers to a connection of two committed individuals who have agreed to be with each other till they get marry in the future. Relationship is a MARRIAGE practical stage where you grow the love and affection you wants to enjoy when you both finally get marry, it’s a stage where you learn and study your partner very and then exermine if you can cope with his or her character or not.
RELATIONSHIP is a second stage that comes after DATING where the both parties involved build loves, trust and all the qualities that facilitates MARRIAGE.
IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIP
There are a lot of merits that goes with Relationship and some of them are:
- It helps you in knowing more deep about your partner, which you may not know when Neglected
- It helps in building love, trust, and most of the qualities that will help you in getting your marriage calm, peaceful, safe and secure.
- Relationship helps in safeguarding your weak points.
- It helps in knowing more and deep about the background of your partner. This is one of the challenges most married Couples that didn’t began with Relationship normally face.
- Relationship helps in knowing likes and dislikes of your partner, this is one of the things that causes problems in marriage. Starting your journey with Relationship will help you in knowing all of these and more.
The importance of Relationship cannot actually be over emphasized as it is the chain that drives peaceful and happy marriage. RELATIONSHIP is one of the things that sustain marriage making it a healthy one.
Relationship involves two matured people who have gotten to the stage of being referred as an adult both physically and mentally. It’s a commitment between the both individuals with the same objective.
Relationship is not a game as people made it to be. It’s not a business of trade by barter just as the society has painted it to be. It’s all about investment done with commitment by both parties towards a future value.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely
NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO STAY IN YOUR LIFE
The above phrase is actually reminding us that as we hustle to make friends around us, is definitely not everyone is meant to stay in our life. Many of us seeks for friendship, many seeks to mingle with others probably in the name of RELATIONSHIP or in the name of FRIENDSHIP, but as we are all hustle to get this company from friends, it is also important to know that not everyone we meet are meant to remain in our life.
There are actually different kinds of people in our lives, there are friends, visitors, partners, strangers and also there are enemies. This is why it’s very important to know that despite the number of friends we may have around us, not everyone is meant to stay in your life.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely
It’s quite unfortunate that sometimes, some people who you sees as friends may just be something else to you without your knowledge, some of your so called friends are just the real enemies you see, but forming to be your friend.
It is very important to always know the kind of friends you keep around, some people are just visitors and strangers in your life and as such, should be seen and treated as such.
However, in some cases, not keeping people around you or in your life doesn’t really mean their are your enemies, or not allowing people stay in your life doesn’t really make them your enemies or mean they are bad, but sometimes overcrowding your life with too much irrelevant people can cause harm to you.
It can cause harm to you in the essence of not having the rightful people around you who can help you grow in your both physical and spiritual life, which is one of the characteristics of FRIENDS, and who can help you towards achieving your aim and vision.
NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO STAY IN OUR LIFE – Live Private
Do not be the type that have thousands of friends who may just worth nothing to you, some people are quite ready to associate with people to get what they want or need, so you must be very careful in people you mingle with.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Build Circle
Build Circle of friends in your life who can assist you in any area of life. Circle of friends who will know and understand who you are, and help you towards your ambition and who can really contribute something tangible in your life, and not crowd of people who can’t remember you when you are down.
This is definitely why you should try and LIVE WISELY, LIVE PRIVATE, BUILD CIRCLE OF FRIENDS and understand that not everyone is meant to stay in your life, some are just visitors and strangers. LIVE WISELY
Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner
Robin Gilmore as a guy on my side has always wanted to solve some challenges facing or befalling those in state of RELATIONSHIP, as the situations and qualms happening around the world of partners into RELATIONSHIP has given a lot of people wrong perspective into believing that such union can never be built in a solid ground, thereby making people into the union sees each other as fake or gamers, and also giving other aspiring ones reason never to go ahead with their relationship dream.
However, as a means to solve some of this challenges and make Relationship to be seen as the stepping stone to good MARRIAGE, he tries to analyze the current reasons why people are becoming more afraid of investing or going into a relationship with anyone.
