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Irony Of Life – Personal Experience

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Actually I have seen countless reasons to stay mute in some certain issues that has to do with people’s lifestyle in the society. I have seen countless reasons why I shouldn’t judge people by their mode of dressing, by their look or by our thoughts.

PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

So I was a bit hot in the afternoon and decided to take a walk down to the street for some cuddling, because it has actually been a while I join the gamers in the hood.

On my way down the lane, different activities were all going on as usual, street was dry as usual but also hot as usual, boys on their department and girls on their own department.

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Gosh, base on how summer feeling may be in the life of a black man with Nigerian brain work, I decided to move to the ladies department to make some wave at them and also know how the runs is going. Because as one who grow from the street, I understand so much about the hard aspect of the job.

I ran to one of the mianky in the hood who got me amazed, shocked and over whelmed with her true life story. In the cost of discussion, she had to reveal her true identity to me, things that prompted her to be in such a risky street job, and her future plan.

PEACE OF MIND

The game was actually started as a result of NO HELP. She began the job because life wasn’t fair to her, life was damn Fucking bad to her and she had to do anything possible to make sure she provide for her self.

In the deeper aspect of the discussion, she reveal her intention of dumbing the dirty work as soon as her target is met. “I’m doing this not because I love doing it or because I feel like doing it, but because I needed money to start up a business, but since I have no one to help me, I had to run this one to get money to start up the business” – she said.

With her thoughts and her plans, I look more deeply into her and wondered how possible girls with such mentality are still in the same game. But my wonder has to arrive at the previous things she said concerning why she started the street business. Gosh, I really felt like crying with all she said.

Furthermore, she explain the nature of people castigating those in such work and how shameful it can be seeing “once upon a customer” castigating them outside and calling them names. She also reveal how such a dirty work can limit them from being helped by people because of the mentality others have towards them.

With all these, she revealed her plan of leaving the street after hitting her target. She revealed her intention of starting a business once she is out of the area. All the words kept me mute as I think deeply about her.

Now the day seems to be going darker and I had to return home to rest, so I wished her well, cut my aim of being there and left.

Gosh, such a good soul into such an ugly street job. This goes a long way to teach about not judging people by their look or by the way you see them.

Yeah, they may be what you think, but always try to know the circumstances that caused such act. Don’t just judge people for acting weird, for doing illegal or for being in the street, rather think about what led them into such act.

If you are capable of rendering help, do that and many of them will appreciate because no one prefer “illegal” over “legal” things if not condition.

Before judging someone for being into the kind of business or street job they are into, reason small, if you can go close to them you may probably discover that it’s not really their fault, but life difficulties.

Many people are actually passing a lot in life today, many has given up because the force and pressure actually overshadowed them. Many are in a very sad and critical condition, amd they have to look for a way to survive. Street job might become a nice idea for them. Runs may become a great option for them and they have to succumb to the pressure.

Actually, everyone wanna live good just as others are living, no one actually wish to be behind the world, everyone wanna be in the moving train, everyone wanna be in the front line, that’s the pressure.

Pressure of making it the way others did, the pressure of living a good life and the pressure of making mama and papa proud. Such is the pressure, everyone wanna win in life, is a pressure and a great spirit. Spirit of aiming high, spirit of thinking for the future, spirit of aiming to change the story and spirit of enjoying life because life is meant to be enjoyed.

Only if you try to put your self in other people’s shoe, you will discover the area their pains are actually coming from. Don’t be quick in judging, don’t be quick in condemning, don’t be quick in blaming, the force and pressure you conquered may conquer another person.

Not everyone are emotionally strong just the way you are. Not everyone can withstand the pressure of waiting for the right time to come. Not everyone is capable to stick to their good principles to the end, not everyone is capable of holding their faith tight till the appointed time. Some will definitely be overpowered by the pressure and may enter into wrong acts.

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VANITY UPON VANITY 

No one in life actually prefer street life or street job over the good aspect of life, over living the best life others are living and enjoying.

Everyone on the street actually wish to turn back because most of them know how costly and how dangerous such game can be. You can pick one up and dust him or her off, and share your light with them. They need it, instead of insulting, condemning and bastardizing them for playing such game, go close to them and hear their own story. Then apply help if you can.

Do this and remain bless..

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Are You A Risk Taker? – Who Is A Risk Taker?

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Many times I have seen and heard people talk about “taking risk” in their various apartment and journey of life, but then I haven’t actually keep calm to think and understand everything that has to do with “risk taking” or why people take risk which might lead them into a different case. But just as one grows, some of the hidden facts and knowledge becomes visible and more clear to understand.

Without hesitation, let’s have a lighter definition of RISK TAKING, A RISK TAKER and what it means and takes to take risk.

RISK TAKING: Definition

In a simplest definition, Risk Taking implies doings things in very dangerous way which is likely to land you in trouble.

