Relationship game playing involves all the trickish acts in a relationship either from one partner or the two partners who lives in pretense of love.
Relationship game play is actually a side thought in the mind of one partner or the both who wishes to achieve their personal aim in that relationship before taking a walk off. Some negative thoughts and actions which one or those involved in the relationship make in the absence of each other.
This is the most commonly practiced Love and relationship among us in the society as many of us are engaged in relationships which we show or have zero interest in. Many of us now pretend to love others simply because of what we are likely to gain from him or her, no interest in the relationship no love, we just act in pretense of love.
Though these games may be benefiting us in various ways and our various needs, but it’s consequences mainly lys in the future but most people who engages in it only think for the moment and not for their future plan.
You shouldn’t be surprise when being told that most of those having one issue or the other in their marriage are mainly people that played a lot of games while in a relationship. Most people uses the period meant for building love and relationship to play games and hop from one relationship to the other, and at the end, they end up achieving nothing in their marriage.
Actually the benefit of RELATIONSHIP can never be over emphasized as it’s result mainly show clearly in the matrimonial stage and not just at the relationship level.
This is why Relationship is meant for serious people who have common aims and objectives, and not just people who fall in pretense of love and just there to gain his or her self interest after which he or she will take off.
Love is a mutual feeling partners should have towards each other, but when this feeling fail to exist in the mind of the two partners involved in the relationship, then games fall in place.
This game can be an unseriousness in the relationship or cheating against each other or cheating your partner.
In any relationship where love truly exist, it will be bound by love, common interest and one aim, and most especially be free from cheating and game play. And any marriage started from such level of love always serve as a reverence to the young or newly aspiring lovers in the society.
Benefits Of Relationship Games
Actually to my best of knowledge, there is no single benefits these games can offer anyone who engages in it, but the benefits can base on the self interest of those involved and their aim of being in that relationship.
To some, Relationship can serve as a business for their interest where they hop in to abstract money or gain financial help or assistant from their partner and hop out when the need arise. Just as most gender does in the society, this is much common in our modern society today as some now sees Relationship as a business.
While to some too, sees relationship as a trade by barter business where you use what you have to get what you don’t have, this is the most common benefits of Relationship games to some entity who only think for the short period of time.
Actually, these and more are what people are likely to say is the reasons they engage in Relationship game playing.
Disadvantages Of Relationship Games Playing
Just as the advantage of Relationship game playing lys in the instant benefits, so as the disadvantages lys in the future consequences.
This consequences mainly occure when married but not as regular as we may think, but the situation can never be compromised as when avoided.
The beauty of marriage lys in love, transparency and honest, be true and avoid games as you may not know how it will affect your home when married, thanks.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely
NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO STAY IN YOUR LIFE
The above phrase is actually reminding us that as we hustle to make friends around us, is definitely not everyone is meant to stay in our life. Many of us seeks for friendship, many seeks to mingle with others probably in the name of RELATIONSHIP or in the name of FRIENDSHIP, but as we are all hustle to get this company from friends, it is also important to know that not everyone we meet are meant to remain in our life.
There are actually different kinds of people in our lives, there are friends, visitors, partners, strangers and also there are enemies. This is why it’s very important to know that despite the number of friends we may have around us, not everyone is meant to stay in your life.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely
It’s quite unfortunate that sometimes, some people who you sees as friends may just be something else to you without your knowledge, some of your so called friends are just the real enemies you see, but forming to be your friend.
It is very important to always know the kind of friends you keep around, some people are just visitors and strangers in your life and as such, should be seen and treated as such.
However, in some cases, not keeping people around you or in your life doesn’t really mean their are your enemies, or not allowing people stay in your life doesn’t really make them your enemies or mean they are bad, but sometimes overcrowding your life with too much irrelevant people can cause harm to you.
It can cause harm to you in the essence of not having the rightful people around you who can help you grow in your both physical and spiritual life, which is one of the characteristics of FRIENDS, and who can help you towards achieving your aim and vision.
NOT EVERYONE IS MEANT TO STAY IN OUR LIFE – Live Private
Do not be the type that have thousands of friends who may just worth nothing to you, some people are quite ready to associate with people to get what they want or need, so you must be very careful in people you mingle with.
Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Build Circle
Build Circle of friends in your life who can assist you in any area of life. Circle of friends who will know and understand who you are, and help you towards your ambition and who can really contribute something tangible in your life, and not crowd of people who can’t remember you when you are down.
