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How To Create A Channel Of Happiness In Your Marriage
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How Can You Create A Channel Of Happiness In Your Marriage?
To some this might be little complicating or sound new, to some this might be interesting to read while to some this can be regarded as a golden opportunity to read and understand how one can create a channel or source of happiness in his or her marital homes.
But irrespective of where you may fall into, the above topic is a very interesting and important key towards BUILDING A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE.
Actually the fact about marriage is that you only enjoys it when you build it in a good and healthy condition. That is, when you understand everything about it and gives it a good intention to build it successfully. You only enjoy your marriage when you know how to build, maintain and sustain your marriage, that is the key of a healthy and successful marriage.
As discussed in our previous post on HOW TO BUILD A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE, creating a channel of happiness in your marriage is a rightful step to follow towards achieving this result, but then knowing few ways one can create this channel is a concern.
In a quick note, let’s take five ways one can create a channel of happiness to sustain his or her marriage and for a better result in the marriage.
5 WAYs TO CREATE A CHANNEL OF HAPPINESS IN YOUR MARRIAGE
1: Go Out On Free Times With Your Partner Or Family:
Actually, a lot of us think that the only time one can take his or her partner out, or the only time partners can go out to have a little fun is when they are still in relationship, but after marriage, NO to that.
No, this is totally a wrong idea as marriage also requires most of the things you do in your relationship which include going out with your partner to beach, eatery, zoo or occasions for the purpose of having fun together.
Don’t take this “Responsibilities” placed in marriage by the society too personal, getting married doesn’t limit or stop you from going that same beach where you both met and exchanged contact in, it doesn’t stop or prevent you from taking your partner out to an eatery, restaurant, pizza bar or wine bar to have a different taste of food or drink, just as you both always do before getting married.
In fact this is one of the most common societal ideas which hurts us in a different ways. It is quite true that marriage is about responsibilities in our homes, as it differs from that of relationship, but we shouldn’t apply a do or die force in our marriage just because we are trying to live in accordance with the society.
Feel free to your self and to your partner, on a free time, go out with your spouse and have the best of fun as much as you can.
In this way, you have created a big channel towards making sure that happiness never depart from your marriage, even if it doe, it definitely won’t be too far away.
2: Learn To Surprise Your Partner Or Spouse With Gift:
Yes we also have this common mentality that it is only our girlfriends or boyfriends we can surprise or it is only in relationship we can do that. Surprises is a general case as it doesn’t end in Relationship, also buy things for your spouse and surprise him or her.
This may not really happen in a surprising way as it is called, but learn to buy things that makes your partner happy. By this way, you are constantly and regularly bringing happiness in your marriage. Just learn to buy some gift or things that can make your partner stay happy.
3: Learn To Give Your Spouse Space:
Most of us may not really know or understand how important giving your partner or spouse space can be, and this is why we keep acting like marriage is a do or die affair.
No it is not, marriage is done willingly, not compulsory or forceful, and don’t let it be as if you are doing one a Favour by being in the marriage.
Most at times HAPPINESS exist in a marriage where the two parties are free to express themselves, free to do things that makes them happy and have enough space of privacy.
Consider this if you really wants to create a good channel of happiness in your marriage, learn to give your partner some breathing space and not to make your marriage look like a cage or bondage.
Actually marriage requires a deep and matured minds alike and who can understand each other, that is why you must learn to walk in the side of RELATIONSHIP before getting involved in marriage for the betterment, growth and success of your marriage.
4: Respect Boundaries:
Actually in every union, organization or areas of life, there are some rules and regulations that helps us avoid trespassing across our lane. This is rightly applied in the sense of marriage and even Relationship, boundaries set are ways of safeguarding our weaknesses, and you are meant to respect each other’s boundary.
Aside this, have a clear knowledge of what provokes your partner and what easily get them annoy, then respect their choice and avoid doing any of them.
5: Show Love And Care To Your Partner:
This is definitely a summary of the list as in a marriage where there is happiness, love and care will be there also.
So one of the greatest way of bringing happiness to your marriage is by always loving and caring for your partner. Don’t let it be one sided, showing love and caring should be mutual.
NOTE: Happiness can be seen as one of the ways of building a successful and peaceful marriage, never underrate it’s importance in your marriage.
CONCLUSION
Aside the five list above of how you can create a channel of happiness in your marriage, you can also apply your own personal means as there are several ways one can do that. But the above list is also an extra knowledge you can add to the existing one to make it more effective. Thanks
BRIGHTWORLD
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Craving Your Touch Quotes
Dear hubby, this beautiful “craving your touch quotes” by Bright Tobias is rightfully for you as I miss and cherish every moment I spent with you.