And below is some of his thoughts.
Robin Gilmore: Challenges Facing RELATIONSHIP
Actually, the problem facing Relationship in our world today is people’s inability to read, watch and understand what RELATIONSHIP is all about.
Many people who think they are up to the age of being in a relationship quickly rush in without having plans or making a proper plan for their relationship affairs or goals.
This seems to be part of the reasons the union keep crashing everyday, because people fails to identify their plans and objective before involving in any.
Secondly, social life has taken over everything people have built for with years, people now want to live as others are living which is why break up and even divorce keep rocking high every day.
But however, with below method you can get that perfect RELATIONSHIP you want and build it to your taste, even though no Relationship is perfect.
Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner
It is hundred percent possible to be a good partner as long as it doesn’t mean being a perfect partner. No one is really perfect in life not even in a relationship, so being perfect in a relationship is probably impossible, but being good or being a good partner is quite possible.
* Study More About Relationship:
Don’t just jump into a relationship without reading or watch one or two books or videos relating to relationships and partner building, this will help you in finding out the “Rights” and the “wrongs” in Relationships.
It will help you grow more mentally and stay more mature to be able to handle any issue that will come up in your Relationship.
* Avoid Game Playing:
Always know the goal, purpose and objective of your Relationship, where it started and where it is heading to.
Avoid making plans that tends to cheat on your partner, the main goal of everyone in Relationship is to know each other and get marry in future, and never for any other thing.
So having any plans aside this shouldn’t be encouraged in order to stay as a good partner and enjoy your Relationship.
* Avoid Listening To Others Always:
Always read, watch and also observe from people, but do not listen to anyone all time.
This entails about living the way you want and handling your Relationship issues maturely, instead of listening to any advise from anyone.
Pay attention to advise given to you by people including your friends, think deeper about them before carrying anyone out.
* Stop Seeking For A Perfectionis:
Robin Gilmore by my side would always say, “perfection is found in heaven, and not on Earth”, though I don’t know if perfection is truly found in heaven, but I agree with him on the part that says perfection can’t be found on Earth.
One of the uncomm way of being a good partner is by stopping to seek for perfection and by stopping to act perfect.
Stop seeking for perfection from your partner, because your partner is not, this will increase your partner’s love for you for not expecting some special qualities from him or her.
Robin Gilmore: Conclusion
Building a RELATIONSHIP takes a lot from one, study and listen to those that has taken some of these battle to the end, and learn how they did it, then applied it, they may work for you also, Who knows.
I’ll Come Back Sweetheart I Promise – Message For Lover
I’ll COME BACK SWEETHEART I PROMISE
I guess the above statement or word can be familiar with a lot of us as some of us don’t just hear the word or make the statement, we say it by ourselves.
“I will come back sweetheart I promise” has been the regular promise some people often use in their relationship, in making vows to their partner to be right back after their ongoing journey.
This mainly comes when you have such kind of partner who would always want to be with you you wherever you are or goes to, that partner who wouldn’t love to see you spend a day and night out without being by your side, whether male of female, the message always comes when such case is about to happen.
It’s quite a promise and vow to your partner asking him or her to stay strong for you as you will be right back after the journey, business or anything that demands your absence from home or from your partner.
I’ll COME BACK SWEETHEART I PROMISE – Result
As always known and seems to be part of life, making a promise is quite easily and faster, but then sticking to the result of the promise made is much harder.
In other words, it’s very easy to place a promise and never easy to fulfill it. So what happened after making the vow and promise to your partner?, Do you still stick to it or did you disappoint?.
It’s a private question meant for you alone, are you making the promise to return for your partner for real, or are you faking it.
A lot of people who promise to return never seems to do so, some hang on their ways, and return late, some stay weeks and never return, while some starting up another from there.
As stated, making a promise is very easy and fast, but then seating to the end of the promise is quite hard, so promise what you can fulfill to avoid disappointing your partner. THANKS