Relationship
5 Reasons For Failed Marriages
Why Do We Always Have Fail Marriages Everywhere?
This has always been some people’s question as regarding to the fact that Marriage in our modern world today barely last as DIVORCE has been a better option amidst of marital qualms and situations. But the question still remain, why do those fail Marriages happen?, Like why doesn’t our modern days Marriage succeed or grows just like that of our father, forefathers and mothers?.
Couples who get married few weeks ago, are rightly in talk of signing divorce papers, why?. That’s even where such papers is required to be signed as most people understands the fear of court Marriage, so they avoid it. But why is divorce now rampant in our society?, Does it mean we aren’t matured enough to be in a marriage or does it mean we aren’t destined to get married to our partner, or what else?.
However, in talk of the cause that leads to the fail Marriages happening around us which is now sarcastically known as “NATIONAL CAKE“, I think there are many things that contributes to it, which as follows.
5 REASONS FOR FAILED MARRIAGE
1: Little Or Improper Relationship Practice Or Involvement Before Hitting Marriage:
This is definitely where the absence of RELATIONSHIP shows it’s effect in your marriage.
Most of us just overlook the importance of RELATIONSHIP before getting married which is likely to affect our marriage negatively.
Relationship is just like an early class of marriage, and when you fail to take the class, you might get it wrong in your Marriage. It’s Importance can never be overlooked or over emphasized in the aspect of building and growing our homes
Most of us just believe that Relationship is scam or scum as people say, but after neglecting this in our lives, when we finally settle down, we are likely to reverse our word. Then we are likely to see it’s importance in a clear understandable form.
Aside the case of no practice of relationship at all, you can also have a clash in your marriage despite being in a relationship before getting married. But this is where IMPROPER PRACTICE OF RELATIONSHIP comes in. You can go through it.
So little or improper practice of Relationship can be a big cause of fail Marriages in the society, all you just need to do in situations like this is to be different from the crowd.
2: Having Self Aim Or Negative Intention:
Some of these failed Marriages and divorces happening everywhere are just full of couples or partners who doesn’t involve themselves in such Marriage with a clean intention or positive aim. Some of the partners just have some self aim he or she want in that Marriage, and after this may have been achieved, misbehavior and regular problems can be the best way of showing interest in divorce.
In fact, some can just wake up in the morning and decide to cult of the Marriage without a single sign, this makes Marriage more scary to be in, in turn demoralizing some young aspiring partners.
So having a self aim or negative Intention contributes a lot towards fail Marriages in our world today. Before involving or engaging your self in such union, you just need to understand that Marriage is an everlasting union between you and your partner, so plan for it and have a positive aim and Intention for you and your partner. This will help you achieve this very task of making your Marriage successful and peaceful.
3: Influence Of Friends:
Most of us are too gullible to understand that what works for one, might not work for another. And again we are too gullible to understand that some opinion of friends shouldn’t be allowed in your life or Marriage.
Some of us get influenced in one way or the other, but in case of being influenced negatively towards our marital homes, we shouldn’t give the devil a single chance.
And mind you, always know the kind of friends you keep and people who gives you advise regarding your wife, husband or Marriage in general, some friends are just wolves in disguise. Because their so called “Friendly Advise” can hit your Marriage down. Just be wise and smart in handling issues and affairs of your home.
4: Families And Background Can Cause The Failure Of Your Marriage:
At times we don’t know our family, background and even our own parents can be the cause of our down fall in marriage.
To my best of understanding, MARRIAGE IS A UNION OF A MAN AND A WOMAN, and not a union of one family and another family. Your family, background and parents totally have no interference in your marriage especially in decision making.
They just play a lighter role towards helping you build your Marriage successfully. Any advise from them which doesn’t aim towards the growth of your Marriage should be disregarded and shouldn’t be tolerated because it is your responsibility and your Marriage, not theirs.