Hi dear, what is craving your touch quotes and how does it improve our way of communicating in our various RELATIONSHIP in the the society?
Craving Your Touch Quotes
Craving Your Touch Quotes are beautiful and random quotes which expresses gratitude and pleased towards the state of your relationship.
They are quotes that expresses the passion and feelings amidst of the absence of one partner in a RELATIONSHIP. These quotes are always expressed when one partner seems to be absent or far away from the other making one or the both crave for each other.
However, the essence of “Craving Your Touch Quotes” is to express your inner most feelings that you are battling with the memories you both shared together and as such, craving to have him or her back on your side.
As transparency matters so much in a RELATIONSHIP, it is very important to always state your mind, mood and whatever feelings you are having which obviously help towards building trust in the relationship.
Craving Your Touch Quotes Ideas For Your Partner
Most times, it is advisable to add some form of UNIQUENESS towards whatever quotes you are importing in your RELATIONSHIP as not to make it sound offline or crammed while speaking or quoting them.
Of course you can’t know more without having an idea, and below are few ideas of “craving your touch quotes” for your partner.
Craving Your Touch Quotes
★ I’m Surrounded By Strangers Who Can’t Come Closer To Me Than You Can, I’m Craving Your Touch:
Hi babe, it’s been like a month you left me behind and travel, I’m now surrounding by strangers who I can’t even confide in. Babe I’m Surrounded with people who I can’t even get closer to and I’m serious missing and craving for your touch, please do fast and come back.
★ Hi Babe, It’s Another Friday And I’m Craving Your Touch:
Babe it’s been over two Fridays you left me behind, it’s another Friday making it the third Friday, please babe I’m really craving for your touch. I’m really craving for you, babe I need you by my side.
★ Babe I’m Craving Your Touch, I Wanna Spend This Friday With You:
Babe guest what, it’s Friday and guest what again, it’s freeaky Friday to freeeeeaaky out with you. Babe I’m serious craving for your touch.
★ Babe It Rained Heavily Here And I’m Feeling Cold As Usual, I Can’t Stop Thinking About Your Arm Because That’s Usually My Resting Place In A Cold Season Like This:
Babe I don’t think I have felt this kind of cold since my entire life. I really don’t know the reason I’m feeling this way but I think I’m really craving for your arm. Babe I mean I’m craving for your touch all over me. I need you right now babe.
★ Hi Hubby, It’s Another Night Without You And I Must Say, I’m Really Craving Your Touch:
It seems like a punishment for me to stay without you or without your touch over me. It’s another night and here I am lying on my bed thinking so deeply about you. Babe I’m thinking about you and at the same time craving for your touch.
★ Hi Babe, I Think I’m Getting Into The Mood And Seriously Need You By My Side For Some Cuddling:
Babe it’s seems like a punishment to spend another Friday without you. Babe the feelings isn’t getting easier for me and I seriously need you by my side for this weird mood. I’m really crying for your touch, babe I need you by my side pleeeeeeese.
Craving Your Touch Quotes – Conclusion
The above “craving your touch quotes” are just examples of beautiful quotes you can cramme and dish out to your partner as to spice up the LOVE and RELATIONSHIP you both shared together.
However, you can still add a reform on each of them as to make it more personal and customise as not to sound a kind of “copy and paste” type of relationship guy or girl, lol.
The quotes can be used for both male and female, no gender specific quote over there, but you can customize them to your taste as I said.
Note: The above craving your touch quotes is composed and written by BRIGHT TOBIAS. Thanks for reading.
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True Love Is When He Ignores You
Whether you concur on the above subject that says true love is when he ignores you or not, I rightly hope you are here to gain one or two knowledge and probably learn the reason why true love is when he ignores you, instead of the other way round.
To some of us (if not most), true love is when he ignores you is something to argue for till all day long, because instead of seeing it as a red flag in a RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE, we are embracing it.
But hold on, do you actually mean if your man start ignoring you, then it simply mean he seriously love and respect you as his girlfriend?, Is that really what it is all about?. Lol, that sound complicated and at the same time funny.
This instance or scenarios can even be hard to concur by many ladies who can be quick to react or judge their partner without proper examination tho.
Well, when you hear true love is when he ignores you, this isn’t actually pointing at the side you are thinking of, or the kind of “ignore” your mind may be giving you, this is why Bright Tobias has taken some time to explain it. So relax and sip this knowledge like Martel, BRIGHTWORLD is coming through for you.
True Love Is When He Ignores You
While being ignored by your man may sound bad and a sign of red flag from him, it is very important to note the circumstances and situations surrounding the “ignore” before jumping into conclusion.