In another angle, taking risk means going an extra mile towards achieving your aim or goal, a mile which is disastrous, dangerous and harmful.

However, despite how dangerous this “Risk Taking” may be, it is still what determines our success in life as most of the people successful in life today are those that took the bull by the horn to walk the extra mile which saw them at their current position in life.

Since we have know what “Risk Taking” means, let’s quickly examine who a risk taker is.

A RISK TAKER: Definition

Actually, there is no much difference between “Risk Taking” and a “Risk Taker” as a risk taker is one involved in risk taking.

Yes this might be little confusing or complicated, but a Risk Taker is someone who always take risk to achieve his or her aim or to move to the next level.

WHAT IT TAKES TO TAKE RISK

We all know that nothing good in life comes so easy, that is to say that for one to achieve his or her aim towards greatness, he or she might need to take risk in one way or the other.

Mind you the “Risk Taking” involve in this article is the one that sees someone become great and achieve his or her personal goal and objective, or the one that sees one become great in life or do things in extra ordinary way.

And not just taking risk for a negative purpose, though they are still the same risk involve but I’m talking on the one that will bring positive change.

However, just as the lesson of life state that for one to be great and for one to achieve whatever he or she desires in life, he or she might consider taking risk to achieve that.

And though no matter how this may sound, it is never a child game or a simple task to do as taking risk requires a lot.

Below are few things one need to have or possess to be able to take a risk to your destination.

1: Courage:

Actually, taking of risk requires you to be courageous, stand firm and remove any form of fear in you.

To be honest, one personal lesson I have learnt is that success require you to do the unexpected for you to achieve it. This is commonly the reason why great people in life are being celebrated all the days because arriving at such position requires an extra ordinary step which people are afraid to follow.

For you to take risk in life towards arriving to your destination or towards achieving all you pray and wishes for, you have to be very courageous in your journey.

2: Determination:

Determination simply means resisting failure and working hard towards your aim irrespective of the challenges and obstacles that will be weighing you down.

Determination means resisting laziness, sleep or anything that can hinder you from arriving at the golden spot. For you to take risk, you must be determine, focus and make up your mind to do so for the betterment of your future.

3: FearLess:

You must be bold enough to know your ground and what you want. Success requires you to be bold, stand firm and avoid any form of fear of failure or anything.

No pain No gain” isn’t a new slangs, you should be use to it.

ADVANTAGE OF TAKING RISK

Actually, the main and only advantage of taking risk lys in “SUCCESS“and being GREAT.

This is actually where “No pain No gain” tune comes in, as for one to gain, he or she is likely to face pain in one way or the other, and most of this pains comes while taking the risk.

Actually, to my best of understanding, the journey of WEALTH, SUCCESS and GREATNESS is never an easy one. Though when we see great and wealthy people, we are likely to think that getting to such level in life or attaining such greatness can be achieved easily, or when we see wealthy people displaying their Wealth and tones of their cash, we think that those wealth came on a sudden.

But when being lead through on how they attain their position, you will give up in a start

Some of them who started from the scratch took a lot of risk before having all you see around them, though some of these risks might involve illegal things, but base on the “No pain No gain” slangs, any way is likely to be a way to achieve their goal. That can be an advantage of taking risk in life.

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DISADVANTAGE OF TAKING RISK

This is probably where the myth comes in, as what works for one might not work for another.

There is a saying that “the journey of success or greatness is celebrated for those that succeed”, as a lot of people are likely to fell out on their journey, some will loose focus and get distracted, some will loose their lives, some will also end the journey with nothing while some will end it in a joyful situation. This is the story of success.

Actually, what works for one might not work for another. In our modern world today some call it “GRACE“.

One who take risk might end up being successful, wealthy and become great in life, while another who takes the same risk might be choked up and die, or fall into a big problem that might get him or her in prison forever.

This is the story behind every successful person or every great person on earth, some stories are told while some are not because some may decide to keep hold of their bad experience or their bad stories to themselves.

That is why some people’s stories are always open and accessible for everyone to read, while some are not. And at times we begin to wonder why they have not open up about their story.

As we know, the journey is for everyone, but greatness is definitely not for everyone but I pray we all attain this GREATNESS together, Amen.

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Important Of New Year’s Resolution – What Is Your New Year’s Resolution?

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The fast movement between each year to the other defines a word that says “time wait for no one”. By this time last year we all were equally celebrating new year with a lot of good wishes to family and friends. But as it seems, within a twinkle of an hour we are already in another year, and all these months which made up the year just seems like they all skipped each other. But this is just the nature as no one can interfere how fast or slow the day or year should go.

However, as days passby drawing towards the end of the year, changes happens in different ways and different places. Some occur knowing and unknowingly. Some happen naturally while some is been invented.

WHAT IS YOUR NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION?

Important of new Year's resolution

As they say “times wait for no one”, the year has just ended and we are in another episode of 20’s, new Year’s wishes has been flying everywhere as usual but there is a hidden question somewhere which people tends to skip when being asked.

