GIRLS DON’T LIKE BOYS IN A RELATIONSHIP
The above question and statement has been up for a quick grab with a suitable answer from a personality who can clerify why girls don’t really like boys in terms of dating and relationship making.
Before landing properly to the best of unexpecting answer, it is important one understands the subject fully.
The Conception or question here is one many of us have been asking either privately or publicly to probably understand in full details why many girls don’t always approach to confess their love to the boys and guys they may be having some feelings to, just like the way the guys does.
Many girls, when in love and having some romantic feelings for the guys, they will rather fight that feelings within them and keep it private than exposing it talk more of heading straight to the guy to…. Ah, that’s definitely a big task on their side.
Some will rather let it slide away or tip it to their female friends to help them in the process, than taking the task upon their self.
Though this isn’t a general issue among the female ones as some believes that whatever a guy can do, them too can do it as well.
But there is a greater percentage of girls who can’t disclose such feelings to their friends talk of taking the bold step, maybe this is probably because of how the society sees it and what people says about it.
GIRLS DON’T LIKE BOYS IN A RELATIONSHIP – WHY?
The above question is just a misconception as a result of girls not showing their feelings openly.
With no doubt, the society we live in made it to be so. No one actually hate anyone, whatever the guys feels, the ladies feels it too.
I do believe that some girls who can boldly say their feelings to any guy are those that decides to take off the fear of what the society will say off their mind. They have gathered enough momentum to go after what their heart desires and seek for.
However, a greater to the question why it seems girls don’t like boys in a relationship is because most girls are pretentious and wouldn’t want anyone know their feelings, probably because they believes that people around will mock or laugh at them. This is just a common mentality of some people, and the society obviously made it so.
Just the way some guys can see a pretty and cute lady and decide to approach her for her contact or whatever, it seems normal to the society than the other way round.
In fact, seeing a lady who approaches a guy to say “hi” first is being taken as something serious here, talk more of going deep.
Though I may not really say it does happen generally in all locations, but some part of the world seems worse than others.
In some countries and part of the world, seeing a lady confessing her feelings to a guy she likes, loves or have feelings for, is being taken as a taboo or something weird and such case is always taken unseriously by the guy in picture.
In another angle, apart from being shy and not standing bold to say their feelings to those they have eyes on, there is a popular belief that when a lady likes a guy first, such case or love barely stand.
Some believe that when a girl approach a guy to confess her feelings to him, the guy won’t take the girl serious and even if things later work out for them, there will be a greater percentage of the guy cheating on her because he probably wasn’t the one that made the first move.
This has been the idea and belief, and somehow this idea has been normalized in the society making it stick around and affect those it will and favour the rest.
To my best of understanding, there is no private hate the girls or ladies have for the boys or guys, it is just a misconception being carried by people as a result of the PRETENTIOUS lives of the girls and ladies. Deep down, they do have feelings and urge, just that the society frown at them when they tries to let them out.
ADVISE TO THE LADIES
Most at times you don’t need to buy some ideas from people or from the society to live an enjoying life and the best life you desires. Go for what your heart seeks and get it, that’s one of the secret of staying happy and living the best life in your world.
Most at times the society have a wrong perspectives in different things, and following the general idea and belief is likely to hurt you or prevent you from being ORIGINAL and TRUE to your personality.
You mustn’t wait on him to make the first approach, starting the greenlight can be a greater possibility on your side.
Look for the best and go after it. Waiting might cost you or get you wrong people on your side.
Identify all the qualities you need in a relationship and map them out before making a move. Remember there are thousands of guys out there seeking for LOVE, RELATIONSHIP or even MARRIAGE, but only few may be authentic to your personality and have the qualities you seeks from a partner.
So are you gonna let such chance slide you by, because you are probably expecting him to make the first move?, Are you gonna stay and pretend like you aren’t having any feelings for the person because he is yet to make a move?, Are you gonna keep hold the feelings privately to hurt yourself silently?.
Dear ladies, let the cat out of the bag before you miss such a golden opportunity. Let those urge and feelings out and stop hiding and pretending like you aren’t feeling anything.
In a Relationship, guys aren’t created to make the first move while you blush away, it goes both ways. But the society is the brain behind the ideas, and you mustn’t be in their captive.
Seeks for LOVE and go for it, go after what you seek and what your heart desires for, and stay happy, Thanks.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely
NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO STAY IN YOUR LIFE
The above phrase is actually reminding us that as we hustle to make friends around us, is definitely not everyone is meant to stay in our life. Many of us seeks for friendship, many seeks to mingle with others probably in the name of RELATIONSHIP or in the name of FRIENDSHIP, but as we are all hustle to get this company from friends, it is also important to know that not everyone we meet are meant to remain in our life.
There are actually different kinds of people in our lives, there are friends, visitors, partners, strangers and also there are enemies. This is why it’s very important to know that despite the number of friends we may have around us, not everyone is meant to stay in your life.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely
It’s quite unfortunate that sometimes, some people who you sees as friends may just be something else to you without your knowledge, some of your so called friends are just the real enemies you see, but forming to be your friend.
It is very important to always know the kind of friends you keep around, some people are just visitors and strangers in your life and as such, should be seen and treated as such.
However, in some cases, not keeping people around you or in your life doesn’t really mean their are your enemies, or not allowing people stay in your life doesn’t really make them your enemies or mean they are bad, but sometimes overcrowding your life with too much irrelevant people can cause harm to you.