In a very beautiful and loving relationship going on, it can be weird and abnormal for a guy to suddenly start ignoring his girl for no reason. So it is so Important to make sure you do a proper findings and checks before concluding or choosing your next fate.
However, we will be discussing some of the various issues and circumstances that may prompt a guy to start ignoring his girlfriend. This issues or circumstances are the words behind the “ignore” or “ignoring” from the guy, and they should be properly noted out in order to solve them amicably without rushing to conclusion or rushing to actions.
But this doesn’t only involve those in a RELATIONSHIP alone, but LIFE generally.
True Love Is When He Ignores You – Circumstances And Reasons Behind Their Actions
Being Ignored By Your Boyfriend
Sometimes, when your boyfriend start ignoring you and doesn’t feel like giving you the attention you seek, it doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t love or respect you anyone neither does it show a sign of red flag from him, but it could simply mean that there’s an issue at hand which he is devising a means to solve without getting you bothered over it. Below are some reasons your man may choose to ignore you even when you try calling or speaking with him.
1: He Just Want To Left Alone:
Whether you have been with a guy for months, years or whatever, there are times he may feel like needing a personal space or feeling like being alone to sort some of his utmost lifestyle issues which may not have anything to do with you. They may not feel like sharing some of this problems or burden with you, instead they will seek to be left alone.
While being alone, you may just bump into his space without knowing what’s already happening over there in his mind, and this can make him start ignoring you because he may feel is not the right time to speak with you or share with you. But that doesn’t mean he no longer love or respect you, this is why it is said that true love is when he ignores you.
2: He Is Thinking About The Way Forward In The Relationship:
The aim purpose of getting into a good and genuine relationship is to bond together, create memories together, learn more about each other and at the end get married together and live happily afterwards. Any objectives or aims aside this isn’t embraced.
However, the reason why your man may start ignoring you sometimes may just be that he is thinking about the way forward in the relationship. This includes what to do to make the relationship stay and last forever, how to bring happiness in the relationship and probably when to get married to the lover of his life. All these are just an advantage to the lady and this is where “true love is when he ignores you” comes in.
Though it is okay to feel certain way when being ignored by your man as a human being, but then give him time to chear up, or better still, make him confide in you.
3: He Is Thinking About His Financial Life:
While RELATIONSHIP may seems good and sweet, especially the genuine ones, i bet it’s not sweeter than money. In fact, anything that is sweeter than money in life is probably “more money“, lol.
In fact, one of the popular singer from Nigeria Africa called “Davido” once said in his music, “Love is sweet, but when money enter love is sweeter“, he probably said this while bonding with his fiance, Chioma. And today they are married together, but that’s by the way.
So it could just be that your boyfriend is thinking about his financial life, how to make money, make more money and take good care of you. isn’t that enough to show how much he love and cherish you?, That’s possibly where “true love is when he ignores you” comes in.
So before seeing it as a red flag from him or bad side of him, also have in mind that this could be the things bothering him but he decide to battle it alone without sharing with you.
4: You Provoke/Annoy Him:
Actually, men react differently during anger and this is one of the reasons you should always pay focus in studying your man too well to know how he react during anger or when being provoked.
To some guys, they may start vibrating and ranting to their girls when they got annoyed or provoked by their girls. To some, they may just start beating their girlfriend which isn’t proper and show lack of respect for their woman. While to some, they may decide to ignore you and maybe leave the house or your presence for as long as possible, to get back to their right sense and fall back into the right mood.
However, when the latter becomes an instance, it is obviously the best way to handle an anger issue and as such, the guy should be left out for sometimes or an immediate apology be rendered if necessary. But have it in mind that it may not work immediately or as easy as you may think, as the guy may start ignoring and avoiding you for a while. Including not picking up your calls, replying your text messages or meeting you anymore, just to cool of some tension and pressure. But that shouldn’t be long tho to avoid inviting satan over to your relationship, lol.
5: He Doesn’t Want You Anymore:
This is obviously where the statement “when the going in the relationship get tougher, break up becomes necessary” comes in. At this point, the guy is fed up and may not have the courage or right tune to tell you he doesn’t want you anymore, and that will make him start acting silly towards you.
When you give him a call, he will ignore and never pick, you try seeing him, he will tell you he doesn’t have time or chance to meet with you or he’s too busy to see you. All these is just a sign to tell you he’s no longer interested in the Relationship, and as such you should move on.