Yeah WHAT IS YOUR NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION?, what aspect of you are we seeing changes this year?, what bad character or behavior are you dropping by in the new year?. These and more should be the question running in your mind in the new year, and not just circulating “new year’s quotes” everywhere.

IMPORTANCE OF NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTION

As they say “one who fail to plan, automatically plan to fail”, yeah no one actually plan to fail in life, but when you refuse exploring those things that weighed you down in the previous year which slacked you back towards getting your “year ambition” in order to make some correction and changes towards the new journey (new year), actually you have plan to fail because you are likely to get same result in the new year.

New Year’s quotes and wishes are good, but new Year’s resolution are more important because they are aims or goals you set out to embark or archive with a different angle different from the previous ones which fail you.

Don’t just rant new Year’s wishes and quotes without setting out for your self for the year, make a proper resolution and stick to them. Energize your self for the new year run, as usual it will be difficult, but stick to them and see some changes before the year runs out.

Though making a new year Resolution don’t always work for people because most at times when people schedule out their time and moments to be carrying some task out, somethings are likely to hinder them from carrying those task specifically as planned.

And in some other case, people also tends to return to their normal shit behavior after few months of the year. People who probably make some plans of stopping some certain things in their lives tends to go back to it as a result of pressure or the character missing from them.

This is why at times when you try living off your character, such a new behavior in you can never last for long and you will get back to your normal character. In case like this, you make a proper resolution, pray and work hard to stick to it. Then avoid anything that can hinder you from turning back to your old way.

Important of new Year's resolution

Make a new year plan of things to do and things to stop doing, of how to increase in your academic field or your business area, of people to avoid and characters to look out for in new people you intends to have as friends.

Just as the year is fast on track moving and a lot of things are changing, also make your own changes now to be able to flow normal with nature. Remember at times new Year’s resolution can be difficult to stick to, but with determination and concentration, you can make it happen before the year run out again, thanks

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The Significance Of Christmas To Christians

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Actually a lot of us may be lost in thought while trying to figure out the significance of Christmas to christans as instructed in the Christian-dom…

What is actually Christmas?, What does Christmas season signifies to us? What do we particularly see the beautiful season as?

Well, irespective of the significance, many of us have different views towards the Christmas season, some of us sees it in a different dimensions and different angles..

To a lot of us, Christmas is a season of celebrating the birth of Jesus which can be said as the coming of the Lord to redeem the world, to some of us also, Christmas is a season of party and enjoyment, a season of changing clothes and shoes, attending shows and all that… And to few, Christmas is a beautiful season of showing love. Actually let’s dive into the case.

THE SIGNIFICANCE OF CHRISTMAS TO CHRISTIANS

The significance of Christmas to christans

MERRY CHRISTMAS

As stated above, many of us have different views and different definitions of Christmas, but the least of the knowledge seems to be the best definition and the main significance of Christmas.

Actually based on the Divine teaching of the church, CHRISTMAS is actually a special day or season for celebrating the coming of the lord into the world to pay the ultimate price for the world and also to accomplish the scripture as it is written in the holy book that the son of man shall come for the redemption of the world from sin, sorrow and tribulations.

CHRISTMAS actually can’t be celebrated without mentioning the birth of Jesus Christ which actually happens to be on every 25th of December in every year.

Aside this common significance of Christmas, the beautiful season is also a season of love as instructed by the Lord to keep and always show love to one another. This special season is a moment of showing love to one another as a means of celebrating the birth of the Saviour.

Showing love, gifting out to one another, to your neighbors and making everyone around you feel the love of the season is a deeper SIGNIFICANCE OF CHRISTMAS.

Actually, CHRISTMAS is not best described as a season of party and enjoyment, not best described as a season of travelling from one town to the village, not best described as a season of eating new foods, chicken, wine and all of that as it is commonly done in our society, but a season of LOVE.

Actually, as we all know, this beautiful season is also here and many of us who have different views to this season is in one way or the other preparing to celebrate it to our taste. But how ever you chooses to celebrate your CHRISTMAS SEASON, always make sure you show love to someone irrespective of how little it may be.

Look around you, there are a lot of people in short of food to eat, in short of cloths and living in a negative side which wasn’t projected by God, show love to them in which ever way you can. Celebrate the beautiful season with them and make them know how important their lives are in the society and to God who created them.

Actually one can’t advise you not to enjoy or go out for a merriment as we all do, but make sure you are really using the season to put smile on people’s face, make sure you are really making someone happy because CHRISTMAS is a season which everyone is expected to be happy for the coming of the lord.

Do not miss out in the sharing of the CHRISTMAS love, do not miss out in making people happy and putting smile on people’s face, which ever way you chooses to do it, do it irrespective of how little you have. Just show love to one another as instructed by our Lord Jesus. Thanks

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