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Irony Of Life – Personal Experience
Actually I have seen countless reasons to stay mute in some certain issues that has to do with people’s lifestyle in the society. I have seen countless reasons why I shouldn’t judge people by their mode of dressing, by their look or by our thoughts.
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE
So I was a bit hot in the afternoon and decided to take a walk down to the street for some cuddling, because it has actually been a while I join the gamers in the hood.
On my way down the lane, different activities were all going on as usual, street was dry as usual but also hot as usual, boys on their department and girls on their own department.
Gosh, base on how summer feeling may be in the life of a black man with Nigerian brain work, I decided to move to the ladies department to make some wave at them and also know how the runs is going. Because as one who grow from the street, I understand so much about the hard aspect of the job.
I ran to one of the mianky in the hood who got me amazed, shocked and over whelmed with her true life story. In the cost of discussion, she had to reveal her true identity to me, things that prompted her to be in such a risky street job, and her future plan.
PEACE OF MIND
The game was actually started as a result of NO HELP. She began the job because life wasn’t fair to her, life was damn Fucking bad to her and she had to do anything possible to make sure she provide for her self.
In the deeper aspect of the discussion, she reveal her intention of dumbing the dirty work as soon as her target is met. “I’m doing this not because I love doing it or because I feel like doing it, but because I needed money to start up a business, but since I have no one to help me, I had to run this one to get money to start up the business” – she said.
With her thoughts and her plans, I look more deeply into her and wondered how possible girls with such mentality are still in the same game. But my wonder has to arrive at the previous things she said concerning why she started the street business. Gosh, I really felt like crying with all she said.
Furthermore, she explain the nature of people castigating those in such work and how shameful it can be seeing “once upon a customer” castigating them outside and calling them names. She also reveal how such a dirty work can limit them from being helped by people because of the mentality others have towards them.
With all these, she revealed her plan of leaving the street after hitting her target. She revealed her intention of starting a business once she is out of the area. All the words kept me mute as I think deeply about her.
Now the day seems to be going darker and I had to return home to rest, so I wished her well, cut my aim of being there and left.
Gosh, such a good soul into such an ugly street job. This goes a long way to teach about not judging people by their look or by the way you see them.
Yeah, they may be what you think, but always try to know the circumstances that caused such act. Don’t just judge people for acting weird, for doing illegal or for being in the street, rather think about what led them into such act.
If you are capable of rendering help, do that and many of them will appreciate because no one prefer “illegal” over “legal” things if not condition.
Before judging someone for being into the kind of business or street job they are into, reason small, if you can go close to them you may probably discover that it’s not really their fault, but life difficulties.
Many people are actually passing a lot in life today, many has given up because the force and pressure actually overshadowed them. Many are in a very sad and critical condition, amd they have to look for a way to survive. Street job might become a nice idea for them. Runs may become a great option for them and they have to succumb to the pressure.
Actually, everyone wanna live good just as others are living, no one actually wish to be behind the world, everyone wanna be in the moving train, everyone wanna be in the front line, that’s the pressure.
Pressure of making it the way others did, the pressure of living a good life and the pressure of making mama and papa proud. Such is the pressure, everyone wanna win in life, is a pressure and a great spirit. Spirit of aiming high, spirit of thinking for the future, spirit of aiming to change the story and spirit of enjoying life because life is meant to be enjoyed.
Only if you try to put your self in other people’s shoe, you will discover the area their pains are actually coming from. Don’t be quick in judging, don’t be quick in condemning, don’t be quick in blaming, the force and pressure you conquered may conquer another person.
Not everyone are emotionally strong just the way you are. Not everyone can withstand the pressure of waiting for the right time to come. Not everyone is capable to stick to their good principles to the end, not everyone is capable of holding their faith tight till the appointed time. Some will definitely be overpowered by the pressure and may enter into wrong acts.
VANITY UPON VANITY
No one in life actually prefer street life or street job over the good aspect of life, over living the best life others are living and enjoying.
Everyone on the street actually wish to turn back because most of them know how costly and how dangerous such game can be. You can pick one up and dust him or her off, and share your light with them. They need it, instead of insulting, condemning and bastardizing them for playing such game, go close to them and hear their own story. Then apply help if you can.
Do this and remain bless..
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Signs You Didn’t Get Enough Attention As A Child
There are some behaviours one often exhibits which talks a lot about ones background, starting from the point they were given birth down to their mode of training and growth. These signs have great impacts towards how one behaves at their adult level, and it can either be positive or negative.
However, for the purpose of the subject above, we will be looking at the signs that show you didn’t get enough attention as a child, so take a chill as Bright Tobias unravels some of these signs.
Signs You Didn’t Get Enough Attention As A Child
1: Always Trying To Please People:
If you are always trying so hard to please other people around you, even when it’s going against you, then it could be one of the signs you didn’t get enough attention as a child.
