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Precautions Before Falling In Love – Love At First Sight



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Love At First Sight.

Contrary to some people’s negative perspective towards LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT, it is important some know that love at first sight has equally helped a lot of people kick off a perfect Relationship and build a suitable home which love at thousand sight might not give them.

This is not about telling you that love at first sight is the best or isn’t, but it’s about the things that facilitates each way you follow.

People who emphasizes more on the danger of love at first sight are either two people, those who stubbornly fell in love at first sight without taking the necessary requirements or precautions before jumping into RELATIONSHIP, or some relationship expert who strongly understand people’s negligence over the precautions while falling in love.

However, as I stated in my previous post about LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT MEANING, one can perfectly kick off a love affair or Relationship at their first sight. Whether love at first sight, love at thousand sights or even love at million sights, if you really understands the strategy fully and take the necessary precautions, you will have a beautiful Marriage thereafter.

With no doubt, falling in love in our current world today is no longer rare or weird, it’s based on how open or known you can let it be.

And some of this romantic and emotional feelings is being noticed on just a first sight of seeing him or her. So whether keeping such feelings till meeting each other for hundred, thousand or million times is left for who is involved. This is an open reality in our world.

Moreover, one can still engage in a relationship or fall in love in a normal way different from love at first sight, and still ends up achieving nothing and being served with enough breakfast.

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However, a good, better and best way of having the best of love and Relationship you wishes to have is by taking some personal precautions before jumping into love or RELATIONSHIP.


There are many precautions one can take in order to have a better future and stay good and in safe lane even after falling in love, and avoid unnecessary break out. Below is some personal question you need to ask to keep yourself aware of the journey ahead.

1: Does Your Partner Love You?:

When that feelings of love is giving you tough time and making you crazy, just ask yourself if the person truly love you as you love him or her, or as he or she said.

Don’t just conclude that your partner loves you, does it show on their character?.

For you to fall in love properly, enjoy it and avoid some breakfast (heart break), then the LOVE has to be mutual.

Don’t just love your partner, also expect to be loved by your partner. It goes both way round.

2: Does Your Partner Family Like/Love You?:

This is one of the biggest question you should ask your self before thinking about moving further. That boo and babe you so much love and whenever you sees him or her, you become crazy because you are crazily in love with him or her, does his or her family, siblings and relatives like/love you as well?.

You should understand that love, Relationship and Marriage is not just a two person’s thing in some part of the world, sometimes when you marry him, you are officially married to his family and vice versa. Sometimes when you are engaged to him, you are engaged to his sisters as well, when you are seriously in love with her, you also have her parents and relatives to contend with when things pop out.

This means that at times when you marry your woman or your man, you are also subjected to listen and respect the family which in some case, can be a major problem you will face in your marital home and not just the one from your partner.

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So where love isn’t shown to you by your partner’s family and relatives, moving further with such person is at owners risk.

3: Do You Have What It Takes To Fall In Love:

Falling in love is far beyond the feeling, there are many things attached. You just need to ask yourself if you are truly ready and have what it takes to fall in love.

Falling in love might get you a different results from how you both started which you may not like, so you have to be prepared ahead, stay fit financially and in all aspects to be able to take the result boldly.

Love at first sight

Love at first sight

So asking your self if you are ready for the journey can be a good precautions to take before moving ahead.


Falling in love is one thing, protecting your love against attack to avoid being served breakfast is another thing. Below are few among the various ways one can protect his or her love, and save his or her relationship or marriage.

1: Learn More About Your Partner:

Knowing more about your partner isn’t about knowing his or her name, sure name, his or her likes and dislikes, but extend it beyond him or her alone, extend your knowledge around.

Move further to know the kind of parents and relatives he or she may have because most at times, those surrounding your partner are likely to be the cause of any problem that may result out. Just make sure your partner is being surrounded with good people who can love you and accept you among themselves.

