Lifestyle
Irony Of Life – Personal Experience
Actually I have seen countless reasons to stay mute in some certain issues that has to do with people’s lifestyle in the society. I have seen countless reasons why I shouldn’t judge people by their mode of dressing, by their look or by our thoughts.
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
So I was a bit hot in the afternoon and decided to take a walk down to the street for some cuddling, because it has actually been a while I join the gamers in the hood.
On my way down the lane, different activities were all going on as usual, street was dry as usual but also hot as usual, boys on their department and girls on their own department.
Gosh, base on how summer feeling may be in the life of a black man with Nigerian brain work, I decided to move to the ladies department to make some wave at them and also know how the runs is going. Because as one who grow from the street, I understand so much about the hard aspect of the job.
I ran to one of the mianky in the hood who got me amazed, shocked and over whelmed with her true life story. In the cost of discussion, she had to reveal her true identity to me, things that prompted her to be in such a risky street job, and her future plan.
PEACE OF MIND
The game was actually started as a result of NO HELP. She began the job because life wasn’t fair to her, life was damn Fucking bad to her and she had to do anything possible to make sure she provide for her self.
In the deeper aspect of the discussion, she reveal her intention of dumbing the dirty work as soon as her target is met. “I’m doing this not because I love doing it or because I feel like doing it, but because I needed money to start up a business, but since I have no one to help me, I had to run this one to get money to start up the business” – she said.
With her thoughts and her plans, I look more deeply into her and wondered how possible girls with such mentality are still in the same game. But my wonder has to arrive at the previous things she said concerning why she started the street business. Gosh, I really felt like crying with all she said.
Furthermore, she explain the nature of people castigating those in such work and how shameful it can be seeing “once upon a customer” castigating them outside and calling them names. She also reveal how such a dirty work can limit them from being helped by people because of the mentality others have towards them.
With all these, she revealed her plan of leaving the street after hitting her target. She revealed her intention of starting a business once she is out of the area. All the words kept me mute as I think deeply about her.
Now the day seems to be going darker and I had to return home to rest, so I wished her well, cut my aim of being there and left.
Gosh, such a good soul into such an ugly street job. This goes a long way to teach about not judging people by their look or by the way you see them.
Yeah, they may be what you think, but always try to know the circumstances that caused such act. Don’t just judge people for acting weird, for doing illegal or for being in the street, rather think about what led them into such act.
If you are capable of rendering help, do that and many of them will appreciate because no one prefer “illegal” over “legal” things if not condition.
Before judging someone for being into the kind of business or street job they are into, reason small, if you can go close to them you may probably discover that it’s not really their fault, but life difficulties.
Many people are actually passing a lot in life today, many has given up because the force and pressure actually overshadowed them. Many are in a very sad and critical condition, amd they have to look for a way to survive. Street job might become a nice idea for them. Runs may become a great option for them and they have to succumb to the pressure.
Actually, everyone wanna live good just as others are living, no one actually wish to be behind the world, everyone wanna be in the moving train, everyone wanna be in the front line, that’s the pressure.
Pressure of making it the way others did, the pressure of living a good life and the pressure of making mama and papa proud. Such is the pressure, everyone wanna win in life, is a pressure and a great spirit. Spirit of aiming high, spirit of thinking for the future, spirit of aiming to change the story and spirit of enjoying life because life is meant to be enjoyed.
Only if you try to put your self in other people’s shoe, you will discover the area their pains are actually coming from. Don’t be quick in judging, don’t be quick in condemning, don’t be quick in blaming, the force and pressure you conquered may conquer another person.
Not everyone are emotionally strong just the way you are. Not everyone can withstand the pressure of waiting for the right time to come. Not everyone is capable to stick to their good principles to the end, not everyone is capable of holding their faith tight till the appointed time. Some will definitely be overpowered by the pressure and may enter into wrong acts.
VANITY UPON VANITY
No one in life actually prefer street life or street job over the good aspect of life, over living the best life others are living and enjoying.
Everyone on the street actually wish to turn back because most of them know how costly and how dangerous such game can be. You can pick one up and dust him or her off, and share your light with them. They need it, instead of insulting, condemning and bastardizing them for playing such game, go close to them and hear their own story. Then apply help if you can.
Do this and remain bless..
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Are You Ready for Battle Spiritually?
In life, we often face challenges, struggles, and trials that test not just our physical and mental endurance but also our spiritual strength. The concept of a “spiritual battle” is one that many faith traditions emphasize. It refers to the constant struggle between good and evil, light and darkness, and the challenges believers face in their journey towards spiritual growth and enlightenment.
To determine if you are ready for spiritual battle, let’s explore some key areas that reveal your preparedness.
Are You Ready for Battle Spiritually?