You should be much careful in taking some advise from your mother, father, family and siblings as some advise from them can hinder you from enjoying the beautiful bed of Marriage.
5: Cheating Your Spouse:
This is quite common in our society, isn’t it?, Sure it is. Lol.
This is a situation where one of the partners find a sugar cane outside the house and tries to chew it, meanwhile a honey pot is in the house to lick, aren’t they both sweet?
Cheating has become a viral situation in the society as a result of not being contented with what people have, and this goes a long way to devalue the moral of marriage causing it’s failure in the world.
BRIGHTWORLD
CONCLUSION
A lot of fail Marriages happening everywhere can be determined as a result of the societal values and ideas placed on us, but remember you have the power to project your life and your Marriage the way you want, just be different and always involve God in your marriage, the journey is quite tough tho, but with God in your side, it can be made easier and simple in your marriage.
Thanks for reading.
BRIGHTWORLD
Text Messages Freaky Cute Paragraphs For Him
You wanna freaky him up?, then this “Text Messages Freaky Cute Paragraphs For Him” is rightly for you.
As youay know, gone are the days when all task concerning Relationship both toasting, proposing, accepting or even freaking are done by the men only. The society now embraces gender equality as some says what a man can do, a woman can do it even better. Hmm
But in what area do you think a woman can do better than men in Relationship?, Is there any side of it specifically made for any gender?, Is toasting made for the men alone at the first place?, I really don’t think so. But the good thing is that the society has buckle up, the ladies now crush and toast their favourite boo, lol.
Good thing about this is that Amaka Won’t be getting shy any longer to say Romantic things to Emeka who she is secretly crushing on, or feel shy trying to confess her Love for him. Even when some may think this is part of the moral decadence in the society, I strongly believe and support that men shouldn’t be the only ones doing all this, from crushing to toasting and to proposing. If a lady has a feeling for anyone she should speak up.
But however, let’s just take some few Text Messages Freaky Cute Paragraphs Amaka can learn in order to shoot a nice shot to Emeka.
Text Messages Freaky Cute Paragraphs For Him
1: Hi Bestie, It’s Friday Can We Just Hang Out Somewhere To Chill And Have Fun
So I always hear people call bestie to wish them happy birthday or things related to that, even when some may have different name they call their best friends (whether male or female), but why not at times take it to another level with that bestie.
But wait, who is bestie?, Even when some may hang around with people who they are having crush on and call them different name from bestie, why not choke them some day with the above Text Messages Freaky Cute Paragraphs For Him?.
This might sound a little bit strange to him tho especially when you don’t call him that name, but the outcome will definitely be positive.
So instead of waiting for anyone to notice you, toast you or ask you out for some freaky day or freaky date, why not kick that plan first?, At least you read that first, so take the lead first.
Call him or text him, give him this cute freaky paragraph and wait for the outcome, lol always be ready shaa.
2: Hi Bestie, I Was Wondering If You Can Stop By At My Place Since I’m Just Alone
Imagine opening your phone and the first message you could see is this, what will be your immediate action?, Especially when it coming from someone you like or kinda having a mutual feelings for each other. Your immediate action may even be like that of spider Man or “flash” in the movie who can just move from one location to the other within a seconds. So trying this out may not really be bad.
Open your phone, get into your messaging app and hit that Text Messages Freaky Cute Paragraphs For Him and see him react as you expect, you mustn’t be a patient dog before you can find love, if love doesn’t find you, then go find love. BRIGHT TOBIAS Says so.
Conclusion
The above listed Text Messages Freaky Cute Paragraphs For Him are just few from many Text Messages Freaky Cute Paragraphs For Him and you can also formulate any freaky message and hit the send button, that love must happen. Bright Tobias says so.
Blooming Love Flowers For Your Lover
Sometimes while in pursuit of love and affection, free and open communication can be said to be the best as a close mouth is a close destiny just as some religious folks always say, but then this doesn’t apply always.