But note, before accepting your fate and moving on, give your best to get it back by devising all possible means like trying to know his reason(s) for the break up and seek for a way to resolve things. But if much efforts yields no fruit, then cut some slack and move on. LIFE is really simple and short to start dwelling on negativity. Just accept your fate and move on, life isn’t hard tho.
In conclusion, these and more can be noted as the reasons your boyfriend may choose to ignore you sometimes, but don’t always be bothered over the negativity by solely depending on the fifth list, sometimes it may be something else bothering him.
Being Ignored By Your Male Friend
While your boyfriend wanting to be alone, thinking about his financial life, how to take good care of you more and others could be the possible reasons why he may chose to ignore you at times, the circumstances and situations differs from when being ignored by your male friends. But firstly, who is the male friend in question here different from your boyfriend?.
Well, the male friend in question here could be your male colleague at work, guys at your street, neighbours or guys you closely interact with.
“True Love Is When He Ignores You” states that sometimes when trying to keep a communication with these folks but got ignored, it could possibly mean they are having a hidden agenda for you.
Hidden agenda different from a hidden agenda, not a harmful one tho. It could be they are admiring you or want something serious with you which may be or may not be RELATIONSHIP TALK.
However, it is very important to pay attention to the Signs they are communicating with to find out if it’s truly LOVE ISSUE or something else.
Furthermore, there are other reasons a friend may chose to ignore you, below are few among the list.
1: He Doesn’t Want To Speak With You Again:
At this spot, everything is becoming boring and coming to an end, the urge to continue to keep a cool or steady communication with you again may no longer be there and instead of informing you and explaining the reasons behind that, he may start ignoring you totally.
So while love issue can be a reason some guys may decide to ignore you at first or a period of time, some are just fed up of speaking with you.
2: He Is Avoiding Billing From You:
LOL, I had to laugh out loud on this because I understand the scenarios involved in this kind of situation. I fully understand how it can be to see someone who always beg you for money or anything else coming your way or calling on the phone. The scenario is a funny one, totally funny.
At times, the intention of calling someone determines the outcome of it. Most times guys who run away from billing or spending of money tends to dodge or ignore some certain people’s call not because they doesn’t want to talk to them or see them, but because they doesn’t have anything to spend.
So before jumping into a particular conclusion of why a guy isn’t picking up your calls, ignoring you or doesn’t want to see you, make sure such guy doesn’t see you as one who always make him spend than anything else.
No matter how rich and extravagant spender a guy can be, no matter how wasteful a guy can be towards money, he will always identify those that make him spend more and those that make him spend less. At times goes he may decide to cut off with those that make him spend more and extravagantly and start keeping those that make him spend less. That’s the mindset of the wealthy tho.
Boys run for billing, so make sure your call or present isn’t to bill him, if not he may decide to ignore you or hide from you till thy kingdom come.
True Love Is When He Ignores You – Conclusion
The above are circumstances and reasons why you can be ignored by a guy, be it your man (boyfriend), your male friends and sometimes your husband as well. But just note there are more likely reasons they may choose to ignore you, always pay attention to the signs and seek for advice from closer people if necessary.
However, the above article is composed and written by BRIGHT TOBIAS. Thanks for your time at BRIGHTWORLD.
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Smile Dating Test Ideas
Its definitely not a mistake or coincident that you arrived at “smile Dating Test Ideas” article because you search for it, but because you are here to read about some fun games you can play with hubby and your partner to probably know their views and their say in some aspects and areas of RELATIONSHIP and as well as MARRIAGE.
So if the above subject is what triggered you to be here, welcome and have a relax mind as I deliver to you some of the beautiful and fun smile dating test ideas you can try out in your RELATIONSHIP or your household.
Smile Dating Test Ideas
Well, one may ask, what is a smile dating test?, How does it work and what is it’s benefits and effect in a RELATIONSHIP. Well as I said before, you are highly welcome, you are at the right place at BRIGHTWORLD, just relax and read on.
Firstly, smile dating test is a fun activities used in either a relationship, friendship or marriage to catch the perspective of your partner towards some serious issues and objectives mainly surrounding LOVE, DATING, RELATIONSHIP and MARRIAGE.
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This is a form of game activities played among lovers or those dating each other, in order to know what one think of something and their views towards it.
This smile dating test has so far given people who are either dating each other or in a RELATIONSHIP a clear vision and understanding of whom their partner is, and end up deciding whether they can continue with such date, relationship, marriage or to quite, depending on the answers shared which may not sit well with each other’s preferences or specifications.
However, this at times does not equate the amount of love one may have for another, or describe an upto fifty percent of one’s identity, as there are still people who just play it for fun while keeping emotions aside.