It can cause harm to you in the essence of not having the rightful people around you who can help you grow in your both physical and spiritual life, which is one of the characteristics of FRIENDS, and who can help you towards achieving your aim and vision.
NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO STAY IN OUR LIFE – Live Private
Do not be the type that have thousands of friends who may just worth nothing to you, some people are quite ready to associate with people to get what they want or need, so you must be very careful in people you mingle with.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Build Circle
Build Circle of friends in your life who can assist you in any area of life. Circle of friends who will know and understand who you are, and help you towards your ambition and who can really contribute something tangible in your life, and not crowd of people who can’t remember you when you are down.
This is definitely why you should try and LIVE WISELY, LIVE PRIVATE, BUILD CIRCLE OF FRIENDS and understand that not everyone is meant to stay in your life, some are just visitors and strangers. LIVE WISELY
Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner
Robin Gilmore as a guy on my side has always wanted to solve some challenges facing or befalling those in state of RELATIONSHIP, as the situations and qualms happening around the world of partners into RELATIONSHIP has given a lot of people wrong perspective into believing that such union can never be built in a solid ground, thereby making people into the union sees each other as fake or gamers, and also giving other aspiring ones reason never to go ahead with their relationship dream.
However, as a means to solve some of this challenges and make Relationship to be seen as the stepping stone to good MARRIAGE, he tries to analyze the current reasons why people are becoming more afraid of investing or going into a relationship with anyone.
And below is some of his thoughts.
Robin Gilmore: Challenges Facing RELATIONSHIP
Actually, the problem facing Relationship in our world today is people’s inability to read, watch and understand what RELATIONSHIP is all about.
Many people who think they are up to the age of being in a relationship quickly rush in without having plans or making a proper plan for their relationship affairs or goals.
This seems to be part of the reasons the union keep crashing everyday, because people fails to identify their plans and objective before involving in any.
Secondly, social life has taken over everything people have built for with years, people now want to live as others are living which is why break up and even divorce keep rocking high every day.
But however, with below method you can get that perfect RELATIONSHIP you want and build it to your taste, even though no Relationship is perfect.
Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner
It is hundred percent possible to be a good partner as long as it doesn’t mean being a perfect partner. No one is really perfect in life not even in a relationship, so being perfect in a relationship is probably impossible, but being good or being a good partner is quite possible.
* Study More About Relationship:
Don’t just jump into a relationship without reading or watch one or two books or videos relating to relationships and partner building, this will help you in finding out the “Rights” and the “wrongs” in Relationships.
It will help you grow more mentally and stay more mature to be able to handle any issue that will come up in your Relationship.
* Avoid Game Playing:
Always know the goal, purpose and objective of your Relationship, where it started and where it is heading to.
Avoid making plans that tends to cheat on your partner, the main goal of everyone in Relationship is to know each other and get marry in future, and never for any other thing.
So having any plans aside this shouldn’t be encouraged in order to stay as a good partner and enjoy your Relationship.
* Avoid Listening To Others Always:
Always read, watch and also observe from people, but do not listen to anyone all time.
This entails about living the way you want and handling your Relationship issues maturely, instead of listening to any advise from anyone.
Pay attention to advise given to you by people including your friends, think deeper about them before carrying anyone out.
* Stop Seeking For A Perfectionis:
Robin Gilmore by my side would always say, “perfection is found in heaven, and not on Earth”, though I don’t know if perfection is truly found in heaven, but I agree with him on the part that says perfection can’t be found on Earth.
One of the uncomm way of being a good partner is by stopping to seek for perfection and by stopping to act perfect.
Stop seeking for perfection from your partner, because your partner is not, this will increase your partner’s love for you for not expecting some special qualities from him or her.
Robin Gilmore: Conclusion
Building a RELATIONSHIP takes a lot from one, study and listen to those that has taken some of these battle to the end, and learn how they did it, then applied it, they may work for you also, Who knows.
I’ll Come Back Sweetheart I Promise – Message For Lover
I’ll COME BACK SWEETHEART I PROMISE
I guess the above statement or word can be familiar with a lot of us as some of us don’t just hear the word or make the statement, we say it by ourselves.
“I will come back sweetheart I promise” has been the regular promise some people often use in their relationship, in making vows to their partner to be right back after their ongoing journey.
This mainly comes when you have such kind of partner who would always want to be with you you wherever you are or goes to, that partner who wouldn’t love to see you spend a day and night out without being by your side, whether male of female, the message always comes when such case is about to happen.
It’s quite a promise and vow to your partner asking him or her to stay strong for you as you will be right back after the journey, business or anything that demands your absence from home or from your partner.
I’ll COME BACK SWEETHEART I PROMISE – Result
As always known and seems to be part of life, making a promise is quite easily and faster, but then sticking to the result of the promise made is much harder.
In other words, it’s very easy to place a promise and never easy to fulfill it. So what happened after making the vow and promise to your partner?, Do you still stick to it or did you disappoint?.
It’s a private question meant for you alone, are you making the promise to return for your partner for real, or are you faking it.
A lot of people who promise to return never seems to do so, some hang on their ways, and return late, some stay weeks and never return, while some starting up another from there.
As stated, making a promise is very easy and fast, but then seating to the end of the promise is quite hard, so promise what you can fulfill to avoid disappointing your partner. THANKS