How Can You Create A Channel Of Happiness In Your Marriage?
To some this might be little complicating or sound new, to some this might be interesting to read while to some this can be regarded as a golden opportunity to read and understand how one can create a channel or source of happiness in his or her marital homes.
But irrespective of where you may fall into, the above topic is a very interesting and important key towards BUILDING A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE.
Actually the fact about marriage is that you only enjoys it when you build it in a good and healthy condition. That is, when you understand everything about it and gives it a good intention to build it successfully. You only enjoy your marriage when you know how to build, maintain and sustain your marriage, that is the key of a healthy and successful marriage.
As discussed in our previous post on HOW TO BUILD A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE, creating a channel of happiness in your marriage is a rightful step to follow towards achieving this result, but then knowing few ways one can create this channel is a concern.
In a quick note, let’s take five ways one can create a channel of happiness to sustain his or her marriage and for a better result in the marriage.
5 WAYs TO CREATE A CHANNEL OF HAPPINESS IN YOUR MARRIAGE
1: Go Out On Free Times With Your Partner Or Family:
Actually, a lot of us think that the only time one can take his or her partner out, or the only time partners can go out to have a little fun is when they are still in relationship, but after marriage, NO to that.
No, this is totally a wrong idea as marriage also requires most of the things you do in your relationship which include going out with your partner to beach, eatery, zoo or occasions for the purpose of having fun together.
Don’t take this “Responsibilities” placed in marriage by the society too personal, getting married doesn’t limit or stop you from going that same beach where you both met and exchanged contact in, it doesn’t stop or prevent you from taking your partner out to an eatery, restaurant, pizza bar or wine bar to have a different taste of food or drink, just as you both always do before getting married.
In fact this is one of the most common societal ideas which hurts us in a different ways. It is quite true that marriage is about responsibilities in our homes, as it differs from that of relationship, but we shouldn’t apply a do or die force in our marriage just because we are trying to live in accordance with the society.
Feel free to your self and to your partner, on a free time, go out with your spouse and have the best of fun as much as you can.
In this way, you have created a big channel towards making sure that happiness never depart from your marriage, even if it doe, it definitely won’t be too far away.
2: Learn To Surprise Your Partner Or Spouse With Gift:
Yes we also have this common mentality that it is only our girlfriends or boyfriends we can surprise or it is only in relationship we can do that. Surprises is a general case as it doesn’t end in Relationship, also buy things for your spouse and surprise him or her.
This may not really happen in a surprising way as it is called, but learn to buy things that makes your partner happy. By this way, you are constantly and regularly bringing happiness in your marriage. Just learn to buy some gift or things that can make your partner stay happy.
3: Learn To Give Your Spouse Space:
Most of us may not really know or understand how important giving your partner or spouse space can be, and this is why we keep acting like marriage is a do or die affair.
No it is not, marriage is done willingly, not compulsory or forceful, and don’t let it be as if you are doing one a Favour by being in the marriage.
Most at times HAPPINESS exist in a marriage where the two parties are free to express themselves, free to do things that makes them happy and have enough space of privacy.
Consider this if you really wants to create a good channel of happiness in your marriage, learn to give your partner some breathing space and not to make your marriage look like a cage or bondage.
Actually marriage requires a deep and matured minds alike and who can understand each other, that is why you must learn to walk in the side of RELATIONSHIP before getting involved in marriage for the betterment, growth and success of your marriage.
4: Respect Boundaries:
Actually in every union, organization or areas of life, there are some rules and regulations that helps us avoid trespassing across our lane. This is rightly applied in the sense of marriage and even Relationship, boundaries set are ways of safeguarding our weaknesses, and you are meant to respect each other’s boundary.
Aside this, have a clear knowledge of what provokes your partner and what easily get them annoy, then respect their choice and avoid doing any of them.
5: Show Love And Care To Your Partner:
This is definitely a summary of the list as in a marriage where there is happiness, love and care will be there also.
So one of the greatest way of bringing happiness to your marriage is by always loving and caring for your partner. Don’t let it be one sided, showing love and caring should be mutual.
NOTE: Happiness can be seen as one of the ways of building a successful and peaceful marriage, never underrate it’s importance in your marriage.
Aside the five list above of how you can create a channel of happiness in your marriage, you can also apply your own personal means as there are several ways one can do that. But the above list is also an extra knowledge you can add to the existing one to make it more effective. Thanks