1. Know Your Enemy
One of the fundamental principles of any battle is understanding your enemy. In the realm of spirituality, this enemy can take many forms: temptation, doubt, negative influences, and even personal weaknesses. Scripture often personifies the enemy as a spiritual force working against you, and it’s important to identify how this force may be manifesting in your life. Are you battling with addictions, negative thought patterns, or relationships that lead you astray? Recognizing these is the first step in readiness.
- Biblical Reference: Ephesians 6:12 says, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” This verse reminds us that spiritual battles go beyond the physical realm.
2. Put on the Full Armor of God
Ephesians 6:10-18 offers powerful imagery of the “Armor of God,” which represents the spiritual tools you need to withstand spiritual attacks. Just as a soldier wouldn’t go to war without armor, you must equip yourself for spiritual battles.
- Belt of Truth: Integrity and honesty are your foundation.
- Breastplate of Righteousness: Live in a way that reflects your faith, making righteous choices.
- Shield of Faith: Faith protects you from doubt and despair.
- Sword of the Spirit: The Word of God is your weapon against lies and deception.
- Helmet of Salvation: Keep your mind focused on eternal salvation.
- Feet Fitted with the Readiness of the Gospel of Peace: Be prepared to spread the message of peace and truth.
These are not just metaphors but practical spiritual disciplines that, when practiced daily, fortify you against negative influences.
3. Prayer as Your Battle Strategy
Prayer is a vital tool in spiritual warfare. It’s the means through which you communicate with the Divine, gain strength, and receive guidance. Just as a general in battle receives orders from a higher authority, you must seek direction and reinforcement from God.
- Constant Communication: Are you in regular communion with God through prayer? Spiritual battles are won through divine wisdom, strength, and intervention.
- Praying for Others: Part of being battle-ready is interceding for others. This helps build a community of believers that supports each other in times of need.
The Bible encourages believers to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17), recognizing that prayer isn’t just a last resort, but the most powerful offensive and defensive tool in spiritual battle.
4. Faith and Trust in God
Spiritual readiness requires unwavering faith. You may not always understand why certain challenges arise, but trusting God’s plan is essential. Doubt is often the enemy’s weapon. Are you able to stand firm in your faith when you don’t see immediate answers to prayers?
- Faith in Action: James 2:26 reminds us that faith without works is dead. Are you acting on your faith, even in the small, everyday decisions of life? Are you stepping out in obedience, even when it feels difficult?
5. Guarding Your Mind and Heart
One of the most effective strategies the enemy uses is attacking your thoughts and emotions. Are you vigilant in guarding what you allow into your mind and heart? What kind of media, conversations, and influences are you exposing yourself to?
- Philippians 4:8 says, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” This verse teaches us to focus on what uplifts our spirit.
6. Community Support
In any battle, having allies is crucial. Spiritual readiness means recognizing that you are not alone. Surrounding yourself with a supportive faith community helps you remain accountable, encourages you during trials, and reinforces your strength.
- Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Are you connected with a group that can sharpen you spiritually?
7. Discipline and Consistency
Spiritual growth requires discipline. Just like physical training, spiritual strength is built over time. Are you consistent in your spiritual practices, such as reading scripture, prayer, meditation, and fasting? Being ready for spiritual battle isn’t something that happens overnight. It takes a daily commitment to growth.
- 1 Timothy 4:8 reminds us, “For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.” Spiritual training holds eternal rewards.
Conclusion
So, are you ready for spiritual battle? Readiness requires understanding your enemy, being equipped with spiritual tools, nurturing your faith, guarding your heart, and staying in constant communication with God through prayer. It also means staying connected to a supportive community and maintaining spiritual discipline.
The journey of spiritual readiness is ongoing. It requires self-awareness, devotion, and trust in God’s plan. Each day, as you grow in faith and equip yourself with spiritual strength, you become more capable of standing firm in the face of spiritual challenges. Let your heart, mind, and soul be aligned with God, and you’ll be ready for any battle that comes your way.
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Why Doesn’t My Wife Cook Food The Way I Like
Are you a boyfriend , husband or a man and you are wondering why your girlfriend , babe or wife doesn’t cook food the way you like in this present 21st century?, then wonder no more as Bright Tobias has the best answer for you to stop wondering. Well, I think here we call a spade a spade, we don’t have any other word for it. So calm down and relax let me tell you all you needed to know about “Why Doesn’t My Wife Cook Food The Way I Like”.
Why Doesn’t My Wife Cook Food The Way I Like
Firstly, as a man it is very important to know that girls or ladies are gifted naturally in so many different things. Not just about ladies, but everyone in life. We all have different gifts and talents which most times when nurtured, can be a source of upliftment to us.