This is definitely why you should try and LIVE WISELY, LIVE PRIVATE, BUILD CIRCLE OF FRIENDS and understand that not everyone is meant to stay in your life, some are just visitors and strangers. LIVE WISELY
Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner
Robin Gilmore as a guy on my side has always wanted to solve some challenges facing or befalling those in state of RELATIONSHIP, as the situations and qualms happening around the world of partners into RELATIONSHIP has given a lot of people wrong perspective into believing that such union can never be built in a solid ground, thereby making people into the union sees each other as fake or gamers, and also giving other aspiring ones reason never to go ahead with their relationship dream.
However, as a means to solve some of this challenges and make Relationship to be seen as the stepping stone to good MARRIAGE, he tries to analyze the current reasons why people are becoming more afraid of investing or going into a relationship with anyone.
And below is some of his thoughts.
Robin Gilmore: Challenges Facing RELATIONSHIP
Actually, the problem facing Relationship in our world today is people’s inability to read, watch and understand what RELATIONSHIP is all about.
Many people who think they are up to the age of being in a relationship quickly rush in without having plans or making a proper plan for their relationship affairs or goals.
This seems to be part of the reasons the union keep crashing everyday, because people fails to identify their plans and objective before involving in any.
Secondly, social life has taken over everything people have built for with years, people now want to live as others are living which is why break up and even divorce keep rocking high every day.
But however, with below method you can get that perfect RELATIONSHIP you want and build it to your taste, even though no Relationship is perfect.
Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner
It is hundred percent possible to be a good partner as long as it doesn’t mean being a perfect partner. No one is really perfect in life not even in a relationship, so being perfect in a relationship is probably impossible, but being good or being a good partner is quite possible.
* Study More About Relationship:
Don’t just jump into a relationship without reading or watch one or two books or videos relating to relationships and partner building, this will help you in finding out the “Rights” and the “wrongs” in Relationships.
It will help you grow more mentally and stay more mature to be able to handle any issue that will come up in your Relationship.
* Avoid Game Playing:
Always know the goal, purpose and objective of your Relationship, where it started and where it is heading to.
Avoid making plans that tends to cheat on your partner, the main goal of everyone in Relationship is to know each other and get marry in future, and never for any other thing.
So having any plans aside this shouldn’t be encouraged in order to stay as a good partner and enjoy your Relationship.
* Avoid Listening To Others Always:
Always read, watch and also observe from people, but do not listen to anyone all time.
This entails about living the way you want and handling your Relationship issues maturely, instead of listening to any advise from anyone.
Pay attention to advise given to you by people including your friends, think deeper about them before carrying anyone out.
* Stop Seeking For A Perfectionis:
Robin Gilmore by my side would always say, “perfection is found in heaven, and not on Earth”, though I don’t know if perfection is truly found in heaven, but I agree with him on the part that says perfection can’t be found on Earth.
One of the uncomm way of being a good partner is by stopping to seek for perfection and by stopping to act perfect.
Stop seeking for perfection from your partner, because your partner is not, this will increase your partner’s love for you for not expecting some special qualities from him or her.
Robin Gilmore: Conclusion
Building a RELATIONSHIP takes a lot from one, study and listen to those that has taken some of these battle to the end, and learn how they did it, then applied it, they may work for you also, Who knows.
I’ll Come Back Sweetheart I Promise – Message For Lover
I’ll COME BACK SWEETHEART I PROMISE
I guess the above statement or word can be familiar with a lot of us as some of us don’t just hear the word or make the statement, we say it by ourselves.
“I will come back sweetheart I promise” has been the regular promise some people often use in their relationship, in making vows to their partner to be right back after their ongoing journey.
This mainly comes when you have such kind of partner who would always want to be with you you wherever you are or goes to, that partner who wouldn’t love to see you spend a day and night out without being by your side, whether male of female, the message always comes when such case is about to happen.
It’s quite a promise and vow to your partner asking him or her to stay strong for you as you will be right back after the journey, business or anything that demands your absence from home or from your partner.
I’ll COME BACK SWEETHEART I PROMISE – Result
As always known and seems to be part of life, making a promise is quite easily and faster, but then sticking to the result of the promise made is much harder.
In other words, it’s very easy to place a promise and never easy to fulfill it. So what happened after making the vow and promise to your partner?, Do you still stick to it or did you disappoint?.
It’s a private question meant for you alone, are you making the promise to return for your partner for real, or are you faking it.
A lot of people who promise to return never seems to do so, some hang on their ways, and return late, some stay weeks and never return, while some starting up another from there.
As stated, making a promise is very easy and fast, but then seating to the end of the promise is quite hard, so promise what you can fulfill to avoid disappointing your partner. THANKS