GIRLS DON’T LIKE BOYS IN A RELATIONSHIP
The above question and statement has been up for a quick grab with a suitable answer from a personality who can clerify why girls don’t really like boys in terms of dating and relationship making.
Before landing properly to the best of unexpecting answer, it is important one understands the subject fully.
The Conception or question here is one many of us have been asking either privately or publicly to probably understand in full details why many girls don’t always approach to confess their love to the boys and guys they may be having some feelings to, just like the way the guys does.
Many girls, when in love and having some romantic feelings for the guys, they will rather fight that feelings within them and keep it private than exposing it talk more of heading straight to the guy to…. Ah, that’s definitely a big task on their side.
Some will rather let it slide away or tip it to their female friends to help them in the process, than taking the task upon their self.
Though this isn’t a general issue among the female ones as some believes that whatever a guy can do, them too can do it as well.
But there is a greater percentage of girls who can’t disclose such feelings to their friends talk of taking the bold step, maybe this is probably because of how the society sees it and what people says about it.
GIRLS DON’T LIKE BOYS IN A RELATIONSHIP – WHY?
The above question is just a misconception as a result of girls not showing their feelings openly.
With no doubt, the society we live in made it to be so. No one actually hate anyone, whatever the guys feels, the ladies feels it too.
I do believe that some girls who can boldly say their feelings to any guy are those that decides to take off the fear of what the society will say off their mind. They have gathered enough momentum to go after what their heart desires and seek for.
However, a greater to the question why it seems girls don’t like boys in a relationship is because most girls are pretentious and wouldn’t want anyone know their feelings, probably because they believes that people around will mock or laugh at them. This is just a common mentality of some people, and the society obviously made it so.
Just the way some guys can see a pretty and cute lady and decide to approach her for her contact or whatever, it seems normal to the society than the other way round.
In fact, seeing a lady who approaches a guy to say “hi” first is being taken as something serious here, talk more of going deep.
Though I may not really say it does happen generally in all locations, but some part of the world seems worse than others.
In some countries and part of the world, seeing a lady confessing her feelings to a guy she likes, loves or have feelings for, is being taken as a taboo or something weird and such case is always taken unseriously by the guy in picture.
In another angle, apart from being shy and not standing bold to say their feelings to those they have eyes on, there is a popular belief that when a lady likes a guy first, such case or love barely stand.
Some believe that when a girl approach a guy to confess her feelings to him, the guy won’t take the girl serious and even if things later work out for them, there will be a greater percentage of the guy cheating on her because he probably wasn’t the one that made the first move.
This has been the idea and belief, and somehow this idea has been normalized in the society making it stick around and affect those it will and favour the rest.
To my best of understanding, there is no private hate the girls or ladies have for the boys or guys, it is just a misconception being carried by people as a result of the PRETENTIOUS lives of the girls and ladies. Deep down, they do have feelings and urge, just that the society frown at them when they tries to let them out.
ADVISE TO THE LADIES
Most at times you don’t need to buy some ideas from people or from the society to live an enjoying life and the best life you desires. Go for what your heart seeks and get it, that’s one of the secret of staying happy and living the best life in your world.
Most at times the society have a wrong perspectives in different things, and following the general idea and belief is likely to hurt you or prevent you from being ORIGINAL and TRUE to your personality.
You mustn’t wait on him to make the first approach, starting the greenlight can be a greater possibility on your side.
Look for the best and go after it. Waiting might cost you or get you wrong people on your side.
Identify all the qualities you need in a relationship and map them out before making a move. Remember there are thousands of guys out there seeking for LOVE, RELATIONSHIP or even MARRIAGE, but only few may be authentic to your personality and have the qualities you seeks from a partner.
So are you gonna let such chance slide you by, because you are probably expecting him to make the first move?, Are you gonna stay and pretend like you aren’t having any feelings for the person because he is yet to make a move?, Are you gonna keep hold the feelings privately to hurt yourself silently?.
Dear ladies, let the cat out of the bag before you miss such a golden opportunity. Let those urge and feelings out and stop hiding and pretending like you aren’t feeling anything.
In a Relationship, guys aren’t created to make the first move while you blush away, it goes both ways. But the society is the brain behind the ideas, and you mustn’t be in their captive.
Seeks for LOVE and go for it, go after what you seek and what your heart desires for, and stay happy, Thanks.