This is to say that most time skills and talents which other people possess, are inborn talent and skills, although there is room for skill acquisitions and talent development, but then it doesn’t have to be based on our expectations or desire.
So this is to say, while some ladies are naturally gifted with a cooking skill or talent, some are not.
While some acquire this skill while growing up, some didn’t.
While lady A may be busy learning a cooking skill, lady B may also use the same time to acquire a teaching skill, what matters is the UNIQUENESS one possesses.
However, cooking skill is one of the requirements many men look out for while DATING or in a RELATIONSHIP, but this doesn’t validate a good marriage neither does it prove a point when checking good, skillful or industrious women, it’s just a skill anyone can have though.
Why Doesn’t My Wife Cook Food The Way I Like – Final Judgment
As a man if your wife or girlfriend doesn’t cook the way you like, I can only recommend five options for you.
1: Teach Her How To Cook:
Most women know how to cook, but cooking specific tastes of food that will suit some particular people may be difficult for them. So if you find out your wife or your woman doesn’t know how to cook the food you like, then I think you should consider teaching her how to cook the food to your taste, instead of making a headline out of it.
2: Cook It Yourself:
Gone are the days when men are prohibited from cooking. In this present days, some men cook more than their women. So what this mean is, if your woman doesn’t cook food the way you like, then I think you should cook the food the way you want. As simple as it is, I think LIFE isn’t hard tho.
3: Employ A Professional:
In cases your wife doesn’t cook the way you want and you don’t want to teach him how to cook food the way you like and neither do you want to cook it yourself, then I think you should consider employing a professional cook who will be cooking food the way you like. Isn’t that simple and stress free?.
4: Eat Out:
If teaching your wife how to cook food the way you like is a big deal and cooking it yourself is a stressful job for you, or even employing a professional will be expensive for you, then consider eating out. Don’t ask me why, just buy food outside from eateries and restaurants and enjoy yourself.
5: Get Out:
If the option from one to four isn’t good or right for you, and you are still complaining “Why Doesn’t My Wife Cook Food The Way I Like”, then I think you should get out and go back to momma to cook for you, thank you.
Conclusion
The above option should be able to solve your worries of your wife or your woman not cooking food the way you like, remember if option one to four doesn’t answer your question or work for you, then option 5 will definitely work.
Thank You For Your Time and God BLESS YOU.
Unique Usernames For Your Socials
Looking for unique Usernames?, Probably for your social media handles, accounts and lifestyles, then worry no more as BRIGHTWORLD unveils 50 unique Usernames just for you.
However, sometimes Unique usernames are being created as initials of ones name, or taken out from your name as the case may be. So let’s try to create some unique usernames out of people’s names. Here we go.
Unique Usernames For Your Socials
1:Amanda:
Let’s take an instance your name is Amanda and you wish to have some unique usernames or names that are not commonly found or heard elsewhere. Then here are some suggestions.
* Amanda
* Mda
* Aman_Life
* Aman World
* Aman_Corner
* Am_Ada
* Ahm_Ada
* Amyworld Corner
* Amyworld Life
* Ama_life
* Ama_Corner
* Damy_World
* Damt_Corner
* Amanda Lee
* Ama_Doings
* Ama_Cruise
These and more are unique names that can be crafted out of the name Amanda. And mind you the word “Amanda” is also a beautiful username on its own, it’s a short world for Chimamanda. A name popularly owned by Nigerian ladies.
2: Linda:
Linda is a popular world, although a lot of people prefer the name like that, but something can also be crafted out of it to make it more unique and personal. Let’s look at some of the unique usernames that can be created from the name Linda.
* Leeda (sound more like a leader)
* Ama_Lyn
* Ama_ Lynda
* Ama_Lead
These and more are unique usernames that can be created out of the name “Linda”
3: Chioma
The world “Chioma” is an Igbo world (a tribe located in Nigeria, Africa) which simply means “Good God”.
Over the time, people especially those born in the region finds it interesting to name their offspring Chioma representing how good their God has been with them.
However, “Chioma” is also one of the easiest names one can bring out unique usernames from, even though some of the usernames may have been taken by others, but you can always twist it a bit to make it more unique and personal. Here are some unique usernames that can be created from Chioma.
* Chiomy
* Chiomzy
* Chiomizy
* See_Chiomy
* Seechom
* Chiomiline
* Cho-Cho
* Am_ Chiomy
* Ama_Chiomzy
* Itz_Chiomiline
These and more are unique usernames that can be created from the word “Chioma”
Unique Usernames For Your Socials – Conclusion
The list above are just unique usernames you can use in your social handles. Compiled and created by Bright Tobias.
However, you can twist it to your taste or simply think of any that will match your name.
Thank you for your time at BRIGHTWORLD.