The journey of LOVE, RELATIONSHIP and MARRIAGE is quite beyond those involved, as those surrounding people involved also play some roles towards the influence of such love, Relationship or Marriage, but most at times their roles are hidden and not much open. While some case is more noticeable and although it’s very wrong some how as a parent or relative to interfere in people’s lives who are more matured and can handle any issues raised in their personal life, but such is the case in most places and homes. And culture as well.

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This is why you don’t just learn about your partner, but go as far as learning about his or her parents, how they treat you and how they act towards you.

Whichever place you are accepted, the signal won’t show more than twice before you notice it.

This will help you protect the love you have for your partner.

2: Avoid Taking Unnecessary Advise From Everyone:

Sometimes your own best friend can be an instrument of your downfall in your love journey, Relationship or Marriage. Sometimes not all your friends wishes you well and not all want you happy in your relationship or Marriage, so some tries as much as possible to pull you off from the relationship or Marriage.

Though some advise that may be coming from them may not really be sounding weird or bittered, some are not likely to wish you bad also, so advise given by them may not really be intended to destroy your relationship or so, but applying them in your own life may be at your own risk.

Most at times things work in different ways, sometimes applying a process, procedure or method one is using to build his or her home perfectly well in your own home may put you in a negative side.

Everyone is to have a deeper knowledge and deeper understanding of what can favour their home and what can’t.

We are quite different, taking advise from Mrs Linda on how she built a perfect love and secured her home perfectly may end up destroying your own home because what work for Linda may not work for you. Just a reality. Thanks.


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Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely



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The above phrase is actually reminding us that as we hustle to make friends around us, is definitely not everyone is meant to stay in our life. Many of us seeks for friendship, many seeks to mingle with others probably in the name of RELATIONSHIP or in the name of FRIENDSHIP, but as we are all hustle to get this company from friends, it is also important to know that not everyone we meet are meant to remain in our life.

There are actually different kinds of people in our lives, there are friends, visitors, partners, strangers and also there are enemies. This is why it’s very important to know that despite the number of friends we may have around us, not everyone is meant to stay in your life.

Not everyone is meant to stay in your life

Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Live Wisely

It’s quite unfortunate that sometimes, some people who you sees as friends may just be something else to you without your knowledge, some of your so called friends are just the real enemies you see, but forming to be your friend.

It is very important to always know the kind of friends you keep around, some people are just visitors and strangers in your life and as such, should be seen and treated as such.

However, in some cases, not keeping people around you or in your life doesn’t really mean their are your enemies, or not allowing people stay in your life doesn’t really make them your enemies or mean they are bad, but sometimes overcrowding your life with too much irrelevant people can cause harm to you.

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It can cause harm to you in the essence of not having the rightful people around you who can help you grow in your both physical and spiritual life, which is one of the characteristics of FRIENDS, and who can help you towards achieving your aim and vision.


Do not be the type that have thousands of friends who may just worth nothing to you, some people are quite ready to associate with people to get what they want or need, so you must be very careful in people you mingle with.

Not Everyone Is Meant To Stay In Your Life – Build Circle

Build Circle of friends in your life who can assist you in any area of life. Circle of friends who will know and understand who you are, and help you towards your ambition and who can really contribute something tangible in your life, and not crowd of people who can’t remember you when you are down.

Not everyone is meant to stay in your life

This is definitely why you should try and LIVE WISELY, LIVE PRIVATE, BUILD CIRCLE OF FRIENDS and understand that not everyone is meant to stay in your life, some are just visitors and strangers. LIVE WISELY

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Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner



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Robin Gilmore as a guy on my side has always wanted to solve some challenges facing or befalling those in state of RELATIONSHIP, as the situations and qualms happening around the world of partners into RELATIONSHIP has given a lot of people wrong perspective into believing that such union can never be built in a solid ground, thereby making people into the union sees each other as fake or gamers, and also giving other aspiring ones reason never to go ahead with their relationship dream.

However, as a means to solve some of this challenges and make Relationship to be seen as the stepping stone to good MARRIAGE, he tries to analyze the current reasons why people are becoming more afraid of investing or going into a relationship with anyone.