It is quite understandable to take some personal steps and actions that go well with people around you and everyone at large especially things involving humanity, but then having other people’s utmost desires and personal interests at heart even when it doesn’t sit well with you is definitely a wrong one, especially those that aren’t worth it.
It is very important to always be bold, stand tall and be confident with your words and actions, irrespective of who doesn’t like it or who frowns at it, as long as it pleases you, keep it on.
People’s opinions don’t really matter, live your life and ignore whatever people say about you. Bright Tobias Says So.
2: Always On Isolation:
Well, actually there are so many reasons that do put people into this state of life. Being an introvert most times is caused by people’s weird actions towards another, thereby giving them a strong thought of staying off from people just to stay and be happy alone.
However, While it can be important to stay away from people sometimes and stay in your lane especially when people have hit you so hard, it is also important to know that staying on your own could be a sign you didn’t get enough attention as a child.
I mean, no matter how hard it is to believe, you will deeply conclude that we all need people around us. We can’t do anything alone, we need families and families are made up of people. We need friends and friends are also made up of people.
While it is people’s priority to keep natural families around and stay off from friends or strangers, it is also understandable that sometimes strangers can turn out to be family more than our biological and blood related families. The world is deep.
So whether you are introverted or wishing to be, just have it in mind that being an introvert is also a sign you didn’t get enough attention as a child.
3: Hard To Love:
If you are properly raised and given the orientation of love while growing up, then loving someone or showing an act of LOVE to people won’t really be a big deal to you.
Most times people act violent and toxic in their RELATIONSHIP simply because they grew up in a home where there’s always domestic violence.
Whether a man or woman, young boy or young girl, if you find it hard and difficult to love someone or stay good to people, you might just be experiencing a sign you didn’t get enough attention as a child.
4: Always On Panic/Fear Of Rejection:
If you grow up with enough attention as a child, you will always have confidence in yourself. You will fully understand the word “NO” come often before “YES“. You will simply embrace it as it comes.
However, when you don’t get enough attention as a child, your fear of rejection will be high and you will lack courage to attempt.
5: Hard To Trust:
There are emotional damages one can experience at their tender age which can hinder them from trusting anyone they come across with, even as they grow old.
This can often be an issue in their business life, personal relationship with people and even in their marital life. No one stays with who doesn’t have trust in them, especially when the signs are too obvious.
Signs You Didn’t Get Enough Attention As A Child – Conclusion
There are actually numerous signs one exhibit which really talks a lot about their state of growing up. If you are experiencing some of the things listed above, it could be a sign you didn’t get enough attention as a child while growing. So pay attention well and make some corrections if possible, THANKS.
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Karlotta Nila Age And Networth
As the search of “Karlotta Nila Age And Networth” gets higher on the internet, so as the lady in person “Karlotta Nila” get more recognised and known not just in the United States where she hails from, but also around the world where thousands of people follow her on her different social media handle.
As at the time of writing this article, Karlotta Nila has over four hundred thousand (over 400,000) followers on her official Instagram handle and thousands of followers on her Facebook page.
Even though we are yet to confirm the authenticity of some of the pages created on her name on Facebook, but it is believed that her popularity helped in attracting those huge numbers of followers on Facebook, Instagram and other social media platforms.
Karlotta Nila Age And Networth
Firstly before diving into Karlotta Nila Age And her networth, who is Karlotta Nila?, Who is she and where is she from?.
Who Is Karlotta Nila?
Well even though much of her personal life isn’t known yet on the media and she hasn’t communicated her biography online, but a brief information about her will help.
Karlotta Nila is said to be a social media influencer, model and fashion enthusiast who uses her platform to showcase her fashion model and share a touch of her personal life vacation with her followers and fans.
Karlotta Nila Age
Well, as said earlier, at the time of putting this article together, much of her personal life isn’t known yet on the media. Except the few she shares with her audience especially her personal life vacation and fashion modelling styles.
Karlotta Nila Pinterest
For now, we can’t ascertain the genuineness and authenticity of the numerous Karlotta Nila Pinterest accounts littered everywhere, as since her breakthrough on the internet, a lot of people have equally be creating fake account and pages to impersonate her. She could be on Pinterest, one of the Karlotta Nila Pinterest accounts could be hers tho.
Stunning Pictures Of Karlotta Nila
So let us hear from you, do you know Karlotta Nila?, Have you seen her before, are you a fan to her and do you follow her on any of the social media handle?.
What do you know about Karlotta Nila?, Do you love her or do you hæte her?, Where do you think Karlotta Nila is from and which country is she currently at?. Let’s get your comment via the comment section, and thank you for your great time at BRIGHTWORLD.
THE END.
Karlotta Nila – The Story
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