There are actually some communications that requires action over words coming from the mouth, and some of this communications can be found among admirers and lovers whose communication signs can be said to be displayed in a tactical and romantic way by just a presentation of blooming love flower.
This entails that sometimes, instead of heading over to someone you may have been secretly crushing on or wanting to mingle with and start throwing out everything in your mind which at that moment may sound like a heavy bomb blast to the one you are communicating to, a presentation of blooming love flower to him or her can just help you out make the proper communication without seeing a reason to be shy.
Blooming love flowers are beautifully and specifically designed for special kind of people and for a special purpose. I don’t really think anyone will be needing any further explanation from you when you hand them some of this blooming love flowers as it signifies love, attraction and affection.
Blooming Love Flowers For Your Lover
However, blooming love flowers can be a great gift anyone can offer to his or her partner as flowers signifies love and affection and continuity of unity and love.
Sometimes, buy some of this flowers and gift them to your partner, some people actually love getting flower gift from their partners during any love festive period like VALENTINE’S DAY, CHRISTMAS or during wedding or birthday celebration.
Although people have different choice of gift and choice of what they like and what they don’t, but I don’t really think it is everyone that want iPhones and other popular gift items currently in used. Some want to perceive that beautiful and romantic scent coming from booming love flowers to reassure you of love and unity.
Below are some of the viral blooming love flowers you can actually get for your crush, partner or lover. Or to that special one who has always been with you and stood by your side, blooming love flowers can be so great for them.
Mind you, you mustn’t be waiting until you have the huge amount for the latest iPhone before you can do the needful, you mustn’t be waiting until you bring the sky down to him or her before you can ignite the fire of love in your RELATIONSHIP or MARRIAGE. Blooming love flowers can help you do that at lesser words and stand more UNIQUE and attractive, so why not give it a try.
5 Things You Can Get For Your Partner On Valentine’s Day
So just as the Christmas season has gradually ended thereby leaving everyone in anticipation of the upcoming Valentine’s day which holds every 14th of February in a year, what special would this day be for you and your partner?
Valentine’s day as the teaching is best understood and explained, is a day for showing LOVE. There’s absolutely no specific type of love mentioned here or tagged with the Valentine’s day, but just LOVE and love alone.
This however, mean that this day is a special day for showing any kind of love you can ever think of. Be it showing love to one who you haven’t been kind to for a very long period of time, going out in the street to do some random giveaway for the homeless and orphanage, or even going on a romantic date with your partner to make them feel special, love and appreciated and getting some nice and beautiful gifts for them also. It all based on the area you are able to touch, what really matters is that you show love.
However, we are taking the romantic lane aspect of the “Valentine’s Day“. That is, we are more concern about the love aspect of partners who got into RELATIONSHIP for a common goal and aim.
It is in a day like this that you are meant to do something beautiful an go extra mile to spark and sharpen the love more as to keep the love flowing like a deep oceon.
How Can You Make Your Love Flow Like A Deep Oceon?
You may ask, how can one keep the love flowing like a deep oceon, well even when that may sound like a big grammar or musical rhyming words, it doesn’t make it unrealistic. But you can achieve that by doing those little things that you may think that doesn’t matter in your Relationship.
As we all know, Relationship is truly a beautiful thing and can be more beautiful adding with sweetness when you meet the right one for you. But however, the initial stage of every relationship is always beautiful and taste so much juicy, but the later days of it can also taste sweet or taste sour based on how you are able to make things up.
The later days is sweet based on how you are able to continue doing those minor minor and little little things you were doing when you both started newly or when you first meet him or her.
I guess when you both met in the shopping mall or somewhere else and exchange contact, you always call him or her at night to ask of how his or her day went, and you won’t let 14th of February slide by without getting flower or nice things to him or her. So now you both have spent months or years together, why do you want to be reminded about the 14th of February?.