And below is some of his thoughts.

Robin Gilmore: Challenges Facing RELATIONSHIP

Actually, the problem facing Relationship in our world today is people’s inability to read, watch and understand what RELATIONSHIP is all about.

Many people who think they are up to the age of being in a relationship quickly rush in without having plans or making a proper plan for their relationship affairs or goals.

This seems to be part of the reasons the union keep crashing everyday, because people fails to identify their plans and objective before involving in any.

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Secondly, social life has taken over everything people have built for with years, people now want to live as others are living which is why break up and even divorce keep rocking high every day.

But however, with below method you can get that perfect RELATIONSHIP you want and build it to your taste, even though no Relationship is perfect.

Robin Gilmore: How To Be A Good Partner

It is hundred percent possible to be a good partner as long as it doesn’t mean being a perfect partner. No one is really perfect in life not even in a relationship, so being perfect in a relationship is probably impossible, but being good or being a good partner is quite possible.

Here’s how.

* Study More About Relationship:

Don’t just jump into a relationship without reading or watch one or two books or videos relating to relationships and partner building, this will help you in finding out the “Rights” and the “wrongs” in Relationships.

It will help you grow more mentally and stay more mature to be able to handle any issue that will come up in your Relationship.

* Avoid Game Playing:

Always know the goal, purpose and objective of your Relationship, where it started and where it is heading to.

Avoid making plans that tends to cheat on your partner, the main goal of everyone in Relationship is to know each other and get marry in future, and never for any other thing.

So having any plans aside this shouldn’t be encouraged in order to stay as a good partner and enjoy your Relationship.


* Avoid Listening To Others Always:

Always read, watch and also observe from people, but do not listen to anyone all time.

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This entails about living the way you want and handling your Relationship issues maturely, instead of listening to any advise from anyone.

Pay attention to advise given to you by people including your friends, think deeper about them before carrying anyone out.

* Stop Seeking For A Perfectionis:

Robin Gilmore by my side would always say, “perfection is found in heaven, and not on Earth”, though I don’t know if perfection is truly found in heaven, but I agree with him on the part that says perfection can’t be found on Earth.

One of the uncomm way of being a good partner is by stopping to seek for perfection and by stopping to act perfect.

Stop seeking for perfection from your partner, because your partner is not, this will increase your partner’s love for you for not expecting some special qualities from him or her.

Robin Gilmore

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Robin Gilmore: Conclusion

Building a RELATIONSHIP takes a lot from one, study and listen to those that has taken some of these battle to the end, and learn how they did it, then applied it, they may work for you also, Who knows.

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I’ll Come Back Sweetheart I Promise – Message For Lover



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I guess the above statement or word can be familiar with a lot of us as some of us don’t just hear the word or make the statement, we say it by ourselves.

I will come back sweetheart I promise” has been the regular promise some people often use in their relationship, in making vows to their partner to be right back after their ongoing journey.

This mainly comes when you have such kind of partner who would always want to be with you you wherever you are or goes to, that partner who wouldn’t love to see you spend a day and night out without being by your side, whether male of female, the message always comes when such case is about to happen.

It’s quite a promise and vow to your partner asking him or her to stay strong for you as you will be right back after the journey, business or anything that demands your absence from home or from your partner.


As always known and seems to be part of life, making a promise is quite easily and faster, but then sticking to the result of the promise made is much harder.

In other words, it’s very easy to place a promise and never easy to fulfill it. So what happened after making the vow and promise to your partner?, Do you still stick to it or did you disappoint?.

It’s a private question meant for you alone, are you making the promise to return for your partner for real, or are you faking it.

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A lot of people who promise to return never seems to do so, some hang on their ways, and return late, some stay weeks and never return, while some starting up another from there.

I'll Come Back Sweetheart I Promise


As stated, making a promise is very easy and fast, but then seating to the end of the promise is quite hard, so promise what you can fulfill to avoid disappointing your partner. THANKS

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