That is to say, out of fun, many people plays smile dating test games. And as hilarious as some of the activities can be to some, their real identity may not really be shared, as some can just be quoting whichever side they feel like just to keep it entertaining and more fun, as some always call it. And this, shouldn’t be taken seriously by the parties involved after the GAME PLAYING, as it is initially tagged “FUN” unless otherwise.
Furthermore, in the case of where seriousness is exhibited while playing the smile dating test game with the aim of knowing each other’s perspective of some serious and sensitive issues concerning their RELATIONSHIP, MARRIAGE or whatever they both have in common, more and deeply findings can still be carried out by anyone who doesn’t feel happy over the results of their partner.
This is because, even while being serious with the smile dating test activities, there’s still a chance of anyone not be true to the game, their result sheet may be different from their physical life sheet, so it is left for you to carry out a deeper investigation before judging anyone based on the result they provided.
Smile Dating Test
Now, having known what smile dating test is and where it can be involved in, let us now look at some of the ideas of this smile dating test games and fun activities which one can be playing with their partner just to get to know their stand, perspective and views towards some issues of DATING, RELATIONSHIP and MARRIAGE.
Smile Dating Test Ideas
Below are some of the smile dating test ideas you can download to your relationship and thank me later.
Composed and written by BRIGHT TOBIAS.
1: When Is The Best Age To Get Into A Serious Relationship:
While DATING each other which is obviously different from being in a RELATIONSHIP, its an ideal to actually know what your partner think towards getting into a serious RELATIONSHIP and the age specified.
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With this info, one can be able to track when the love can said to be growing deeper and when it’s still an early bird.
However, some answers can be suggested to make the game more fun and enticing. Below are some suggested answers.
A: 18-23
B: 20-25
C: 25-30
D: 30-35
E: SPECIFY
Note: If the above suggested answers doesn’t suit your own answer, they can be adjusted under section (E) and you will specify the particular year range you think getting committed in a RELATIONSHIP is the best.
This smile dating test helps you to know whether your partner is committed to you or whether he or she is still living under pretence. This can be easily traced by accessing their real age and the age they specified for being serious in a relationship. As simple as that, isn’t it?.
But also remember that the game doesn’t prove hundred percent of people’s identity. Some can be hidden under the umbrella of “fun” and “cruise”. So play responsibly.
2: When Is The Best Age To Start Having S*X:
While dating each other which can at times referred as being in a RELATIONSHIP with someone, which isn’t, it can be tempting and important to know their views and opinions regarding the above question.
This is because, many people in our society has different priority and objectives in life, even when entering into a relationship or dating each other. So it isn’t bad to know the time and age frame your partner has in mind about when you both can start knacking (Nigerian word for S*X).
Well, below are some suggested answers you both can check separately.
A: 18Yrs And Above
B: 20Yrs And Above
C: 25Yrs And Above
D: Until Marriage
E: SPECIFY
However, remember what is being written in a book can be deceptive at times and different from the reality. He or she can choose section (D), only to get into the mood and start it right there, LOL.
Note: you can still adjust the age to your choice and you can even go lower than 18yrs because many teens does that, but then Bright Tobias won’t publicly endorse that.
3: At What Age Do You Intend To Get Married:
With smile dating test games, you may want to know at what age will your partner be needing to say “will you marry me” or “yes I will marry you”, then this is the strike.
A: From 22 Yrs To 25Yrs I’m Married
B: From 25Yrs To 30Yrs I’m Married
C: From 30Yrs To 35Yrs I’m Married
D: Anytime We Both Are Ready
E: SPECIFY
The above are four suggested period of time one may want to get married, with a privilege of specifying a different age range.
4: How Many Kids:
Lol, this is a bit trickish question, and the answer can even be overlooked as no one even knows. But then anything can be quoted, it is left for future to decide on that.
But however, some people still have some numbers of kids they will be having. Below are some suggestions tho.
A: Just 1
B: 2
C: 3
D: Not More Than 6
E: SPECIFY
Some can need as many kids as up to ten, while some (1) is okay for them. So while fertility problems can be the cause of some people’s choice of the number of kids they want, some are just strong and economical decisions.
Smile Dating Test Ideas – Conclusion
The above suggested ideas and some of the interesting smile dating test you can put out with your partner and have the best fun of it.
Smile Dating Test actually started many months back on twitter in which many people engaged on the activities, and since then it has become an interesting activities for those DATING, RELATIONSHIP and some married people who also wishes to partake in it.
Well, there are more smile dating test ideas and the above are just few. You can as well create yours and try it out with your partner or those you are dating and see how it goes.
GOOD LUCK in your RELATIONSHIP.