Well forgetting it is just like forgetting your duty as a guy or as a lady, unless the financial aid isn’t right there at the moment, by so it can be more understandable than having the mentality that such things isn’t important any longer, Because it is.
5 Things You Can Get For Your Partner On Valentine’s Day
So for those still sparkling in their relationship and their love still flowing like a deep oceon, here are 5 Things You Can Get For Your Partner On Valentine’s Day to put that smiling face on his or her face.
1: Flower:
Sometimes some people underrate a gift of flower as they doesn’t see it valuable, eatable or usable, but there is a reason flowers are always used in occasions that involves two partners, even in marriage ceremonies, flowers are greatly in present not just for beautification alone, but to add some romantic vibe or scene to the ceremony.
Even some people that do go on a date, they would want somewhere covered by beautiful flowers as to bring that romantic scene needed in their lives, so if flowers can be chosen over valuable and eatable items, why do you still think that getting them for your partner isn’t a good one?.
Dear, buy some flowers, and send it to your partner on the 14th to see the smile on their face. Not everyone is ready for valuable items as you may call it or money as many may desire, some just want that Red Rosy flowers to hold onto and say sweet things to you…
So add it to your budget, BRIGHT says so.
2: Necklace, Chain Or Bracelet:
Sometimes while we plan for bigger surprises for our partners and get those plans failed and abandon as a result of financial instability and it’s relating challenges, thereby leaving our duties unfulfilled, we may end up shooting ourselves by the leg especially when our cakes get taken away and consumed by another who provides those little and minor things we see as nothing.
This isn’t to say that bigger surprises aren’t allowed or it’s bad, no, but it is important to know your level and never hang your cap where you can’t possibly get it down easily.
Consider getting a Necklace, Chain or bracelet for your partner and watch as that smile gushes out.
Some goes for customize necklace, chain or bracelet, but while the enough finance isn’t there to get your partner name written on the necklace, chain or bracelet, you can go for your reach.
However, as one who get such gift from your partner, expect less and appreciate more. The future hold something beautiful on the way, do not mount pressure simply because you aren’t given what you expect or want.
Better days ahead as they say, don’t you hope so?.
3: Clothes:
During the months or years of being with your partner, you may have known and seen the type of clothes your partner want and craves for, you can decide to launch it that day and gift them to your partner.
It mustn’t be something expensive though, just as you can afford. Be it singlet, bossers, pant or a beautiful out fit that can make that your partner jump over you and wanting to ride you like the horse of the house, lol, get them for your partner.
4: Food:
So while staying, enjoying and also sleeping with your partner under the same roof, you can’t possibly deny the fact that there are special dishes or even foreign snacks your partner want which most at times isn’t prepared at home or within the environment. You can decide to order for it and become the newest Santa Claus to your partner.
Something like Pizza can be a good choice, but depends on you tho.
5: ShopRite:
So if you don’t see the above four list attractive or not really your choice, then you both can go to ShopRite to eat and drink to stupor, have fun and visit other fun places like swimming and create a beautiful memories together.
This won’t just make the RELATIONSHIP flows like a deep oceon as I said in the beginning but it will also get you both drown. That is, it will lead you both from Relationship to engagement and finally MARRIED… That’s just what a little act of kind can do. It goes a long way to define the future, so take every 14th of February so serious and act cheerfully to your partner, thanks.
Important Notice:
- The above words, advise or article isn’t a gender based advise as there is absolutely no particular gender targeted when making this contents, it’s a beautiful advise for the both gender.
NOTE:
- Please note that getting a Valentine’s day gift to your partner doesn’t mean your partner is still a child or acting childish, because many have this ill thinking that it is only the kids that does Valentine’s day, while the matured ones or adults doesn’t.
Well you can think whatever you want, but just as doing those childish act (as some call it) makes your Relationship last longer and improve the love your partner has for you, don’t you think that those childish act should be embraced over the matured acts?.
Best Of LUCK to your RELATIONSHIP.
